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Ladys views and thoughts
 
A place where I can express my views, read yours and hopefully we can all learn a bit more about ourself and others.

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TURKEY
Posted:Nov 23, 2009 10:01 pm
Last Updated:Nov 27, 2009 12:56 pm
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Yep it's almost here again. TURKEY DAY!!!!! what memories that brings to mind from days long ago when I was young.

I lived in a two story flat, and my grandparents lived in the flat below. So when it was Thanksgiving or Christmas the other Uncles would land with my cousins and Gram would roast this gigantic turkey with a mountain of mashed potatoes and gravy.

All my cousins and I would play all day waiting for that bird to get finished. When gram set the table you could almost hear it groan from the weight of the food on it. We would gather at the table and then eat until you felt like your tummy was ready to burst!!!! I can remember my gram, she would always tell us, if we ate to much that we should go outside, run around the block shouting fire!! then we would feel better from the run lol. She would always make us laugh when she said that.

Then of course we would all sit and moan and groan about being too full and wait for the football game. Lord, I remember the game where they broke into the Lions game with the movie "Heidi" Lol, they damn near burned the tv station to the ground for that one as it was in the very last few minutes of the 4th quarter, and it was a VERY close game, a field goal or TD would be the decider!! and Whoops!!! we are looking at Heidi.

Later we would have dessert, Grams pumpkin pie, with real whipped cream, and jello with fruitcocktail and walnuts and bananas in it!! I love that to this day its one of my favorite things.

This year, it will be my and I. My is in Iraq, and I will be missing him terribly. We will watch the football game and hope to see him on TV when they do the salute from the troops for the families at home.

Memories are so wonderful, you can close your eyes and be tarnsported back to those wonderful happy days.

This year, my thanks will be that my is still alive, and safe. My parents are alive and healthy and my is my greatest treasure!! she puts up with me, loves me, and takes very good care of me always.

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Its that time of!!
Posted:Nov 6, 2009 9:29 pm
Last Updated:May 26, 2024 9:43 am
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The year where Veterans Day is Nov. 11th. A time to remember and THANK all the veterans who have served their country so gallantly.

WWII Veterans are dying off at the rate of 1,000 a DAY, soon our treasures will be no more. When you stop and think about it, we have Veterans from WWII. Korean war, Vietnam, and now our current wars that are in Iraq and Afghanistan.

That is a LOT of men and women who willingly signed up and laid their life on the line for those of us at home, nice and comfy cozy. We don't have a draft yet we have one of the largest and best armies in the world. That is something that we should ALL be proud of, regardless of your views on the wars. The mere fact that we have these people who are willing to sign up, and put on a uniform and answer whatever call they are called to without a whimper is mind boggling if anyone bothered to stop and think about that.

SO, this Nov. 11th, stop what you are doing for ONE MINUTE out of your life and day and remember to say THANK YOU to a VETERAN.

Lady
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Time
Posted:Nov 2, 2009 5:49 am
Last Updated:May 26, 2024 9:43 am
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Time where does it go so fast, or slow depending on the circumstances. It seemed like summer had just arrived and now I am preparing for winter. Of course my rather tranquil life was rudely interrupted by the Army snatching my back for his 4th tour of duty.

Getting ready for when the snow flies is always a tiresome chore for me. I don't like winter, I don't like cold and I don't like snow. Living in Michigan I get all of the I don't likes and they will be arriving faster than I want them to.

Went out the other day and did the pick up the leaves thing. Couldn't get the leaf blower to start, was ready to stomp on the thing when it finally gave up due to my persistence and said ok, she refuses to stop so might as well turn on. I worked all day cleaning all the leaves from my maple trees out front. Naturally, the very next night we had winds of 45 mph. Now you smile and say see, you didn't have to clean all those leaves they would have blow away. WRONG, what did happen was the way the wind was blowing, it blew all the leaves on the ground at my neighbors who had NOT cleaned any of his right across the street and all over my once clean lawn. Guess who gets to go do that chore all over again.

That brings me to todays challenge. I need to go out, stretch out the hose and drain it, coil, and store it, and get the hedge trimmers out and shape the shrubs for next year. Right now they look like hay bales that were given an electric shock with branches sticking out everywhere.

