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Okukyalira Ensiko, the Buganda art of enhancing sexual pleasure
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Posted:Jul 4, 2014 8:37 am
Last Updated:Jul 25, 2015 8:42 am
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Humanity’s pursuit for merit is not restricted to the open. Even in utmost privacy, when the matter at hand is entirely the business of a secretive twosome, mankind has always sought to excel and impress.
To many men, performance must impress even if it means applying drugs as dangerous as Viagra, Levitra and Cialis. Many others have tried hazardous penis enlargement products. It is women, however, that have come up with the most creative and most awesome ways of enhancing their sexual performance.
n some cultures, glitters and jewels are applied down there to boost the area’s attractiveness. In parts of East and Central Africa women invented a sexual stimulus method that the people of Buganda came to know as Okukyalira ensiko.
This tradition of pulling and elongating the parts of the vagina variously known as labia minora, inner labia or inner lips enjoys pervasive reverence in central Uganda. In western Uganda, women of the Bahima clan used to make their labia minora long enough to cover the vaginal opening, raising barricades in the path of . As members of the clan moved to towns and increasingly started wearing clothes following the 1986 change of government, this fear went away with the modification of the vagina.
In societies where its prime purpose was to increase happiness, the practice, on top of remaining intact, has greatly been fortified. Though widely practiced by many other tribes in countries like Rwanda and Malawi, it is in Buganda that the elongation of inner lips has become a salient feature with which women distinguish themselves from women of other tribes.
Experts locally known as Ssenga, a title meaning paternal aunt and broadly used to refer to women specializing in sex education, say that three fingers are used to pull each of the lips downwards for several weeks. Older women, especially those past their teenage years, may have to do it for up to a month. Traditional herbs serve as catalysts.
During intercourse, these elongated lips tickle the penis as it gets in and gently squeezes it as it pulls out. To men, this is a blissful spice up. To women, it evokes heavenly feelings as the penis titillates the sensitive lips during inward and outward movements. This titillation stimulates the woman to reach orgasm or even multiple orgasms faster, a level of excitement that some women hardly experience because of the inexperience of their spouses.
Teased with a gentle touch during foreplay, longer lips, compared to shorter lips, easily get wet and rapidly pass on lubricants to the vaginal opening to facilitate penetration. Vaginas with long labia minora are more likely to be moist than those with short ones.
The Ssenga also state that longer lips are good for oral sex – for licking and fingering. They are so good for kachabali, a practice in western Uganda that involves using an erect penis to strike the surface of the vagina repetitively and rapidly during foreplay. Those who practice this kind of stroke, which targets the clitoris as well as the labia minora, say it’s without equal in turning on women and in driving them to orgasm.
The most often stated benefit for Okukyalira ensiko is to keep the vagina warm. Long inner lips stretching to the opening of the vagina, experts say, serve as a blanket that that keeps the warmth of the sexual organ intact. One Ssenga described these lips as “doors that close” the vagina and keep its temperature at enjoyable levels.
Psychological benefits have also sustained the practice. To some men, a vagina endowed with hanging lips is an incredibly sexy scene. It’s a perfect turn-on. To women, it builds confidence and self-esteem to look like other women in Buganda.
These and many other benefits have made Okukyalira ensiko, which literally means visiting the bush, an integral part of sex baptism among Uganda’s largest ethnic group.
Far from promoting promiscuity as one ignorant European writer claims, the tradition prepares girls for what society considers the most enjoyable and most pleasurable form of lovemaking. By no means does it transmit HIV if precautions are taken, as it is normally the case, or if a woman does it herself – without involving third parties.
In most cases, however, third parties are involved, especially when the paternal aunt is required to do it on her sister’s , as tradition dictates. In this case, experts recommend gloves. Experts also advise that girls should ‘visit the bush’ before they reach puberty – before they start considering having sex.
Rarely are the girls told the sexual significance of pulling their labia minora since Buganda culture considers sex discussion unsuitable for minors. Instead, they are told that the modification is a form of adornment that makes them look nice. In this information age, nevertheless, this kind of concealment doesn’t conceal much. Many of these little girls seem to know the real essence of Okukyalira ensiko.
Once the labia minora have attained their required vertical length, which in Buganda is supposed to be not so long and not so short, women are advised to regularly revisit them to maintain their shape, warmth and fascination. Cleaning them regularly is equally mandatory.
For starters, pulling the lips can be a bit painful. But by no means does this constitute torture, as some foreign bigots would want us to believe. Some cultural chauvinists in the West have gone as far as categorizing Okukyalira ensiko under female genital mutilation at the World Health Organisation, or WHO.
