Help,I need an image consultant...lol
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Posted:Sep 9, 2020 8:05 pm
Last Updated:Sep 12, 2020 7:15 pm
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Ok ladies,I am here to ask three simple questions
#1...What does a man do to show that he is kind,compassionate,sweet,honest and caring"
#2...If I make a comment on your profile,a picture or a video and I get no response,am I to believe that you're NOT interested?.
#.3....I have never been a "fancy dresser"...I've been a biker virtually all of my life(first bike when I was 10,first Harley at 14) and I've always been a "workin' stiff" ( 30 + years in the seat of a truck)and an out doors kind of guy...I've been told that my style is almost cowboy/biker/lumberjack/trucker...and although I like to get dressed up once or twice a year ( I own 1 suit,a black blazer and 2 pairs of dress pants) generally I'm a jeans,flannel shirts waffle knit long sleeve shirts, T's and leather,vests and jackets. I wear sneakers,work boots or cowboy boots and don't own a pair of truly dressy shoes...so the question is....Do women find men who wear suits and ties and expensive dressy "casual" clothes more attractive than an average working man?...
I really need some answers on this because I just don't seem to be putting out what ladies are looking for.....I'm not saying I'm going to change, but I need to know whether I should just quit pounding my head into the proverbial brick wall...maybe there is another site (I've been on 2 or 3 different ones before and did OK) that more fits who I am and what I have to offer...maybe a masculine,slightly dominant,intelligent guy on the other side of 60 ,with a Grampa-bod instead of a six pack isn't sexy or attractive anymore....please help me out ladies...do an "uneducated in the ways and wiles of women" old guy a solid......stay safe y'all and peace out
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So many questions,so few answers....nobody willing to say.
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Posted:Sep 7, 2020 1:11 pm
Last Updated:May 4, 2024 12:7 am
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I have been on again this AM and I have had my interest piqued on 2 or 3 occasions by the same particular thing.....women don't seem want men my age who are normal,average guys. I'm 62 (just turned) I worked for over 40 yrs,either in the military or in the civilian world...I am retired due injury(a disability pension and my savings) so I'm not rich. I am over weight (but not gross),and I'm relatively sane and intelligent. I'm NOT a movie star or a rock star,I'm just an average looking guy.I at least have the guts show my face,something I notice more and more that women don't seem do...I want see your faces and your eyes as much as your tits ,your pussy or your ass ladies,so be fair,you almost all complain if a man doesn't have a face pic,so like I said last blog...show your face if you want see mine.
As for sex,sexuality,and what we all want....again,if you want know what I want without having ask,READ my profile (ALL of it)...and make sure yours is filled out as well (again,ALL of it)......I'm going expect that this rant won't get anymore action or understanding as any of my others,but I hope somebody reads it and realizes what I say has a great deal of merit.... also.....I notice a lot of men saying they are always good go as long as they have their little blue pills (Viagra I'm assuming)...well,I'm here gloat a bit,I'm 62,a bit busted up from a bike accident,but I have never had use a pill get hard or stay hard...and I know what a g-spot and a clitoris are,where they are, and I absolutely know how to make the best use of MY tongue and fingers and cock,and toys on them...so don't let the age fool you, or the fact I use a cane from time to time...because you just might be surprised...in a very,VERY good way.''
So ,enjoy the days of summer,stay safe....and if you're here on Adult Friend Finders...be adult,respect goes a long way.....Peace out.
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You show me yours,I'll show you mine.
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Posted:Sep 5, 2020 9:08 pm
Last Updated:Sep 7, 2020 3:35 pm
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I have recently come the conclusion that A.F.F's can be a very one sided place be. It is extremely oriented towards the women,and although there may be a large differential between men looking and women looking the one thing I find aggravating is something that I see about 75% of the time on women's profiles. "Men,if you DON'T have a face picture,don't bother contacting me" or " No Face pic,No answer" is standard stuff on profiles,and yet on almost every one of those same profiles,the poster only has pictures of her boobs,her pussy,or her ass...or a combination there of....and it feels kind of disrespectful AND is a huge double standard. I like to see the faces of the women as much as they like to see the faces of the men, I am a fella who loves eyes,and believes that you can tell a lot about a person from their eyes and the way they smile....I'm OLD,Fat,and FUGLY as a mud fence,but I show my face and I'd like to same in return...I love tits and ass and pussy, but come on gals,I want to see your eyes and smiles as wel.so ,make ya a dea.You show yours and I'll show you mine...Ok,rant over....I hope y' have an awesome,safe,sexy and sinful Labor Day weekend....Peace Out.