I wish the time would move faster than it does in time frame for my to come back home. In that arena, the time apparently does not realize that it should MOVE!!! those days and count go so sllloooowwwwww. It feels like he has been gone for years already, but its only been a few months now that he has been back in country. Sure, everyone loves to tell me "Oh it will be over before you know it". Well you try sitting home on your hands every day, watching the hands of the clock move slower than snails and wonder if your is going to make it thru one more day safely.

Time, a relative thing depending on just what it is that you are timing.

Lady
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Going to live.
Posted:Sep 19, 2009 10:35 am
Last Updated:Jan 15, 2015 9:14 pm
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Well, I have decided I am finally going to live. Once everyone left here at summers end, and my is sitting in Iraq, yet again! I figured I could finally do some of the things I had been neglecting for the summer months.

Oh no said the humor god!! I had been on a whirlwind of activities, ending with two parades on Labor Day that I was in. On the trip home, being very satisfied with the results that we were on the float that took First Place in the morning, and a Third Place in the afternoon, my throat felt a little dry and scratchey. I just assumed it was from all the dust etc of the day.

Advance 24 hours, I thought I should be writing out my last will and testament!. My nose felt like an elephant had stepped on it when I wasn't looking, it would have been a runny nose, except it was so swollen inside nothing could leak out!!. My head felt like a 5 piece conga drumset was banging inside trying to set a new world sound record!!. Endless sneezing thru the day convinced me that it just HAD to be allergies.

Advance another 24 hours, I slept off and on most of the day before, so lost a day there, now I just felt like that elephant that had kicked my nose was sitting on my chest and had danced the mexican hat dance all over me. My nose was still stuffed like an olive and I sounded rather funny trying to talk. When I felt like talking that is. Enter now the coughing. Rib cracking, endless coughing. Ok, I figured time to call the doc and find out what the hell is going on. Made call was given advise on what to take, one bottle of cough syrup, and a package of Claritin D 12. Ok, now I figured this would take at least 24 hours to kick in as none of that was a miracle drug. Went to bed early, to have chills so cold that I was sure my blood had frozen in the veins and had no way to thaw it. My teeth chattered and every blanket in the house was piled on top of me creating a large mound in the center of my bed. I must have finally gotten enough blankets because slowly the chills left and I was too warm. The humor of that is, that once I removed a couple of quilts, the chills said GOTTCHA and came right back for round two.

Advance to the next week. Coughing worse now than I had to begin with, going to bed was a lost cause, my lungs would wheeze in a sound that was designed to sound like what a death rattle had to sound like. I am now convinced I must have pneumonia to go with everything else. Another call to the doc. which wound up with an appointment. Managed to take a shower to try and wash off some of these damn germs!! the ones that were dancing all over my skin and hair and making me feel like one large bruised lump.

Ahh final diagnosis, nope good new, NOT pneumonia!! just a case of acute bronchitis. Well, there is nothing CUTE about the freaking thing. I have consumed over half a bottle of the newly flavored robitussin DM, which tastes like cherry flavored battery acid, if I ever drank battery acid, to know what it tastes like, but my imagination says it has to be this stuff!!! One prescription for mega heavy duty 250mg antibiotic pills which I had to take 2 of them to begin with which is 500mg at a crack and then one a day for the next 5 days, and now I am finally going to rejoin the world of the living.

Oh, I am still coughing, but now it is spasmodic. It still racks my ribs, but at least now it's not a constant, me and the Robitussin are still engaging in war fare as I down each dose hoping that eventually this cough will get tired of having it poured down there and just up and leave.

The brighter side of all of this is, I now have a lovely last will and testament, funeral arrangements made, and I can look forward to finally GOING TO LIVE. Still coughing, but have survived.

For those who happen to read my sad tale of woe this far, NO it was not the Swine Flu, or as it is referred to as the H1N1 Flu. This was just the fine, fine ole generic version of flu with the addition of the crowing glory of Bronchitis.

Lady
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This is the day
Posted:Aug 21, 2009 7:14 am
Last Updated:Mar 4, 2012 1:03 pm
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That he is out of the country. Yes, my has left our American Soil and is enroute to Iraq. Once more I sit and I wait. He will be gone far longer than a year, which is going to seem like yet another lifetime.

