I am only interested in a long-term relationship with loving communication and an environment where emotional, physical and spiritual growth will thrive. I live on a peaceful lake 5 minutes from the ocean and love the beach life. I have a female house mate that is my best friend, but nothing sexual and she is outgoing and loves do fun girly stuff. Our hearts are young and open. We are caring and passionate about life and live with integrity in a peaceful environment and don't except undo drama in our lives. Being happy and content is our mantra... though as much traveling as I have done....still have some places to go. Love to find someone who thrives on a partnership through communication and building a solid relationship. Must love hugs and a good kisser.. The first kiss will tell us most everything. His time is very flexible and plays a lot of Texas Hold'em. I hear that different drummer a great deal of the time and accept and like who I am. I am at my happiest when I am being creative. working in ......oils, glass, wood to name a few. Experienced contractor...so I like my home in good shape and that doesn’t mean I'm a neat freak. Love short and long rides on my motorcycle. I connect with animals and called a -Whisperer in the community. I am a confident man who knows the difference between dominant and domineering, who is eclectic,creative and sensuous. She is working and really enjoys what she does. She likes NASCAR, casinos, bingo and loves music. Likes going out dancing or just having a quiet drink along the water. She is a very good cook and more on the submissive side. We like living in a drama-free zone so open communication and willingness to share is highly valued. We are well traveled, fit spiritually and physically and both are important to us. If your a heavy drinker we may not be for you.... though we do believe that an occasional class of wine is good for you and even healthy or a drink after work, but I have been clean and sober for 29 years and not interested in someone who makes drinking a priority.

My Ideal Person Desire, loyalty, trust and honesty are important to you. Your needs and desires should come from within.. Respect and honor is something that comes natural to you, when you have found that the connection is real. Someone who is caring, open minded in and out of the bedroom. A sense of humor and the ability to enjoy life is important to you.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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