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A Memorable Vacation....
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Posted:Oct 28, 2013 12:51 pm
Last Updated:Jun 9, 2021 3:27 am
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Married at the time....We were returning to a favorite vacation island, St. Martin... We always stayed on the french side of the island... more intimate..less night life... GREAT beaches..
Yes... the beaches were topless...and if you found the right sections on Orient or Bae Rouge.. they were suits optional... Of course that was/is my preference....
We stopped at the Super Marche prior to heading to Orient for the day.. French Bread..Cheese.. Salami... case of Heineken... some wine... and we were good to go..
Very relaxing.. sensuous day...sunbathing "au natural" .... swimming together... lots of touching.. teasing... others on the beach not really paying attention to us... yes.. we went back and forth fucking in the surf and making love all day long....
Coming up on 5PM.. we knew it was time to head back to the hotel... Happy Hour... cocktails and appetizers by the pool.. ( we were staying at an all inclusive so it was important not to miss meals..) We hit our room... changed... er..rather got dressed... She put on a loose dress and I had summer weight slacks... sport shirt... we ignored underwear..it had been such a great day being nude all day....
The Reggae band was playing .... funny rum drinks... (fruit salad hanging out of them) relaxed... and all the guests gathering.. the week was almost over...
The MC held a "Tan Line" contest... we didn't have any to participate..but could show the bottoms of our feet to highlight differences... our feet brought lots of applause and laughter... trays of appetizers being served... we knew that somewhere around 8 of was dinner..it was 6 and dusk was upon us...
Some of the guests were "slow dancing... swaying to the music".... cocktails on top of the beer and wine throughout the day... had produced a nice glow... and a reduction of inhibitions.... yes. I was thinking about it... and so was she...
I was watching the stars come out... listening to the band... idle chatter of conversation... around the pool... she had seen me getting hard.. and then relaxing... I asked her to sit on my lap....so we could talk privately... and when she did.. I remembered she was commando... her dress flowing over us... as we were talking... she slid her hands under... unsnapped and unzipped me... it did not take much encouragement and I was at full attention... and she slid me into her... at the pool... band playing.. drinks being served... her warmth enveloping and caressing me..... we were very still for a bit... then she slowly massaged me.. using her muscles.. and very small rocks....
We both came very hard... intense... having to bite back our moans of exquisite pleasure.... not hearing any conversation or the band as our orgasms crashed and overtook us...
We stayed coupled for a long while afterward... just enjoying the warmth and being so close....
Totally unexpected exploration... and I have no clue if we were "observed".... clearly no one interrupted.. no sideways glances at dinner.... I think we were undetected... but there is no way to tell..... It was a highlight of our sex life .... never repeated... not even close....
As I am starting over.... do I want to have that closeness again? Do I want and desire similar expereinces??
Oh... Yes!! that was a very erotic, sensual and sexual fun day!!
To borrow the line from the commercial "I want more!!"
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Why the hate & discontent??
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Posted:Jul 19, 2013 7:49 pm
Last Updated:Sep 7, 2020 4:53 am
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I don't get it.... we are all on a site that promotes / encourages the expression of sexual desires. Ostensibly we are all here to find a connection that is missing in our lives prior to signing up on here...
It is amazing to me to get replies to a note..or an IM.. that is as much as picking a fight just because someone, who is not a perfect match... or just may want to chat and not try to coax someone into bed... had the gall to reach out to someone else to attempt to start a conversation.....
I get that we are all harboring some baggage and frustrations... Does that give anyone "permission" to be less than respectful? WTF... to be ugly without knowing the other party says more about you and your frustrations than me....
OK... i get that there are a lot of single men on here.. who think the anonymity of being on the website gives them the right to say or act in any way they want..... or to just be jerks to the minority of people on here who are open to having a conversation with a single man......
Surprise...some people on here are trying to reach out to make a connection.. and discover if there may be mutual interests and (OMG) sexual desires that may lead then to date and explore further....
