Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder
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Posted:Sep 8, 2008 7:03 pm
Last Updated:Oct 3, 2008 4:30 pm
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Ok... So, I will start out by saying that I (indywife) have OCD.. Had never really pin pointed out what it was of course until later in life. The problem however, is not with me. It is with my , who is 10. I too believe he has OCD, and now that I look back, I think it started at a very young age. Of course I am not a doctor, and I don't even play one on TV. But from a very young age, he was obsessed with things.. like the vacuum. The just could not get it out of his head. There of course have been other things. More recently, he is starting to be a worrier
(more than normal, I think). It gets to the point where he really gets himself worked up about certain things. I just don't know, if are diagnosed at this early of an age, or if I am just reading to much into his behavior.. I just don't think it's normal for a his age to be worried about the things that he worries about. But I worry about taking him to the doctor, wondering if the doctor's will think I'm crazy. Does anyone have any suggestions or input into this matter. Has anyone ever had to deal with something like this?
Indywife
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I know everyone has one!!!!!
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Posted:Aug 28, 2008 6:41 pm
Last Updated:Aug 30, 2008 7:40 am
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Ok, I know this is a swinger site, but I am not talking about what all you dirty minded people think I am talking about..
I am talking about ex's. I know everyone has at least one ex, but what I am interested in hearing about are the crazy ex's. I heard this on the radio this morning and thought it was a very interesting topic. So, have any of you had an ex that has completely went crazy, done something stupid. So, anyone have any interesting stories that they would like to share.. Come on people, don't be shy!
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I NEED HELP!!!!!!!!
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Posted:Aug 14, 2008 5:11 pm
Last Updated:Aug 17, 2008 6:52 pm
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Ok... I am in need of some desperate help, and I know after you read this some or most of you will be thinking.... that this really does not call for desperate help... OH BUT I BEG TO DIFFER. So here is my crisis.. Indy mand and I have got a case of the poison ivy like no ones business... I (indywife) got it first, and now indyman has it..... and not only does he have it.. he has it in a VERY uncomfortable place ( i'm sure you can guess where ).. LOL. As it is not funny, I am desperately trying to find a remedy to cure the itching for both of us. If someone and I mean ANYONE has any suggestions, it would greatly be appreciated....
Signed
Itchy and Scratchy
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Hey Rocky- Watch me pull a rabbit out of my hat!
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Posted:Jul 4, 2008 4:26 pm
Last Updated:Jul 9, 2008 7:10 pm
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OK. It wasn't bullwinkle. It wasn't a rabbit. and it wasn't a hat. but it is a hell of a story.
We went to a little happy hour meet and greet the other night with our friends from the Indy Sex Freaks group. We were just at a regular bar. No sex club, no strip club.
As we are sitting there chatting, this girl walked near the end of our table. She was pretty good looking. Think Tawny Kitaen in the old whitesnake videos. Anyway, one of the guys looks down and she had cupped her breasts and were lifting and shaking them. That's how it all started. He yelled down at her and she came down and was talking to us.
She is pretty overdressed for the bar we are in. said she just left some kind of formal event. The guys were flirting with her. She was giving it right back, having a good time.
The topic turned to tattoo's and she said she had some. Her best one, she said, was a butterfly that was between the belly button and the privates. The guys (and girls) asked to see it. She said "I have on hose under this dress and no panties". Everyone said we didnt care if she didnt. After a sec, she decided to show us. She lifted up her dress and you could see all of her glory thru her pantyhose. OH yeah, she had a butterfly tattoo down there. Almost didnt notice.
It gets better
The conversation turned to what she does for a living and what she did for a living. Used to be a dancer. Says she was in playboy at one time (not really that hard to believe).
One of the guys puts a dollar in his mouth and tells her to come here. She said no and laughed. He pulled out a 20 and put it in his mouth. I am sure he was thinking of the old "breast squeeze" to take the money out of his mouth that most strippers do. She says, "I can't do that. I have hose on". It took it a minute for it to sink in. He said "do you mean you could take this money out with your privates???" She said yes, and that she thought that is what he had meant.
So then the talking really started. You could tell she wanted to do it, but was afraid to get caught. Then the ante was upped to $40 by another guy. Next thing you know, The guy is laying on the floor with two $20 bills in his mouth, she takes off her panty hose and basically crouches down like she is giving a moustache ride and pulls the bills out of his mouth with her pussy.  HOLY SHIT. Another thing that was funny is while she was doing it, she started saying- Let go, Let go. He must have been holding it too tight in his mouth. Hey it got him some extra time. So my wife and our friend Magical Stacie both get her email address and are going to try and get her to come to some group events to hang out with us.
