Ok, so why have I come back?
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Posted:Nov 4, 2017 6:56 pm
Last Updated:Apr 26, 2019 12:22 pm
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Well...I have no clue.
Honestly I don't. But I figured I'd give this another chance.
Many of you won't remember me. I used to be here for a long time, and I had tons of blogs. But then I decided to leave. I needed the mental break from this place. Since then, I've done a lot of work on myself, soul searching, and mental examination of myself. I find it's good to reflect on one's self, examine what needs to be worked on in one's life.
Now from my last blog where I left. Did I mean that, and do I still mean it? Yes. My blog was meant for me and no one else. And it still does. Nothing I said has changed, this place is a popularity zone and trust me, I'm not competing for any prizes here. I just want to find someone, settle down, and the two of us can escape this place called dating hell and move on.
Will I find someone here? Hell if I know. But you can't hit any home runs if you sit on the bench. And I've been sitting on the bench for too damn long.
Other than that...I'm back. Like it or not. My blog is for me and me alone.
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I have returned...
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Posted:Nov 4, 2017 6:41 pm
Last Updated:Apr 26, 2019 12:21 pm
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I guess you could kick AGNJoe for returning.
But I'm back.
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I was born a ramblin man...(final entry)
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Posted:Jan 25, 2015 11:58 pm
Last Updated:Nov 3, 2017 10:11 pm
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Ok folks...
I turned 45 yesterday.
And as I promised, this will be my final entry. Some of you will not like it, personally...I don't care.
I've been here about roughly 7 years. Since that time I've met about 3 people from this site. Since that time, each person here that I've met...had lied to me about their appearance, their tastes, what they are, who they are, their pictures of how they look or looked, and anything and everything in general.
The other women I've talked to, with the exception of a few women, have turned out to be flakier than Tony the Tiger and his corn flakes. There have been very few women I could talk to or get along with. Others would take their hate toward men and direct it to me, even after I sent very nice messages to them. Even others were so warped that they wanted men to treat them like shit or be an alpha male and be dominant with them. And that's fine if that's what you want to do, but when a nice guy comes along, instead of politely saying "we're not the right type" they would go into a tirade of how soft and how much of a pussy-whipped man I was.
And then there are the men here. 90 percent of them here...dick picts. Way to ruin it and warp the shit out of the women here guys. I've met a couple of guys and interacted with them on a friendship level, very few of them were cool. The rest, well, they've ruined it for the nice guys here.
If you are a nice guy here, my advice, is not to be here. I'm sorry, but it's the truth because unfortunately, this site is a male dominated website in which forces it's propaganda that women need to be submissive, women like to be treated like sluts, women like to be abused and disrespected, and does nothing to counteract this.
But let's be real here. The ratio of this site is that there are probably 20 guys here to 1 woman. And women's blogs rule here anyways. Not that I was ever in competition with women's blogs, but let's face it, guys will do anything to try to get into a woman's pants. Oh and by the way, there are probably depending on the women's profiles here...the woman is bi/lesbian seeking other women to get their jollies, or it's a guy who is pretending to be a woman so he can trick men into meeting and then propose that he suck your dick because you are already horny, or it's the website keeping old profiles alive to propose that they have a huge amount of women here when they don't and it's a front to get guys to pay for the better memberships, or on the rare occasion, it's actually a woman. So in reality, it's probably 1000 to 1 you'll meet an actual woman here.
And some of you women are highly petty and compete for the attention of men. I remember meeting one of the women at the Chicago Meet and Greet who told me she was only there for the women, but would use men to get views to increase her blog and would play to men that she was interested, just so she could get the top spot here as top female blogger. A woman who was so vapid and vain, it made me sick.
Now with all I have said here so far, why did I stay for so long? Because I had developed friendships with some of the very few but real people here. And what was worse...some of these other fakes and flakes did everything in their power to drive these real people away from the site. Harassing them, insulting them, threatening them, which drove many of them away. One friend of mine who I keep in contact here from time to time still recounts how terrible they made her feel, the hateful things they said to her in her blog or messages sent to her. Another one of my female friends...she left completely as they hacked her account and I never heard from again. It still hurts because she never left a contact for her for me to reach her and I've never talked with her since.
I miss many of my friends here. Most of them have left. A very few have stayed because of monotony or habit. Which is why I tried to stay for so long, to a point to where I didn't want to come back. Nothing I was doing here was working to find a nice person with a overactive sexual attraction to who shared my likes and dislikes. I would e-mail or try to get the attention of 20-30 women a week and get absolutely no responses whatsoever to local women, and yet I would get contacted from women around the world. Why in the fuck would I have something to do with someone in the Phillipeans or the Middle East, or Argentina? Am I going to spend every dime I have to fly out and see these people? Does this site think I'm fucking stupid? And anytime I said negative things about this site, the rate in which I would get these messages would go up...dramatically. I would get several messages a day from people overseas. Like the site would do this to me publically to get me to leave.
Face it people this site is not here for adult hook-ups. It's a business to get horny, gullable people, men mostly to pay for memberships to keep the site afloat. It has no interest in changing whatsoever, and over the past several years, it has done even more to restrict people from finding ways to get around and restricting the communication of men here so that they can't contact you unless you PAY for the privilege to contact women here so a free member has to be forced to pay to contact people.
For the people I was and am lucky to count my friends, I will miss you. My profile will not be deleted. But my profile will be changed to reflect I am no longer an active member and that if you see me pop up as an active member, then it's the site's doing, not mine. I might pop on from time to time in case one of my former friends tries to contact me and at that point I will try to contact them back somehow or direct them to send me their contact info so I can reach out to them.
Oh and for my ex-wife and her family who have been spying on me here in my blogs, go fuck yourself, I've now reduced another way in which you can be privy to my life and what happens in it.
If you would like to contact me, leave your messages here in my private blog post with your contact info.
That's it. I can't say if I will be back to post more or not. Right now I need a long extended break from here. I need to get away from here and move on to more productive things in my life to improve myself and take care of myself on multiple levels. I think leaving here will be a good thing for me to do as I can focus more on myself, my family and my general state of well being.
If anyone here was offended by this, then take a look in the mirror. Take a good, hard look at yourself and think if this is what you want in life. I don't hate anyone here. I don't wish anyone her ill will or bad feelings. I wish everyone happiness, good health, and love, even if you think I've insulted you in some fashion or another. I would like all of us to be happy, but if you've done negative things in your life, the one thing I've learned is to recognize there is a problem, look for ways to fix the problem and then act on it. I'm no different than anyone else here, we're all human, we all make mistakes. It's how we learn and act to make ourselves better do we truly begin to find the redemption we want and need in our lives to become better human beings. Part of me needs that now. I need to seek a better way. And me leaving here for now is a good start.
Many of you won't miss me. Many of you won't even care what I posted here. Many of you don't even give a care about me. That's fine. This was not meant for you. My blog wasn't meant for any of you. It was meant for me. For me to find my way in life. To get better. Some of you who were here for me have helped me become better. For that, I am extremely grateful to have had you here to help me become better and to be a sympathetic ear for me to post my problems and troubles. And I want to say thank you, from the bottom of my heart for you to be a part of my life and to be a helping hand along the way.
There's an old saying....you are here for the people who love and care for you, the people who are your family and friends and people who have good caring hearts to help us all become better...the rest of you can all go fuck yourselves.
For me this means I am grateful for the people in my life who were there for me to help me become a better person. I still have a long way to go. But it's time for this rambling man to move on.
If you were a blog lurker or reader or participant, thank you.
I guess this is it. How to end this post? Like I've pretty much done throughout all of my posts....
Peace and God bless!
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