I pray for his safety, and the safety of ALL the military troops wherever they may be. These are very troubling and trying times. No place is safe, not even here in our own country.

A very sad Lady
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Smiles then tears
Posted:Aug 11, 2009 8:43 am
Last Updated:Aug 15, 2009 7:07 am
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I have been smiling like a cheshire cat for the last couple of days. Why you may ask am I doing that. Well, the army gave my a 3 day pass before they send him out of the country. So, I have been able to see him, talk to him and stuff him with all the good foods that I know he loves and sure isn't going to be seeing much of for the next year plus.

This is when those days FLY by that I mentioned in my earlier blog. It seems he just got here and tomorrow I have to let him go again. THAT is where the tears are gonna come right back in.

More like a deluge or flood so anyone in the near vicinity I highly recommend that you take out flood insurance. This is the 4th time, he is going into harms way for this war. Each time it gets harder and harder. Now if he could just stay in his room, and out of harms way, that would be one thing, but noooooooooo even if he could he wouldn't do that.

I spent a week before he got here cooking all his favorite things, and some new ones. Today we are gonna have his favorite pot roast with potatoes and carrots, gravy and I think I will whip up some of his favorite home made biscuits to go with honey for him. I made a delightful chocolate chip coffee cake that he has manfully munched thru, and a banana split ice cream cake that we have also munched on. I guess thats about all a mom can do is cook, and stuff and stew.

I wish and hope and pray that tomorrow would never come with what is ahead of me. If I could stop time right here and now I would do just that. Unfortunately, as I have learned before, tomorrow ALWAYS comes. Sometimes it comes with joy, but tomorrow it will come with heartache for me.

Lady
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Where oh WHERE
Posted:Aug 7, 2009 6:28 am
Last Updated:May 26, 2024 9:43 am
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Has summer gone??? Wait a minute did we even HAVE a summer?? I don't know about anyone elses summer, but the one I have had so far is something I wouldn't call SUMMER.

Here we are almost to the middle of August, that boggles my brain all by itself, and to date here in my charming state of Michigan, at least where I reside, we have barely managed to get out of the 70's every day, much less into the mid to high 80's!.

Now there are some advantages to that, I have not had to cut the grass as often, especially as my is now holding hands yet again with a deployment, the job falls to me. But along with the less than warm weather we have not had rain here in well over a week either. Now that means higher water bills!! I have a garden of veggies as well as trying to keep my grass from looking like some brown straw matt!!.

Have you ever noticed on one hand when you are anticipating something wonderful, it seems that the time draaaaggggsssss and it never gets here for ever. YET, if there is some unpleasantness the thing arrives before you can blink!!!.

For the major part of the summer, I have actually done not much of ANYTHING!!. In early July, I got the happy happy joy joy of going to Little Rock, Ark. for my sons deployment. Up until the day I had to let him walk on that bus taking him away it was pretty nice, that day sucked!!!.

After next week, I get to live my entire summer in just a few cramped weeks. A trip to Vegas is in there, thats the one that is DRAGGGGGGGING to get here. Early September, I have to go to Chicago. I have meetings that I am looking forward to. Don't it make you wonder why it's either feast or famine??

Well, I have to go move my sprinkler, as it is now watering my garden, after I spent almost an hour pulling endless weeds which seem to be thriving amid all the rest of this weather.

Lady
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How far can you go
Posted:Jul 5, 2009 8:04 am
Last Updated:May 26, 2024 9:43 am
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Just how far can anyone go when it comes to the internet and all it has to offer. Yesterday, I read, yet again, where a "SOCIAL WORKER" posted an add on Craigslist involving a 9 year old girl.

Yes, that is correct the Social Worker's had an argument with a girl in her school who is 9 years old. In revenge, the Social Working MOM, posted an add on Craigslist stating. ""I need a little affection... I'm blond, I'm cute and I'll be waiting." Along with that add, she posted the childs HOME PHONE NUMBER.

Is anyone wondering yet WHY this woman is still a "social worker" I certainly am. In interviews with the childs mother, she stated that in one day they had over 22 phone calls from men looking for sex with this , totally UNAWARE, that the was 9 years old.