Wow. What a night hanging out with a group of like minded, fun loving, sex freaks.
Thanks for stopping by!! 
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1 year and counting
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Posted:Jun 26, 2008 6:36 pm
Last Updated:May 14, 2024 1:53 am
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Our anniversary was within the last week. Some may say SO WHAT.....
Well, in the scope of this blog, it is very significant. It was a year ago that my wife had her first and most defining bi-sexual experience. If you haven't been reading since the beginning of the blog, I will give you the short version
Boy takes girl on fantastic anniversary evening
Boy and girl run out of things to do and the evening is still young.
Boy asks girl (with absolutely no expectation she would say yes) if she would like to go to strip club.
girl says yes
girl LOVES LOVES LOVES the feel of girls and their breasts
girl thinks about her lifelong suppressed attraction to women
girl and guy talk and decide to try the lifestyle
And here we are. a year later. We have only been on the site for 9 months, but we have had some success. A number of disappointments and have met a lot of wonderful people. Some we consider close friends now.
And we are still having fun and learning about our wants, and needs, and fantasies, and boundaries.
Our sex life is better than ever. Not counting any third party. Just us. And it is wonderful and we are happier and more secure with our relationship than ever. I attribute most of that to the increased communication that has went into this and the level of trust that we have built and continue to build.
Thanks for stopping by!
Sorry we haven't blogged much lately.
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How many times have you?
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Posted:Jun 11, 2008 7:35 pm
Last Updated:Jun 14, 2008 3:25 pm
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I am just curious on something here, and would love to get as many peoples counts as well. I consider myself to be a very lucky woman. In all my years of being sexually active, I have only been able to cum once during intercourse, now I know that this is uncommon, because alot of women cannot even cum at all during intercourse. Since I have gotten older and married to my soulmate who has absolutely no other interests in the bedroom except to satisfy me. ( I know ladies, I am VERY lucky ). I am able to have multiple orgasms, and it is freakin wonderful!!!! I feel like the luckiest woman on earth to be able to do this, so I am just wonderfing how many other women or men can have multiple orgasms? Step up and don't be shy!!!
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How many times have you?
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Posted:Jun 11, 2008 7:33 pm
Last Updated:May 14, 2024 1:53 am
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I am just curious on something here, and would love to get as many peoples counts as well. I consider myself to be a very lucky woman. In all my years of being sexually active, I have only been able to cum once during intercourse, now I know that this is uncommon, because alot of women cannot even cum at all during intercourse. Since I have gotten older and married to my soulmate who has absolutely no other interests in the bedroom except to satisfy me. ( I know ladies, I am VERY lucky ). I am able to have multiple orgasms, and it is freakin wonderful!!!! I feel like the luckiest woman on earth to be able to do this, so I am just wonderfing how many other women or men can have multiple orgasms? Step up and don't be shy!!!
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Kicking the Habit
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Posted:Jun 1, 2008 6:14 pm
Last Updated:Jul 11, 2008 2:36 pm
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Ok, so I smoked for approx 14 years. Many times I had tried to quit smoking. I think I have heard that quitting smoking is one of, if not the hardest addictions to quit, almost like kicking a crack habit. I had used patches, trying to cut back, all with no help probably 4-5 times. I have watched many people die with problems related to smoking, but for some weird reason it never phased me enough to quit. My aunt was diagnosed with cancer ( pancreatic cancer ) which is one of the worst cancers for treatment. I watched her slowly die in September of 06. I got to spend time with her before she died. I definately attribute that to my reasoning, or the beginning of my reasoning for quitting smoking. I was having ALOT of trouble sleeping before and after she passed. This led me to get sick, ( my immune system was down due to lack of sleep ). I got sick end of September, and I just did not like the way the cigarettes tasted. So I decided to try to quit. I put a patch on and slowly weaned myself off the patch on my own. Well it has been almost 2 years now, and I feel so much better. It is completely amazing how the smell of a cigarette can make me want to throw up. Now I am not one of those people who start preaching and think that I am better than anyone because I did it. I just know that I never thought I would be able to do it. I still have cravings sometimes, but the benefits far outweigh the cravings.
If anyone has any suggestions on still working through the cravings after 2 years, or would love to share their habit kicking stories. I would love to hear them.
Indywife
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Friends... How many of us have them.
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Posted:May 28, 2008 6:32 pm
Last Updated:Nov 5, 2008 7:56 pm
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OK. I love old and that is a favorite song of mine from Whodini. But the topic is not really about music (although I could talk about music all day and night)
The topic is friends, or my lack of friends.
