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Finding the sex I desire
Posted:Oct 30, 2019 10:40 am
Last Updated:Nov 12, 2019 8:03 am
Miss Flower why you no meet anymore

That question I receive weekly on here, even though my profile is clear that I am not meeting I still get the question.

This site promised me the sex I desire, you know the hot, passionate, mutually satisfying and pleasurable kind of sex, what I found was a bunch of hole hunters looking for mechanical sex. completely different things IMO.
Sure for the guy it may be hot sex every time he has sex, but if he doesn't even notice that I'm not even involved in the sex hes doing then its mechanical. Yes I have gotten up and walked out on bad sex, I have tried stop them and redirect, but they are going to do what they need to do to get themselves off.

And with more than one person stating that I shouldn't look on here for ongoing or passionate sex I started looking on other sites. With just really old guys, really young guys, or recently divorced/separated guys looking at my dating profile I'm still spinning my tires in the mud.
Where do you find that hot, passionate, lusty, fun, adventurous, mutually pleasurable and satisfying sex, that may also include conversations, occasional dinner in or out, or fishing or something interesting.
Certainly not on the paid dating sites, not on here, not on the kink site, and in real life I see mainly women at events. I have never been to a sausage festival where many claim lots of men go to events. Lol

So where??
Where do you find men with working libidos and still open to sexploring. Into sensual massages, toys, foreplay, oral, some kink stuff.
Which site? Which city? What age?

I have read a few blogs now about this kind of futile search for a connection. So I'm not alone in my search. Daily I see it on the kink site, women over 40 searching for the better experience, and having a hard time finding men.

This site promised me the hot sex I desire, but its just as much of a lie as offering guys free sex workers for joining.

When I ran out of men and hit the bottom of the barrel (meeting with a bad-pic-penis profile) I took a long step back and decided to stop meeting certain men.
Now I only look on paid dating sites.. which we all know has not been working either. Lol

But they took my gold membership away, so now I can't even look at videos.
Makin a list...
Posted:Nov 15, 2015 9:22 am
Last Updated:Nov 11, 2019 7:59 am

And checkin it twice
Goin to try to keep everything nice
List of blogs, thoughts, pondering, wishing, and daily fun...

The Fun Stuff - about me

On sex The kind of fg I need __ Sexy sounds he makes -- SomedaysConstant state of arousal -- Intimacy and the moment __ What kind of style __searching forThe other side to casual fwbs

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My kinks: [post 3985069]
Alternative thinkin are you kink friendly update2016 __ Just a view into my kinks
Kinky search, for me and for you __The list __ My kinks bondage
Orgasm study__ Orgasm study__Kinky mind for me

My searches: not currently looking for anyone new.

Tongue Goes in First tonight__Squirty needs towels__Flirty Friday __Sinday morning and The list
another day done__Finding your MOJO
Sinday mornin __Seems I have __ confidence and attraction are they two different things
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Sexy saturdaypenis thoughts__ Adventures in dating land for tues__Mornin ladywood
Carpet service required__Sinday mornin well lunch time__Sex chat __Thirsty Thursday free time
world of words __ Logical right__Friday __ What kind of style
Strokin wat __Where o'where are you hiding

Just for daily FUN
Finally Friday__ Just another day in paradise __ Saturday free time
another chilly winter night j14n16 __ Sexy saturday night j3n16
Posted:Nov 20, 2019 9:36 am
Last Updated:Nov 20, 2019 5:54 pm
'Age is just a number'
Shouldn't, wouldn't, doesn't, __ matter.

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Building a sunroom
Posted:Nov 16, 2019 5:22 pm
Last Updated:Nov 19, 2019 1:16 pm
So, I'm going learn be a carpenter or handyperson at least. Lol

Something about measure twice n cut once.

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Mud on my tires
Posted:Nov 14, 2019 1:08 pm
Last Updated:Nov 16, 2019 9:01 pm
Its a Thursday in the badlands
Little snow, little bit of rain, some ice, and a whole lotta mud.