The woman pled "NOT GUILTY" to two misdemeanor charges, and a charge of endangering a . Her comment was "She didn't believe that the had been harmed materially". There are also ways to cross reference , coming up with ADDRESSES. Wonder how she would have felt, if one of them had done just that, and WAITED FOR THE to leave home before accosting her. Does that send a shiver up your spine it SHOULD. Would anyone here appreciate THEIR 9 year old getting this type of phone call.

The family hired a lawyer, who got a subpoena for the records from Craiglist, and traced the email directly back to the woman, leading to her arrest. So yes indeedy, it CAN be done and has been done.

It makes you wonder, just how FAR people will, can and DO go for revenge. This site is no different, the only discriminating factor is that everyone here is SUPPOSED to be an ADULT.

However, does that honestly sanction the right of others on here to disclose personal information on someone they may have met, or information they received about a person they don't like for whatever reason, and give them the RIGHT to post it all over the internet fraudulently?

If you have read my blogs then you are aware that this has happened to my own , more than one time around, all of which could have endangered her life without her even being aware of it.

She is NOT ALONE in this, I have read OTHERS that have had this happen to them. So because we are on the internet, and an adult sex site, this gives who the right to hound or harass anyone much less post in open chat rooms, blogs, or anywhere else ANYONES private information.

PRIVATE, that is the key word. It is very ironic that those who go around posting this stuff and behaving in a far less than adult manner are the EXACT same ones, that if their membership HERE, or their lifestyle were disclosed to their neighbors, or the school their attend, they would be extremely UNHAPPY. Why, because it's their PRIVATE life, and they want it to remain as such.

If YOU value YOUR privacy, then you had better VALUE the PRIVACY of everyone ELSE.

Lady
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It's happening AGAIN
Posted:Jun 25, 2009 6:10 am
Last Updated:Jul 4, 2009 6:31 am
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Yes, it's definitely happening again, my has once again been called by his country to defend it. My is leaving for the 4th time in July for Iraq.

He was supposed to just go for a training session in California's desert, instead, as he was leaving the house a couple of weeks ago, the phone rings, and instead he was put on 30 day alert.

My brain froze again. I struggled to hear words and sounds but right at that moment, all I could see, hear and feel was NUMB. It took me a few seconds to shake out of the fog I had just gotten dumped in and for all things to register.

I have to once more hug my , my , and send him into harms way. Had anyone ever asked me when he was born if this could happen, would happen, I would have said NO. Little did I know.

I have had people ask me how long he has been in the military, my standard reply is "he was born wearing combat boots". Which it truly felt like and that he literally marched out with an entire brigade when he did, but this has been HIS choice from the beginning. I as his Mother can do no less than honor his choice, and turn gray while he is gone.

Right out of High School, he went to a Federal Military Academy. He came out a commissioned officer. We were very proud then, I am prouder, grayer, NOW than then.

I once told him standing in an airport, long before all the current events, it was peacetime, "where did the time go, yesterday I was changing your diaper, today I am hugging and kissing you goodbye to leave me for some unknown place on the other side of this world".

Since that time, I have repeated that action so many times I have lost track, all except the last 3 times. Those times were burned indelibly into my brain. A while back I posted a blog entitled "I Kissed my goodbye today". It honestly signifies my 's life and how a Mother feels each time.

My , his sister, will be my rock AGAIN, she will help me get thru the many long months of wondering and worrying. She will bring me sunshine, and laughter, and many reassuring hugs and kisses. She will help me pack boxes and make trips to the post office. She will cheerfully reassure me that her brother is invincible and will return whole as he left us. I am more than blessed with the God saw fit to bestow on me.

Last time, I gave him a journal, and asked him to please, as time allowed, to write in it his daily efforts and thoughts. He did, and when he returned I sat and read every single word. This time, he will do so again, only I will also write one daily. Mine from the Mothers point of view, my thoughts, and fears and happiness daily.

So, instead of a cheerful blog this time, I have just written down my thoughts at this minute on yet another deployment. I stupidly thought at the onset, that after the first time, it would get easier, silly me,for a Mom, it merely gets harder each time.

