The need to submit
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Posted:May 8, 2008 4:09 am
Last Updated:May 8, 2008 7:03 am
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Acceptance
We learn from what we see growing up. There is conflict when what we need does not blend with our experiences. We are led to believe we can be totally honest with our partners, and we are bad to look elsewhere, but then find when we speak our truth they look at us like we're crazy and so they will not/cannot meet our needs. Worse, they consider us warped or perverted. I was taught all these "manners" things and it took many years to realize some women n-e-e-d to be dominated, given direction.
Very intelligent women react intensely to giving up control and surrendering, setting aside their logic and experience a very strong response. It may take time and a lot of trust. Have been a professor and knew many very bright women, many unfulfilled, unready to say to a man, take me, u-s-e me like a piece of me for your enjoyment...and feel shockwaves of excitement.
There is a real
fear of screwing up your family/commitment thing. You need protection from those who will condemn and misjudge, give you trouble at home. Dominated but at a safe harbor. Part of a M/s relationship is the discretion needed for a married woman who needs fulfillment but chooses to stay in the marriage
Once a fantasy...a long time daydream that becomes a wish and is now a need that you think about all the time. You cannot stop thinking about it, and even thinking about it makes you feel alive and wet. It is a process of letting yourself go, surrender to the inner needs....holes that need filling...tired of wussy husband boy kissing your ass to please you when deep down you need, at least some of the time, to be TAKEN, to be treated like my slut, my owned piece of ass.
What other animal feels guilt after fucking? Do not say it is wrong like other needs - the need for more than one cock at a time, or to experience what another feels like in bed. These are our natural needs.
Write me if you feel the need
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