Hey y'all! Hope your week is going well so far!

I have listed five "bucket list type of questions" below. If you were guaranteed at least one of the five happening, which one would you choose?

Please feel free to write why you chose what you did in the comment section. Also share any important thoughts and feelings about the other choices.

Have fun!

Ginger

Dear NoStrings friends,

Throughout my life I have been plagued by the question, "Is it possible to love more than one person at a time?" I have felt somewhat like a veteran asking it--and here I am asking it again. I've had to raise the question a lot because I have often felt the depth and awe of my feelings for more than one person at a time. I've often said that I think there are different types and degrees of love. But then there's that one love that takes you to the depth of your being, peering into your own soul and feeling joy upon realizing that the other person's soul resonates in you. It isn't just sharing a sense of humor and beliefs, or sharing mutually enjoyed activities. It's not even because you finally bed each other and find out that you rock each other's world! It's the discovery that both of you speak the same language, and of how far that ability can take two people to learn all about one another. It's amazing; it's scary; it's sexy; it's peaceful, when two people can connect so freely and open-heartedly about the parts of their lives, their goals and dreams, their caring for each other, etc. that it all just intertwines. This type of connection becomes harder to pass off as "just some different kind of love". No, maybe this connection might be the Real McCoy or this might be the soul mate that you shouldn't walk away from.

Well, Imma stop before I start thinking that I've got to define what Love is! You've just heard my opinions. Let's hear yours!

Ginger{=}

Hey, y'all!

Hope everyone is doing fine. Thought I'd shared some thoughts. This afternoon I started thinking about the various aspects of sex that I like, which is all of them Seriously, I realized how much my senses responded to the thoughts in my mind. I allowed myself the musing about those wonderful 5 senses that we all possess: taste; touch, sight, hearing and smell. Wow! Each of those would be a topic in of itself. Where would we be without the treasures that are our senses? Think about how powerful they are in relationship to sex! I bet we could all argue a case for which sense gives us the most sexual pleasure at any given time. I also think we wouldn't choose the same one every time. I bet we'd be hard pressed to decide which sense we could go without that provides its portion of our sexual pleasure. However, it can be fun to focus in on one and experience what that sense did for us at a particular time. I will choose one to share today!

My favorite one right now is smell. I went online to find what information I could find about smell in relationship to sex. I chose the focus/question: What does sex smell like? You can find article after article giving out the goods on this one! I found it interesting to read what this idea generated. For example, so often a person could walk into an unoccupied bedroom and instantly know that someone just had sex in there. How do you know? You just know! I'm thinking that there is a certain odor in the air and on objects that combine sweat, pheromones, other individual body scents, etc. Often you will hear the words "pungent" or "musky" to describe sex smells. I checked with old Webster and he didn't give any specific definitions that were very descriptive, although I liked the one that made reference to "Spicy suggests the pungent taste or fragrant aromas of spices". Okay. Ya da ya da ya da!. Smell held me captive today pulling me into memory and the realization that I LOVE the smell of semen. Ejaculate. Cum. By whatever name one calls it. If I focus on it enough, my recall allows me to actually smell it even when I'm not around It! Ooh, I feel a thrill; a rush of excitement; so much so that it's intoxicating! Say it's a pungent aroma. Salty scent. Musky odor. Say whatever. It goes right to the head (oh, now that's a pun!) I love to smell it on my body; on clothes, on sheets; even on the condom! And I don't wash it off me for awhile. If possible not until the next day. Along with a man's other natural scents and his cologne, I would be happy wearing nothing at all but that for 24 hours! So, think about what your favorite sense might be right now and enjoy where it takes you in your mind. The trip is free!