Lady
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The value of Honesty
Posted:Jun 20, 2009 8:52 pm
Last Updated:Jun 21, 2009 7:05 am
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Honesty, a very simple word yet apparently the interpretation of it leaves a lot to be desired.

Generally, Honesty, means telling the truth. Usually, and apparently to some people it has an entirely different meaning. They translate honesty to mean that THEY can be brutally honest in their opinions, vocal to the point of brutality in decimating someone daily so long as THEY are not the one having the HONEST truths told about their self.

Honesty, on a sex site where we have women/men cheating on their spouses daily. is that considered HONEST? A sex site, where if your neighbor or school where your attend knew you were on a sex site, a swinger, with nude pictures posted all over the place, that you went to different parties, where flashing bare breasts in public is considered acceptable behavior, would we still consider ourself honest? I think the answer would be yes you would.

I have no doubt that the logical response from your mouth and mind would be that NO ONE has the right to KNOW your PRIVATE business. In that I would agree, they don't. Consequently, what makes anyone think or believe that THEY have the right to dig into someone else's life, or what they believe is someone else's life, and then email it all over the place to everyone they know. Post it in open forum of chat rooms, when they themself have sat and said "I don't give my information out" Yet they do not hesitate to give out SOMEONE ELSE'S INFORMATION and think its great fun. Do we see a dual standard here? no? well I certainly do. Further more WHY THE HELL do you even care!. If someone wants to say, be or do something in their private life who are YOU or ANYONE to prove them other than? YOU are doing what YOU want and portraying yourself the way you want to be seen.

Suppose your neighbor don't like you, found out that you were a swinger or found photos of you on the internet or even on this site. Certainly, NOT how you portray yourself to them and the rest of the neighbors or y our employer either. They take and pass the photos and the information around thru the entire neighborhood and then to the school where your attend, and your employer using the explanation of, "It had to be done, they had to know what kind of people we have living in our community. They are liars and sexual perverts". Well that is THEIR perception of your behavior. It certainly does not make it fact or true but because they dislike you they figured they would do a community service and enlighten the world about YOU. Would you agree with them? HELL NO you wouldn't so what the hell makes anyone on this site think THEY have the right to do exactly the same thing to ANYONE. If YOU don't want to be OUTTED and have a dual or private life don't throw stones at others you BELIEVE have a different life style because YOU DO NOT KNOW the FACTS. Attending a couple of meet and greets, or seeing conversation in a chat room does NOT mean YOU KNOW someone or what their PRIVATE LIFE is.

Let me see, this site was founded on DISCRETION I do believe, somewhere along the line the quality and caliber of people we now have here have tossed that word to the wind unless it applies to THEMSELF.

I have seen entire first and last names of people published over and over in OPEN CHAT, sent to dozens thru emails, is that discrete?? I have seen addresses posted in OPEN CHAT, again discretion??? I have read fake profiles that were created that could have endangered the life of someone, leading others to believe that the victim was in a life style that they were not. A profile that the creator controlled the emails to and could and I have no doubt would have arranged dates for the fake profile person at a meet and greet and that person would have no knowledge of it happening at all. Very safe, and very adult don't you think. Yet it is their belief and I quote "They had it coming to them". Pardon me, but NO ONE has anything coming to them for anything no one died and appointed you the judge and jury on this site.

Honesty, perhaps, those on this site, who go on and on until you want a pair of ear plugs or a barf bucket on how HONEST they are, that they are not fake or phony need to take a good look at THEIR honesty.

Well, pardon my observation, does your neighbor know your here? does the school your attend know you live the lifestyle and have naked or semi naked photos all over the internet. NO? Why not!! you are screaming how HONEST you are, I think in the truest fashion of HONESTY, they should know all about you. Especially, as you feel its your RIGHT to go ahead and do this to someone else, just because YOU don't happen to like them.

First off, NO ONE asked anyone to LIKE anyone on this site. That is a choice we all have. If you do NOT like someone, you have a handy IGGY button USE IT!!!. But NO ONE and I do mean NO ONE has the right to delve into someones life, and go into chats and emails, and tell outright lies, manufactured because of your dislike for a person and consider yourself HONEST, because you are indeed a liar and hypocrite.