They don’t realize that elongating the labia minora is actually the opposite of female genital mutilation (FGM). This is the case in the sense that FGM seeks to kill sexual feelings while Okukyalira ensiko is intended to enhance such feelings. No sane mind can put these two conflicting extremes in the same category. This is the kind of ignorance that Europeans and Americans display whenever they talk about Africa.
Who in Africa did the WHO consult to equate Okukyalira ensiko to FGM? Does that organization represent the interests of the people of the world or does it serve the interests of western bigots?
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My First Time With An Older Woman
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Posted:Jun 26, 2014 6:05 am
Last Updated:Nov 4, 2014 6:23 am
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One of my readers sent me this, and I thought I would share. Hope you like it as much as I did!
Paying my rent to to my 50-something landlady, I deposited a little more than my rent money!
When I returned from Viet Nam in the early 70's, the company I was working for prior to my Army service, sent me to one of its' subsidiaries in Arkansas. While I was there I rented a mobile home from a widow that was located about a 100 yards from her main residence. She was a fairly attractive woman in her middle 50's, but, being only 25 at the time, my interest in her was limited to making small talk when I stopped by to pay my rent. After being there several months, I made my normal stop at the beginning of a month to give her the monthly rent. It was particularly hot that day and she asked if I would like to stop in for a cool glass of lemonade. She got the lemonade and we sat down in her living room. After several minutes of talking about the weather and my job, she asked me how my social life was going. I told her it was pretty much non-existent. She said hers was too. Her husband had passed away several years ago and, although she occasionally went out, it always turned out to be disappointing. Finishing my lemonade, I started to get up to leave when she suddenly blurted out, "James, I really like sex". Some what startled by her remark, I sat back down and the only thing I could think of to say was " I really like sex too". As we looked at each other, I felt a familiar stirring in my pants. She got up from her chair and came over to the couch where I was sitting. Kneeling with her legs outside of mine, she leaned down and our lips met in a very tender kiss. Pulling back slightly, she said "Would you like to have sex with me"? My cock suddenly throbbed and I knew she could feel it. A slight smile came over face. "Does that mean yes"? I smiled back and answered her question by pulling her forward to me. Our tongues met as she ground her pussy into my now aching cock. Sliding back to the floor she started to rub the bulge in my pants. "Aren't you awfully confined in there"? "Take it out" I replied. Her eyes never left mine as she unzipped my pants and removed my cock from its restraints. "God, I love young cock. You're so hard. Doesn't that feel better"? Still staring into my eyes, she stroked my shaft as I groaned in appreciation. Releasing my cock, she rose to her feet and, slowly, unbuttoned her blouse. After letting it fall to the floor, she unzipped her slacks and pushed them down over her hips and thighs and stepped out of them. The anticipation of seeing a naked woman for the first time in several months was clearly evident on my face and I sensed that she was getting as turned on as I was. My cock bounced wildly as she removed her bra and panties revealing a perfect set of slightly sagging tits with long nipples and a hair covered pussy that I could see was dripping with anticipation Lying back on the carpet, her fingers started rubbing her tits and tweaking her nipples. "I need you, James. Fuck me, baby. I want that big, hard cock. Fuck me now, and later you can have me anyway you want me". As I watched this woman writhing on the carpet, her words were driving me crazy with lust. I got down between her legs and buried my cock in her cunt in a single thrust. She was so wet with desire that I had no trouble stroking in and out of her sweet pussy. She was matching my pent-up desires thrust for thrust. "Ooooh God, that feels soooo good. Feels soooooo good! Fuck me, baby. Fuck my pussy. Fuck it!", she wailed. And fuck it I did. For 10 minutes I slammed my cock in and out of her love hole. Her screams of ecstasy driving me faster and faster. Finally, my cum began it's inevitable journey. As my balls tightened, my cockhead erupted, firing wad after wad of white cream into her cunt. I could feel her pussy walls tighten around my shaft as the last of my cum oozed into her channel. We laid there on the carpet in each others arms for a few minutes, savoring what had just happened. We both knew there was a lot more to come. Remember that "anyway you want me". But that's another story.
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Afternoon sex
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Posted:Jun 25, 2014 7:13 am
Last Updated:Jan 6, 2015 4:07 am
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Another satisfied wife.
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Ass for days
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Posted:Jun 18, 2014 2:57 am
Last Updated:Jun 27, 2014 5:24 am
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I love this country!
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Blast from the past
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Posted:Jun 12, 2014 7:59 am
Last Updated:Jan 6, 2015 4:09 am
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We had some good times. You know yourself,,, miss you!
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Heroes' Day...
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Posted:Jun 12, 2014 7:16 am
Last Updated:Jun 12, 2014 7:17 am
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My personal heroine! *bows*
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Tick, tock...
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Posted:May 17, 2014 1:28 pm
Last Updated:May 23, 2024 2:25 am
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The clock is ticking. Make sure to blow up your Saturday night. You're damn right I am...
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