We are a blissfully married couple (she- 43 he- 48 ) into bdsm and power exchange. We are both straight and not interested in bi/ bi curious partners though intimacy around other cocks is never a problem. Most of our friends would say that as a couple we are (she- expressive/explosive energy particularly in intimate settings and he- witty and funny- sometimes cutting with people who lack substance). We are both fit and exercise regularly. We expect our sex partners to be active and healthy. We are very sexual and would enjoy finding trusted enduring relationships with other partners- ideally a FWB arrangement. She loves to be told what to do, dominated, restrained, spanked etc. We like our partners to be comfortable with adding to these dynamics but follow His (dominant) lead. Dominance is not sending us a juvenilely vulgar message of all the things you want to do to her. Manners are way more sexy and dominant. Bondage (cuffs, rope, another partner holding her down) is a normal part of our exploits. We are not looking for men that just need sex and/ or want to go off alone with her. MFM chemistry is mutual amongst all involved and hotter for it. Obnoxious egos are a total turn off. Quick Rules: 1. Must love to eat pussy 2. If you can't get it up, go down or be creative 3. Take off your socks 4. Dick pics are fine but a face/body pic should also be sent in the message if you want some attention. We are looking for partners that understand build up of a scene and can last. 1 hour is an appetizer. Spit roasting is warm up.

My Ideal Person We love the MFM triad. MFM is kind of like a three piece band, if you are only interested in your part, it wont work. Each player has to read the situation and add their piece to the mix. Solo artists need not reach out.

We are looking for men that are men, not some weak iteration of gender. We typically only respond to partners between 40-55 yo.

All partners should be free of any sexually transmissible diseases

Male partners should be ready to perform and excited about giving her oral. She loves to receive head and loves a man who has an interest in decoding her particular pussy.

She is generous in giving head, but not into bukake.

While she likes to be dominated respect is a must. Not into humiliation. We are there to ravage her.

Hard nos would be spitting in the face, urination, punching and otherwise overtly disrespectful acts.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Morrissey, The New Pornographers, Gregory Alan Isakov, The
National, Sam Cooke

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
We love the idea of her being fucked in all holes by several
men.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Leather, Latex, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Sexual appetite, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
her- Vince Vaughn- humor/ height him- Caitríona Balfe

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