Even if you honestly BELIEVE or think what you are saying is the truth, in fact even if it IS the truth, you STILL have NO RIGHT to say something about a person, it is NOT YOUR LIFE. Would YOU like being possibly outted to your employers or your childrens teachers, for who and what you are? You shield yourself, your lifestyle from those who would indeed care what you are doing just to make yourself LOOK GOOD!!. THAT is not HONEST, it's hypocritical and DISHONEST. A comment, "it had to be done" Sorry NO ONE appointed you the voice of America to say or expose anyone for anything EVER. Not unless of course you are ready to have yourself totally exposed as well in the name of honesty.

If you feel you have the right to do this in the name of honesty, perhaps, if it happens to you in your real life, you can recognize it as someone just making sure you are HONEST, just like you are doing. Just following your MANTRA.

Lady
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Careful what you ask for
Posted:Jun 9, 2009 4:10 pm
Last Updated:Jun 11, 2009 5:44 pm
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Wooo hoo it's been a while since I have had time or something to write about. Just been so busy busy busy.

Here of late, my who is also on this site, inspite of a few collapsing in horror that a mother and are here, ( I know it's their deep secret wish, but they don't wanna say it out loud!). She has always been a member of one of the chat rooms relative to our area. Up until recently, she has been quite happy chatting away with a few who know her.

NOTICE!! DING DING!! Did I say RECENTLY?? why yes I did. Now my don't walk on water or anything like that, even if I am her mother!! BUT, she is intelligent, works her butt off to the extreme, and has been her own support for quite a few years, including owning her own home, and all the big nice toys for work that the men all use so diligently. Riding mower, power tools, yep she uses them all.

Now we move into the present, a short time ago, a couple of nit wits, that are in the same chat room, apparently got their knickers in a wad. We won't go into the particulars, it's boring in the extreme except to those who have nothing better to chat about day after day after day.

Doncha love those who say, "I hate drama" hand clasped to the forehead, with a huge sigh. THEN the minute they enter, what do they do. Why throw out insults, snide comments, nasty remarks, anything to try and decimate someone. Then they go on and on ad nauseaum for HOURS. Up until THEY came in all was happy and going along just swell. THEN the hilarious part is they turn around and say SHE is bringing in all the drama!!. EXCUSE ME??? YOU walked in and opened YOUR mouth, not the other way around. So uhh WHO brought in the drama???

Now there is this sweet little group mixed I might add, some men some women, of course the men are following along behind the women, cause who knows if you agree and say enough things, you MIGHT get lucky!!! BUT, they are indignant as hell, wanna know why. Seems some of them keep getting BANNED from the room. Each one howls I DID NOTHING. Um. did you open your mouth???? Did ya rant and rave, cuss and swear, threaten it was all out war, and you wonder WHY? you got banned. Lord save a duck it don't take a genius to figure that out.

I say careful what you ask for, because this sweet group decided to make a concerted effort to get her removed from the chat. Yep banned for life cause they don't want her there. Yep they really said that in there, "WE, I guess that was the royal we cause others chat up a storm with her, do NOT want her here". Well big Whoop, who cares what YOU want. Last time I looked it was a free world.

Now they have emailed by the tons, one said she wrote 25 emails all by her little self. Another has made numerous calls over and over, complaining. Couple of them figured that was a good idea, so they started calling emailing complaining. One invited EVERYONE to call and complain. Umm see where I am going with this.

You went from being under the radar, to bright SPOT LIGHT!!!! by aggravating the owners of this site. YOU made the complaints, and wanted them to check look into, find out, well careful what you asked for, apparently they are fulfilling your request and WATCHING!! Hello, you asked for this remember!!!! So if you are getting banned like WHO do you think is at fault, someone who never responds to your lame remarks or YOU making the remarks??

Oh lets not forget that these sweeties, also made up not one, not two, but THREE profiles using her name. Oh yes, They gleefully said she deserved to have her photo stolen, fake profile made that in the reading of what they wrote, would definitely endanger her well being if she went to a social function with the group and some weird ass, (weirder than those who made it up) saw it and figured this was what she wanted. Whoops, so sorry so sad, you got hurt you deserved it cause we don't like you remember.