I don't have very many friends. True friends. People I would call when something is wrong or that call me when something is wrong with them. I don't really have anyone (outside of family) that I can bounce ideas off of or talk about my triumphs, or defeats, the highs and lows.
I'm not sure why 
OK. I do know why. TRUST. That is something I don't have enough of. I am a very very skeptical person. I have the thoughts that everything happens for a reason and that when somebody does something that has a negative impact on others, that it is usually done out of some personal motivation and not truly selfless.
I know that nobody is always selfless. Even Ghandi wanted the last piece of pie sometimes I am sure.
I was raised to always be polite and welcoming unless someone gave me a reason not to be. I can say I don't have many (or any) enemies in this world. Most people that meet me really like me (as long as I talk to them and let them know me, and not the hard outer shell)
I think we all have had experiences that were less than favorable with friends, family, opposite (or same in some case) sex relationships. I have just become soooo truly guarded. I think there are a lot of reasons. Some go back to me smoking pot. Yes I quit a few years ago in case you wondered. But I always had to be careful about who I let in, because I didn't want people I worked with, or family to know about my vice.
But now I don't have a reason. I can tell you that I don't have any friends from gradeschool. I don't have any friends from middle school. I don't have any friends from high school. I don't have any friends from college. I had to quit hanging out with my pot smoking friends because I am still tempted. They had been my friends longer than anyone. I still talk to them every once in a while, but really cannot hang out with them for fear of slipping.
I have had friends in every phase of my life screw me over royally. From literaly screwing my girlfriends, to lying, stealing, talking about me behind my back, taking promotions that were meant for me after telling me they weren't interested. It goes on and on. Girlfriends cheating, using, taking advantage, taking for granted etc.
I really have 4 people in my life I would consider good friends.
One is my wife. She is my best friend. She is better to me and for me than anything in my life. She is like my oxygen. I can't breathe without her.
One is Magical Stacie. I love her to death. we have known her for less than a year, but she is one of the most interesting, caring, loving people I have ever met and I am lucky to consider her a friend.
One is my ex-brother in law. We started being friends when I was a and he was dating my sister and we have stayed friends through him and my sister divorcing and some of his health problems. Unfortunatly he is one of the people I consistently smoked with so I can't see him with any regularity.
One is an eccentric lady I work with. She is one of the most creative people I have ever met. Real straight shooter. Everyone loves her. She is great.
Thats it. If I didnt mention you, please dont take offense. That doesn't mean I don't like you or don't consider you a friend. It is probably that i have not opened myself up enough and let you get to know the real me and took the time to get to know you.
I know I need to get better. I have been coming out of my turtle shell more lately, with the Indy Sex Freaks meet and greets and things like that. I'm trying. I am just so skeptical and guarded from getting my feelings hurt, that it is really hard for me.
Thanks for reading!!
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Who would have thought I would be kicked out of the family
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Posted:May 26, 2008 8:35 pm
Last Updated:May 28, 2008 7:35 pm
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Ok, so I am having a rough time with this. I will give a little bit of detail before I start the reason to what this post is about.
I have lived all my life with a mother who is addicted to pain pills. Not the best life growing up. Now don't get me wrong, I had anything/everything I ever wanted. But having to grow up watching that was very traumatic to me. So she has been addicted since I can remember. We have tried to get her help several times, but as we have learned the hard way, the addict has to want help for themselves in order for it to work.
Well I have been distancing myself from her because I hate watching her like that, and I hate that my see her that way. Well, on Friday when I went to pick them up, my gave me a card and told me it was from my mother and she said I could not read it until I got home.
Wellll, I have opened the card and to my wonderful suprise was a Thank you card, but not just your normal Thank you card.. no no. A special one that on the front it said Thank You and under it, she had written For Nothing!!! Can you believe that. And it gets better, on the inside was a long note she had written. The highlights were "From now on when you call the house you need to speak with your dad, since you care more for him than you do me", and Thanks for telling the that I am a druggie. ( Keep in mind my is 15, and has figured this out on her own ). And although my is only 10 and he doesn't know exactly what is going on, he knows something is wrong. And then she proceeds to tell me that I no longer have a mother that I need to completely forget she was ever my mother. Hmmm how interesting. I was completely shocked and hurt. Well I will tell you for those of you who don't know me, I am a little bit stubborn and hard headed. I ABSOLUTELY will NOT try to fix this. I have not and will not call her. I am completely done with her, and don't know that I want to fix things. So if there ever does come a time that she wants to apologize....... well I am just not sure how that will go over!!! Thanks for listening to me vent.
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