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One giant step for mankind...lol
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Posted:Sep 4, 2020 10:40 am
Last Updated:Sep 4, 2020 2:43 pm
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I haven't been here again for awhile and I decided if I was staying I might as well go all out
and add some pictures of myself...big step for me,and I guess the next step might be go
GOLD, knows ?
Lot's of new stuff going on...a big move last week and another 12lbs weight loss,and I've
even given my self a stern talking and motivated a new attitude...I'm STILL waiting for the
spinal surgery,but I figure WTF...I'm as good as I'm gonna get...lol...still use the can a lot,but just as good as I once was in any other position besides standing str8 up...I'm really tired of this plague thing we are all having deal with,but then I'm damn sure everybody is feeling
the way....I use 1 form of social media(besides NoStrings) and I listen people rant daily about how the pandemic has affected their lives...some think 's all 100% BS and a conspiracy,others are damn near paralyzed with fear...some wear masks,some refuse,some do it if it's convenient...IMHO...it's real...AND a real pain in the ass,but it is what it is and we all have deal with it...and in lays the big question, how do we deal with dating,casual or otherwise...with or without sex involved,in the Year of the Plague 2020?....If you read this and you think you have an answer,or something that's working for y'all...let a fella know...'cause damn,I'm OLD and kinda out of the swing of things and could really use some ideas for the NEW WORLD ORDER of things.......y'all stay safe&sexy.....and have a great freekin' weekend....btw,this is me putting ME out there.
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Not ready for prime time...lol
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Posted:Feb 12, 2020 4:45 pm
Last Updated:May 4, 2024 12:7 am
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It has been awhile (again) since I entered these not so hallowed halls and it makes me wonder sometimes why I come back in at all. It never seems to change a whole lot,even the "New" profiles that are listed on the home page are basically the same as when I was here last in December(?).....some very pretty faces,some rather intriguing body parts, a couple of interesting bio snippets but at the same time,very near the exact same as before. Now I know that could be different if I was willing to spend the money the site requires to become a Gold member (shades of Austin Powers) but in actuality I balk at spending money that (and this is from experience here) that basically just gets me more pictures and bios but little else.
I think the 200's have become the decade of living vicariously through technology. You no longer have to leave your home for anything,because anything (including intimate interpersonal relationships ) can and are conducted online. I read a report the other day that the instance of STD/STI/VD has dropped significantly in people over 35, and that even though younger people seem to be getting them on a fairly regular basis ( is it still the old I'm young,I am invincible,I'll live for ever mantra rearing it's not to intelligent head)...we of the generations prior to Millenials seem to have gotten smarter,more healthy and sexually aware, we use protection NOT just to stave off unwanted or unplanned parenthood,but to protect ourselves from disease and decay while still being able to enjoy (or at least attempt to ) our sexual primes. We have even taken that one step further with the invention of " The Web" , being able to screen further our potential partners or ,in some cases, do without them entirely by simply turning on to the ever readily available myriad overflow of the cornucopia of modern pornography,that which is so readily available at the click and glide of a friendly mouse ( ya,even Mickey gets involved some times...lmao)
Porn is free (again,unless you feel the absolute need for premium smut) free from cost,free from guilt,free from the risks of your health...but also free of the one thing that I and I hope many of you ,my dear NoStrings cohorts, are really,truly searching for...HUMAN interaction...whether it be 1 on 1...a small intimate 3some, or a whole warehouse sized adult free-for all lolapolooza gang bang orgy...real skin on skin,eye to eye, penis to ...well...I guess any available orifice (depending on sexual preference and kink), that contact that makes us realize we are still alive and living among others that also crave life,adventure,laughter,romance, and the ever elusive,but universally sought after ...LOVE....and so we are back to where this ramble started, finding what we are looking for,seeking what may be unattainable,unavailable,...or ,even when dangled blatantly and unabashedly in front of our faces,unseen...without having to pop out the old Mastercard/Visa and shell out hard earned $$$ just to find companionship and get laid....something that we should be able to do legally as consenting adults anyway. If we want to post pictures of ourselves,clothed,semi draped, or absofuckinglutely stark naked,we should at least be able to know that even folks who don't have a lot of money, or a credit card, can see what we have to offer and are willing to share, without the constraint of a contract or pre-payment schedule.....and so I say, make sure that the "NEW" are actually new(lets say 2 weeks max) and that if a particularly cute and sexually attractive ,but financially encumber lass may want to look at, get in touch with, and maybe even get together and rock this old curmudgeons world, she has as much ability to do so as the holder of a ubiquitous piece of plastic with some silly coded numbers on it...I mean ,who knows, maybe your future partner in lust and sin ( and mentally stimulating conversation,gods forbid) has to decide between keeping the lights on,feeding themselves and loved ones, getting to and from their employment OR paying to look at some slightly fuzzy and out of focus pictures of you on a payed site... just your luck...life comes first...so come on ,let's make it easier ,maybe then we'll all find our Adult Friend peace out y'all
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Merry Ho Ho !