THEN when they got banned for creating the profiles, they sat and cried like a baby that they didn't do anything. Excuse me, but you DID do something, it was tracked right back to you and YOU DID it and got caught red handed. So, umm don't be looking for sympathy for what you did. At least accept responsibility for your own actions, instead of being a hypocrite on top of liar saying you did nothing.

Everyone running around telling, and retelling all the stories no doubt adding their own bit of flavor to each telling, we wouldn't wanna be left out of the wolf feeding on fresh bloody meat would we???

I don't care what anyone said, or did, I don't care if you like someone or hate someone. NO ONE has the RIGHT to create fake profiles about someone EVER. If it were they, you would hear the howl across the ocean. BUT they feel they are justified because "they don't like her" DEAL WITH IT.

As I said, careful what you asked for, cause now none of them are liking the results of all the emails and phone calls and harassment. BUT, it's not THEIR fault, oh no, its HER fault cause they said and did all this. I guess she must have just taken over their bodies for the time and made them do all and say all them things.

I have NO idea who is behind the banning, or anything else, but if I DID I would shake their hand on one level, on the other I would wack them upside the head because this group is apparently too stupid to realize the old carrot, "Silence is golden" In a word SHUT UP and stop driving the site nuts with your petty whining and crying and rumor spreading, then maybe you won't be getting banned.

Oh lest I forget, she can PROVE with phone records etc, that she DID NOT make a single call NOT ONE. BUT, they don't want to see or hear that. As a matter of fact, today, she was ON THE PHONE, friend called HER, chatting she chatted long enough the other ones phone battery died, and during that time, whoops someone ELSE got banned!!!, Now doncha love someone who can manage a feat like THAT. Be ON the phone with someone, and calling the site getting someone banned at the exact same time!!!. Course the fact she has no long distance, limited hours, didn't stop the idiots from saying OH she called me 16 times a day every day. Yeah right sure she did, dream on, she sure as hell wouldn't be paying for extra minutes just to call a single one of you. Oh yeah, and the friend she was on the phone with calls HER almost every day, they have the same phone service so it's free, and they are good friends. Matter of fact, I even went to lunch last week with both of them!!. Had a great time.

Because she is different than they are, because she makes no bones about what she will or will not do, that means prove her wrong even if you have to make fake profiles, and make it up as you go. People can't stand people who are different. Nope ya just gotta destroy it. Course, anyone who really knows her, knows, she wouldn't on her best day show her boobs, and she sure as hell wouldn't proposition anyone on this site, thats for damn sure. But if you ask them OH YES SHE HAS AND DOES. Strange isn't it that I know of a few men who would disagree and say how they got whacked down for even thinking or suggesting it. BUT thats alright they only speak gospel, those who stoop to the fake profiles etc. If your gonna stoop that low, and do that, just how much lower can you stoop?

Oh yes, careful what you ask for, because what you get may not be EXACTLY, what you asked for, and it can turn around and bite you in the ass!!!!.

Sorry folks, this is my own vent. I figured it was time.

Now you may go back to your normally scheduled program.

Lady
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American Brutality
Posted:Mar 1, 2009 5:04 pm
Last Updated:Jun 5, 2009 11:08 pm
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I am so weary of hearing about how terrible and nasty our soldier, and military are regarding brutality and torture. Let me see, so far water boarding in GITMO has been howled and screamed at from the rafters. Of course we have the horrendous scandal of Abu Ghreib, in Iraq. Remember those poor guys with ladies panties on their heads and a plethora of other nasties.

Well, it makes me sit and scratch my own head more than once. We the great American People scream the rafters down on any brutality shown to anyone, it don't matter if what they classify as brutality to those being brutalized it couldn't hold a candle in their culture. Oh no, we the Americans are "held to that higher standard".

Now do I support or agree with brutality, of course not!! But lets peek into some other countries and their cultures and see if their idea of brutality equals ours.

I just heard on TV tonight, how Mexico, that great country to the south of us. The one that keeps the Border Patrol so very busy is having the problems of their life.

