I (the woman in the couple) am looking for a second lover for a long-term relationship with me, and friendship with my boyfriend. I'm not sure it's possible to find the right man, but you never get a yes unless you ask. I want the three of us to be able to hang out, and eventually, I'd like it if we could live and travel together. You don't need to be any more than friends with my boyfriend, but if you are bisexual and are attracted, that's just a plus. You cannot be jealous of my time with him, and he won't be jealous of you and me. Though I'm sex-positive and can handle two men sexually, let's not make that the first thing we talk about. You and I have to have an emotional connection, and you MUST also like and have a solid relationship with my boyfriend. You guys need to be bros in your own way. I am NOT open to someone to replace my current partner, and as soon as it seems like you're becoming competitive or proprietary, we're done. All of this said, I do love sex- it connects us, and I love the energy as it builds between two people.

My Ideal Person A man who is emotionally mature and has done the work needed to grow, whether from therapy, or other tools for self-growth.

You need to be physically relatively fit and able to go on extended hikes and bike rides. I would love it if you liked to cook and travel. I'll add more in the coming days. Thanks!

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I am a temple goddess who welcomes men home from war. As they
enter, I decide what they to comfort or restore them-
a massage, a -tub, to be flogged, or to fuck hard, and
I send them to the appropriate woman, until I get to take
care of the man who needs my sexual talents!

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, The middle of a park, A remote wilderness spot, A swimming pool or hot tub, A store dressing room, An elevator, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Leather, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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