Every day there seems to be a new confused, conflicted male sub who is fighting his submissive desires because they dont match societies expectations for being a man. As if you cannot be a sub and a man at the same time. How can one be a man and not be in control?How can one be a man and expose vulnerability to someone else? I have never read of any female dominants who are conflicted about their desire to be in control, despite society telling women to be docile lambs that listen and obey. There's not really any disparity between being a dominant and being a woman like there is for being a submissive and being a man. The only thing we get in this regard are women not wanting to be like the female dominants in porn. But maybe in a way this is the same? Do women just have more leeway in this regard - women are more accepted to having different sexual orientations and roles than men? Or maybe dominants have more leeway - dominants don't have to have any worries about being accepted by society, since they're naturally at the top anyway?