What you may ask seems to be the major malfunction. DRUGS. The DRUG cartels are taking over Mexico. Natives of Mexico are afraid to even walk outside in the daylight. The DRUG cartels threatened to murder one Mexican police officer a day until the Mayor resigned. 4 murders later he DID resign. Then they showed, these really nice photos of a whole row of Mexican Police that had their hands tied behind their backs, and their ankles as well, and ALL of them had been BEHEADED. By****** DRUG cartels. One beheaded gentleman hung from a balcony with his head down below in the town square. They kidnapped a 5 year old boy. Yes I said FIVE. Now I realize go thru the terrible twos, or so they say, but it makes me wonder how big a threat a 5 year old can be to a DRUG cartel. When they realized that they were getting close to being caught, they simply eliminated the problem by injecting him with ACID. What a gentle way for a 5 year old to die.

Another guy was kidnapped off the street while he was out on a date with a girl. He was held for a very long time. Photos of him naked, blindfolded in a pen were sent to his family along with a ransom request. Little did the family know that at the time the photo had been taken the guy was alread DEAD. They had gone to a hardware store, bought an electric saw, and BEHEADED him. They had taken his body, propped it up in the pen, sitting his head back on his shoulders where it was suppose to have been.

The head honcho from Mexican Government actually had the guts to sit and look into the cameras and say CLEARLY, the United States is not doing enough or their share to control this. WHAT???? Why would WE the Americans control the crime in Mexico. Easy says Mr. Honcho. If the money is american, the guns are coming in from america and it's the americans using the DRUGs, then its our problem to deal with it and help the Mexican Govenment, and we simply are not doing our share!!. Of course for my two cents worth had we not tried and found guilty and locked up those three Border Patrol Officers who were recently pardoned Ummm maybe it would have worked a little better.

SHAME on us the American People, and the American Border Patrol for treating those people so shabby and disgusting, when they are such upstanding citizens of Mexico. It is an all out war in Mexico with the DRUG Cartels taking over. Remember folks WE share borders with Mexico, this is our neighbor.

Then of course we have the detainees at GITMO, that place remember that Obama, swiftly signed the order to close. Well, all the countries that those detainees have come from have flat out said DO NOT SEND THEM BACK HERE!!. Those that have been returned rapidly met with their own deaths at the hands of the homeland. This presents the problem of WHERE do we send the detainees. Their own country don't want them, we don't want them, maybe You want them living in your backyard or next door neighbor.!! Wouldn't you like one of them maybe babysitting for you.

Next time someone in this country howls brutality, or anything else of that sort, perhaps they should look at the punishments doled out in other countries!! Maybe we should take a look at WHY the rest of the world figures it's the Americans place to get them out of trouble, and save them, so they can bitch and criticize about our treatment, and method later on down the line.

Lady
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One word, smiley wonders!!
Posted:Feb 20, 2009 3:41 pm
Last Updated:Mar 25, 2009 8:06 am
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Lately, when I have been roaming around and viewing blogs that I find the title catchey and presume them to be interesting, I have sat and looked at the most annoying thing in the world.

Does it pertain to me, NO. Does it impact me in any way NO, it just plain pisses me OFF.

You go into the blog, read the entry, and then some lamebrained idiot comes along and posts 10 entries of SMILEY FACES!! or they post 10 entries of one word. COOL!!!

What the hell is with that!!!! if you don't have anything to contribute, anything intelligent to say, or hell even just a sentence or two, SHUT THE HELL UP!! and stay out of peoples blogs.!!!

You look like an asshole idiot!! oh yea, I know they do it for the OHHH AHHHH POINTS!!! well sorry, that is rude, and ignorant to do something like that.

Would you go to 10 neighbors homes, knock on the door, and when they answer look at them and hold up a smiley face score card and leave? Would you look at them and say, "COOL" then leave!!.

For god sakes people grow up and TRY to act like an adult, and leave other peoples blogs alone if you have nothing to add to the thing.

OH yeah, the other day, I looked at blogs MAIN page and there was the same idiot man with every single entry on the whole freaking page of HIS blogs one after another. What were they? A SINGLE joke in each of them. OH AHH yessss another male genius. Nothing like taking up the entire front page with drivel.
A very annoyed pissed off Lady.
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