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Posted:Dec 24, 2019 5:53 pm
Last Updated:May 4, 2024 12:7 am
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It's been a minute since I've been here, some health stuff and just general crap has kept me really busy,but I wanted to get back before the end of the decade and wish all of you a very and steamy Christmas and a wet and wyld New Year. Things always better in January ,even ...lmffao.  
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What do you get for the cost of #GOLD?
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Posted:Nov 10, 2019 8:40 pm
Last Updated:Sep 9, 2020 8:08 pm
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I've been back on the site a week now and have noticed an extremely perplexing thing, on the front "Activities Page" the same 12 women show up on the " who's online right now", the "new members", and the "members in my area". Now,not the same women in all 36 frames,but the same 12 in each of the 3 different areas,and I'm starting to wonder why,and if ,after over 91/2 years away,there are just so few actual real people here in Canada (Ontario in my case) that actually feel the need to expand their collective horizons, that the people that ARE on the site feel that they need to be there 24/7, or whether there is just not enough life left in us here in the Great White North.
2 or 3 times I HAVE noticed a change in the "who's online now" part, but only because I've notice a particularly sexy woman from a little north of my area is on for a bit...she spreads JOY when she's around so it's always pleasant to see her,and that alone may push me to buy a GOLD membership...lol. I would like to know whether this is just some space/time anomaly, or whether most of the other people,men,women,and couples are all in happy,sex and fun filled relationships,or if it's just me and I'm not looking at things with the right attitude.
On another note,tomorrow,November 11th, is Remembrance Day and as a a veteran, I know where I'll be at 11:11,do you?...there are so many reasons not to attend a Remembrance ceremony, but there is 1 very ,VERY good one for attending, some one you know or knew, somebody you love or loved, some one you are or were related to either served or is serving to make sure that you are safe, and can live the life you're living...wear a poppy,thank a veteran, and attend a ceremony at a local cenotaph..."LEST WE FORGET !"......So have a good night,a great day tomorrow...and smile, it make's them think you're up to something! 
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HMMMMmmmmmmmmm???
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Posted:Nov 6, 2019 7:46 pm
Last Updated:Nov 12, 2019 1:05 pm
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Today has been an interesting mix of "Oh Shit","WTF?"and even some "Oh YA,I remember that now"....and most of that surrounded me getting ready to my house...a place with a giant shit load of great memories and some very dark,sad, and chaotic memories as well. It's got to go,because it's just too big for me, and I could never keep moving forward with my life if I hung onto it.
On top of packing,cleaning, and generally running around like a crazy man I had to stop and spend an hour trying to explain it all to my late wife's best friend,she who thinks being disloyal,unfaithful, and disrespectful to the memories of my wife. I thought once that she had started to understand,but then she just went all "You are a fucking ignorant, un-caring bastard" on me and stormed ...oh well, least she's got her BF to go home to and whine , still left here trying to move on.
I guess it's par for the course, I've heard from more than a few of our friends that they think doing the wrong thing, or that I should at least put the place up for rent instead of it,because then if I meet someone, I have a nice home to take them to,except that is never going to happen because I could never do THAT to my wife ,our family, or the amazing memories we made while we were here...so , as one of my favorite Bob Seger songs says..."here I go,TURN THE PAGE"....and I move on to tomorrow,you know,the one that never comes, with a good long in my rear view mirror and then focusing my eyes on the horizon, I'll get through whatever comes at me . I know it helps to be able to write this stuff down,get my little rant, and maybe,just maybe,if anybody has any feedback,or has been through this stuff, I'll be able to get some insight, a bit of empathy, and maybe even a sweet,soft shoulder to lean against when things get a little weighty...who knows?.....Thanks for getting this far and I hope,not being bored...y'all rock !!
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The Edge of WTF?
