I am married and not looking to change that. not getting what I need at home so am here looking to see what can be found to help me with this. Looking for someone that I can have fun with both in and out of the bedroom. Believe it or not it's not ALL about the sex. There has to be a connection for the sex to be fun. Not looking to meet and fuck, it's not my style. all though I have done this in the past it won't happen again. have learned the hard way. so if that's what you are looking for you need to move on. On a lighter note I'm funny and easy going. like to laugh and be silly. like the outdoors but also like some indoor activities as well ( if you know what I mean ). I think I'm worth knowing so hope to get to meet you and see what happens.

My Ideal Person someone who is easy going and likes to get to know you for who you are. not sending emails about what you want to do to my body when we haven't meet yet is NOT a turn on for me. save the dirty talk when we get to know each other. someone who likes to laugh and have a good time just being with you, if that ends up in bed all the better. someone who is confident about themselves. also can take charge in the bedroom sometimes. that can turn me on.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
The beach, An airplane, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, A swimming pool or hot tub, A store dressing room, An elevator

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Mutual Masturbation

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Joe Manganiello (Alcide) from True Blood. just looking
at the man turns me on.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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