My success comes from knowing what to look for in those women who are serious and those who are not . There always will be a higher rate of success in older women 45 / 50 and up as they are most likely done with the game playing . Women that post long demanding you have to be this or that are usually controlling and players with no intentions of hooking up. Their long reads and drama are not worth the time and is the proof that they have no intention of following through on there statements. older women as men will follow through more quickly and tend to see through the BS of others younger ... if your around the age of 50 and up your chances are much greater finding what your looking for ( single, married or otherwise ) .. remember those younger who brag about how many hits they get just shows there rate of failure for all it really takes is one hit to complete why your really here and what your looking for ... Hope that helps those who are having trouble hooking up ..