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Posted:Nov 5, 2019 9:06 am
Last Updated:Nov 7, 2019 5:59 pm
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So I thought I had a date this weekend , but I had a call from the lady about 45 minutes before we were supposed to meets saying that she had been chatting with an old FWB and he asked her out that night as well and she decided to go with the known commodity instead of trying out an unknown one...she apologized,said that if it didn't work out she'd "call and maybe we could hook up"...I said no,I'm pretty sure I'm busy,wished her a pleasant evening,a happy life and hung up. I held the phone in my hand for a couple of minutes,kind of letting what happened bounce around inside my head,and then I just burst out laughing...she actually figured I'd understand and maybe even hang around and wait for her to call with sloppy seconds... and that made me wonder, is it now,in 2019, normal to give virtually NO notice (when it's not an emergency) and expect the other party to accept the obvious slight and just be OK with it?
If this is one of the new realities of dating,hooking up,fucking, I don't think this ol' red neck is gonna be down with it. It may not be normal anymore but I was raised to be polite and respectful of others feelings,even if I was dumping on them or letting them down. I really like honesty , but damn, in this case she should have just lied and said she was sick,or had to work, or her died...I really didn't need to know that I'd been knocked back to second choice,especially on what was going to be my 1st date in 10 yrs...kind of kicking the old guy when he's down...lol
Anyway...I'm hoping that was my WTF moment for the rest of this week anyway, but I have the distinct feeling that this new reality of trying to date,enjoy a sexual life, and just generally be "normal" again is going to hand me a few more bumps and bruises to my ego and my entirely too ,dare I say naive , sense of understanding of the new nature of human intercourse.
If I'm wrong, and this instance was just a one off, if she was just an uncaring, selfish bitch,then I'm ok with that, but if this is the way everybody has become,maybe I'm just not ready for reality quite yet. So,if y'all are reading this and you think I'm just too sensitive,let me know, and if I need to re-adjust the way I look at things,let me know, and if you think maybe I did the right thing and politely told her to go fuck herself, also let me know...because, right now, I'm just WTF? and FTW!...and working hard at understanding and being ...Reanimated.
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Been here,done that...lookin' at it again.
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Posted:Nov 2, 2019 10:21 am
Last Updated:Nov 7, 2019 8:46 pm
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So,as my user name implies, I am Reanimated. I suppose that means starting over to most people,but to me, it kind of means just starting up where you left off. I was here many yrs ago,met some very cool folks and had a pretty good time. I met someone (not from here) and we had started a great life together,but ...I lost her, and without her my life kind of just stopped,stagnated, and eventually just became a life I was living day to day,because,well,that's what we do ,we breathe,we eat...we go on....it's not really living,it's existing.
To our friends,I became the "widower",the survivor, the partner to be pitied, worried about, checked up on every few days,few weeks,few months...I have never felt old,or like I was a burden until after my partner passed,then,...I felt ancient and like I was an albatross,you know that damaged single friend NOBODY knows what to do with...so I became a loner, an eat alone, sleep alone, even mourn alone kind of guy,one who just digs a hole,climbs in, and pulls it in around themselves to keep the rest of the living world at bay.
But that's not me,not who I am,who I was, or who I wanted to be going forward , and it's not who she would have wanted me to be either. So, after a time when all I wanted was to be alone...now, I'm on the other side,looking at life again,seeing what is out there,what I missed, and what is new in the time since I was here last...over 9 yrs ago.
I haven't added any pictures yet,because a) I don't have any new,just me pics...b) I now live in an area where a lot of people know me because it's a small community and my late wife's home town...and c) because I'm not quite sure yet what I'm doin' here or if this is where I want to be...but I will decide soon, and when I do,I'll add some pics ( some old ones so some of you who are still around will recognize me and some new ones so you can see how age,injury, and the slow but relentless movement of time changes us...I'm way older now than I was, and it shows...my mind wants the same things but my physical body isn't always as capable as it was'
So anyway, it is good to be alive again, and I have realized that I miss interaction with people, both mental and ,not to surprisingly, sexual...so let's just see where this path takes me...and who I encounter along the twists and turns.
I will be getting a GOLD membership in the next week or so,I'd forgotten how important that was,as a "Standard" member,you can't do shit...can't talk to somebody who interests you,can't look at their bio's and can't even read a message when you get sent one by somebody who just likes what you've written sight unseen. It's not like gmail, free and easy to use,but it is a little more exciting so I'll put up a 3 month membership fee and see what happens.
If you've read this far and haven't fallen asleep,it will get better...and the trip might just be worth it,so stick around,I'll try and put something new here every couple of days and keep you posted on the goings on...but for now,....Hasta la bye bye!
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