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Sinday sexy
Posted:Nov 10, 2019 6:56 pm
Last Updated:Nov 12, 2019 7:04 am
Country style

So lets see
What is on mind today, not a whole heckuva a lot. Just puttered around and fixed the sheep pen fence getting it ready for winter and the subsequent visits from predators.

Other than that, thoughts of sex have crossed mind. Though not as often right now because there hasn't been much for any potential dates, but it is a quiet time of year for men anyway.

So that's not fun, at all, lets see, I've been reading and following several kink bloggers, in turn I have definitely had a few eyebrow raising and thought provoking moments.
Most of those women I read about are attractive, caucasian, over 40, in varying stages of sexual explorations in life, and when they reveal a few bad experiences or other lesson in dating... it gives me insight into thier otherwise perfect sex lives and great interactions with dating.
Shocking I know, but then to see similar comments all sharing the kind of experience, all those attractive women being given the double standard with sex, ghosted by someone, shamed for thier sexuality, and so on.

I still find it incredulous at times, but I do click on several of those profiles that have left those comments and see those beautiful women being treated that way blows mind...sort of. 🤯🤔

I mean I don't understand why men would do that attractive women, yanno, ghost them or shame them for thier sexuality.

But then patience for this dating game is running short, or it ran away, or the other..lol
I guess it would be more fun if there where a huge amount meet with but when you see the t.en or twe.nty profiles it gets a little mundane.

Anyhoo, it's a little rambly tonight, ya just a little.
But if those beautiful women are having difficulty with finding good sex partners, kink partners, and dates, then where does that the rest.
Cup of tea
Posted:Nov 8, 2019 11:21 am
Last Updated:Nov 9, 2019 7:46 pm

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Too old for sex
Posted:Nov 6, 2019 11:51 am
Last Updated:Nov 8, 2019 12:30 pm

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Dating in general
Posted:Nov 5, 2019 11:07 am
Last Updated:Nov 5, 2019 6:00 pm

When you get s.o.o used t.o the flakes and the lame cancel dudes that when someone does actually show up t.o meet you are automatically wondering "what is he hiding? "

Or 5 mins into a great start he says:
"Oh by the way, I have a gf/wife/"friend" hopefully you dont mind"

But ya,
When disappointment is the new normal with "dating" you really start to wonder w.h.y people bother. Pro services are definitely becoming a viable option for me.

Thirsty Thursday
Posted:Oct 31, 2019 6:36 pm
Last Updated:Nov 2, 2019 11:46 am
It's been one helluva a week, and I'm glad I have a 3 day wknd.

One of those weeks where the desire for touch and sex is coming to a peak. But ever time I look on the dating site my brain says nope just as fast as my ladybits. Granted the last few guys just wanted online play, yawn, wtf such a waste of time and energy just to roll my eyes.

But ya, the touch deprivation is running deep this week.
There may be a break finally in western canada, as I found one place that works with sex surrogates. Though they are on the island, so you can triple whatever costs that are going to be incurred with travel and accommodations.
Somatic sexual healing, hopefully that fixes and erases all the bad dates I've experienced.
Lets just say that everything I needed to learn about men I learned on this site, and ok include dating sites. Lol

So searching for those places where I can find the better experiences.

I can't be the only one that wants to enjoy passionate mutual pleasure.

Needs to be some hedonism planet out there.
Though having to finally meet someone that enjoys my sexuality would be friggen awesome. To not face the ridicule, the derogatory remarks, the humiliation, just because I enjoyed sex.

One day.

I imagine y'all are loaded up on the dates for the weekend!

Out in the boonies, nada, but I may go out target practicing or something, burn some slash piles... oh and that kink party I can't forget about.
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Moanday thoughts
Posted:Oct 28, 2019 4:42 pm
Last Updated:Nov 5, 2019 6:38 pm
And being forward with my intentions.

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Straight forward requests are reserved for established partners, I don't approach men I have not met with like that. Plus lessons learned that most don't want to hookup and be expected to put effort into the sex. Lol

Sinday sunny sinday
Posted:Oct 27, 2019 4:03 pm
Last Updated:Nov 5, 2019 1:40 pm
Though I had color my hair this afternoon it was still a nice day outside.

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