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i was just thinking
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Posted:Aug 18, 2018 12:21 am
Last Updated:Dec 16, 2018 3:33 am
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I must give my hat off to you men. and i know you know who you all are. you are the ones who sent me loving messages. you are the ones who read my profile and got what i wrote. but surprisingly, i am the one who got more out of your responses than i ever imagined.
i have been on NoStrings for over 20 years now and i have been lucky enough to meet a number of you in person and even luckier to have some of you as very close friends. Most of the people in my life today are guys I've met here.
i get a lot of messages telling me that NoStrings is not the place for someone like me; that all the men on here are just perverts who just want to fuck. Well....yeah ….i think i figured that out on my own when i joined this fuck site. And sure, there are perverts who just want to fuck; and there are guys who want something more; and there are guys who just want to be friends; and there are guys who are heart broken and jaded; and there are guys who genuinely care about other human beings; and then there are the few crazies and haters.
i have interacted in one way or another with hundreds and even thousands of guys here and i have not one regret. I enjoy the messages, the conversations and the connections. i have been able to network with some of you which has benefitted us mutually. i could not ask for more.
everyday i learn something about myself from your messages. i am the lucky one here. you all have helped me grow and come to peace with a lot of my demons. You all thank me for my honesty and tell me that i somehow inspire you. You have opened yourselves up to me and trusted me with your deepest darkest secrets....and i am truly honored. but it really is quite the opposite, i have been given a new perspective on life and i owe it all to the gentlemen i correspond with.
if i am sounding a little mushy right now it is because i am grateful.
for those of you who think this is not the venue for this kind of stuff...then please don't visit my profile anymore...just move on to the fake bitches on here and continue your fruitless quest.
for those of you who know who you are....i just want to say .thank you for making a profound impact on my life. thank you for giving me the insight needed to move forward and enjoy the life i have left.
and it is now that my eyes are tearing up and i will graciously say goodnight. Until next time.....
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NoStrings ROCKS!!!!!!
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Posted:Nov 23, 2016 9:53 am
Last Updated:Jan 15, 2017 4:19 pm
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MATCH.COM
I periodically receive messages telling me that this is the wrong place for me to meet people. that I should go to one of the more tame sites like MATCH.COM
as seen on TV for those looking for the "love of their life" or the "perfect match". ....or that I need to find god and let him in my life ......or that I just need a good hard fucking ......or a visit to the local shrink.
FUCK.OFF
WHATEVER! and FUCK YOU! to those who suggest that's where I'm better suited. I love NoStrings!! and I have had nothing but great experiences. I have met some of the nicest people here who are genuine, kind and have something to say.
WARNING.DDD
I don't regret putting it all out there from the start. some people have warned me that it was a mistake to do so. that I'm opening myself up for more hurt. quite the opposite has happened. my candor has allowed perfect strangers to be honest with me, open up to me, share their stories, their thoughts and their hearts. it's only proven to me that it is much more than meaningless "hookups" or "flirty" messages with fake ass people. somehow I have managed to get the attention from true gentlemen who have put their own agenda to the side for a moment to send nice messages reaching out and offering friendship, a shoulder to cry on, a listening ear and a caring heart. and yes.....I am often offered dinner, drinks and, of course, dick too. LOL
THANK.YOU
just want to say thank you to my NoStrings friends. thank you for the letting me know you. and even thank you to the ones who think I should be somewhere else. I love the honesty no matter what.
PEACE.OUT
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far from broken hearted
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Posted:Sep 8, 2014 6:19 am
Last Updated:Dec 16, 2018 3:37 am
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Some are misinterpreting the message in my profile. I am not referring to a simple case of being broken hearted.I see it happen everyday and i believe it's not that hard to get over somebody. If it is a failed relationship, then that's what it is. There's another one right around the corner just waiting to happen.
To clear things up, I will lay all the cards on the table. I have complex PTSD resulting from a violent assault and very serious injuries. most people don't know or understand the affects this type of trauma has on someone.
I know no one can "fix" me. I simply would like someone who is patient and willing to be there. A friend I can tell everything without hesitation and without fear. Someone I can trust to not give up on me.
I am not a wreck, a psycho, an emo, a broken hearted little girl, a hot mess or just someone looking for attention. I am a mother who has a good career, great friends and a nice life. I simply am trying to recover from this shit in order to have a happy healthy relationship someday. And that's very hard to do alone.
I have been lucky enough to meet a lot of very nice men here who really care and who have become friends of mine. Hopefully I have explained myself a little better here than I did in my profile.
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