Ahhhh.,.. ever the idealist optimist.... I was thinking that if there was any site where the members would be tolerant of others... it would be here.....
Time to wake up... and realize the folks here are just like they are in "constipated" society...... no more tolerant or open minded than you can find walking down the street.....
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The Quandary........
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Posted:Jun 9, 2013 9:04 am
Last Updated:Jun 9, 2021 1:55 am
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OK.... so here's the thing.... I am certain that man outnumber the ladies by a VERY WIDE margin on here......
So how does a guy "break through" the crowd to be able to start a conversation with a lady (or (omg) a couple) ??
Should I be wide open on sexual desires/fantasies in my profile? Or hold that back as a "surprise" until the conversation has progressed?
Why is it that many think that a guy on here who is over 60 must be dead, or an old goat who jerks off for pleasure collecting photo's?
If you are an older man on here... seems we are starting at 0-2 to use a baseball analogy...
Strike 1 - You are a man.. since there are probably 842,000 of us all sending a note to the same lady.....
Strike 2 - You are 55 or over... and the assumptions/stereotype that goes with a middle aged man who is single...
When I started on here.. i was truly looking for a long term relationship... in which we could both live, share and revel in each other.... without the "sexual filters" that seem to creep into a "committed relationship"..... At this point in my life, being open and free to be in a relationship.... where you express any desire, dream, fantasy would be met with acceptance..discussion and support.... Doesn't necessarily mean that the desire or fantasy would ever have to be realized.....
Back to the question that led to this.... To be totally open or not.....
I have opted to be upfront regarding ... dreams.... desires..... life situation......
That profile seems to have been met with a resounding... "thud"...
I am not interested in a series of 1-night stands... as I think some amount of attachment (omg- strings??) enhances the sexual pleasures we all seem to be looking for...
Yes.. after my experiences in "committed relationships"..... I am self proclaimed "relationship averse".... relationship in this context would mean... co-habitation, 100% engaged in all life aspects of a 1-1 relationship... seems filters and society get in the way.......
A FWB relationship... although that is how I state it... what I seek is probably deeper than that in my mind..... yes... each of us having separate lives... free to make decisions around dating and sexual relationships... as well as very deeply supportive of the other in their quest for happiness and fulfillment......
Maybe I am just a romantic.... who is in search of something that doesn't or can't exist???
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The first entry...........
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Posted:May 5, 2013 4:52 am
Last Updated:Jun 9, 2021 3:26 am
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After being on here for a while.. I am beginning to wonder if people on here really do meet...
Yes.. I have enjoyed a couple of meets here... they are few and far between.... One was my choice not to have a 2nd meet, the second was her choice... To both of you I thank you for your bravery at "going against the norms".... and meeting... enjoying some conversation... yes... surprisingly erotic and enjoyable sexual contact....
It seems most on here are "addicted to the idea" of meeting..love the idea having a toe curling sexual tryst... but when it actually comes down to it... retreat to the safe haven of staying home.... I do include myself in this... No I have never stood anyone up from a "date" and I never will... just me. and the way I am put together.... but it is sometimes "safer" not to go near the idea of a date... rather than put yourself out and expose a weakness....
It appears to me that many are very happy with chats... emails... and really are not interested in making a personal connection....
Yes... people come with baggage and hang ups.. If you have lived you have baggage and hang ups.. all of life's experiences shape us into who we are...
How have they shaped me? Adventurous... open minded.... yes.. I enjoy sexual contact and bringing pleasure to a lady.... a couple? a man? Mmmmmm interesting question... am I bi? bi-curious? no... I am not interested in meeting a man for a "date".... In a "group" setting.... I do believe there is a lot that could occur with m-m contact..and yes... it is ok to experience and feel pleasure.... seems like it is "socially acceptable" for women to openly express a bi-curiosity... but not for men..... must be our testosterone laden upbringing on what makes a man a man........
Enough for now..... looking forward to returning and continuing these musing.. rants...
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