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Do men really want submissive women???
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I think a woman can be both and still be fun. I like a woman that make the first move or that wants me to take charge. " Variety can be the spice of life" in a relationship.
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I like my women to play a submissive role from time to time but, I do not desire a truly submissive partner.
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i really enjoy both sometimes sub sometimes dom all depend on her mood and what she wants ! as far as i am concerned it's all bout making sure she is looked after and happy!
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i find that women in my area likes to be dominant to guys that have the build or intimidatingly looking just for the thrill of taming the beast
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Agree 100% with these statements. You are a smart guy.
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I likey this attitude you guys have. You truly get what a sub wants.
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There are many submissive men who can only feel complete with a dominat woman. I only like naturally submissive women, not the " I will PRETEND to be submissive" type. I am not referring to the M&S/sexual aspect. I have no desire for dominant women, but have enjoyed pretending to be submissive for certain women who have a specific fantasy that I can enjoy with them.
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Nope. Im not a dominant type so we would end up staring at each other. Just not my thing but those of you that like it, please enjoy!
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No, I'd much rather my female partner take an active role in deciding what we're doing. Typically she'd let me be in control but that's just as far as who goes on top, let's change positions, shall we try it on the kitchen table, that kind of thing. But I'm more than happy for her to decide she wants to sit on my face for a few minutes, or asks "Can you take me from behind?", or takes my hand and moves it down between her legs. I've no problem with her telling me what she wants.
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I like it to be a give-and-take equal partnership. In practice I've ended up being slightly more dominant in the bedroom. That's fine since I wouldn't be comfortable if she was dominant all the time. But do I want her to be submissive?...no.
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Damn...okay that was a well thought out answer and thank you so much for sharing. I love hearing other people's feedback.
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I've yet to meet a man who can tell the difference between being dominant and just being an arrogant asshole. If it were to happen organically, a d/s relationship, that'd be great but honestly, most self-described dominants I've met seem to think extended heavy eye contact and orders to "do to me what I ask" is all they have to do to be dominant and that's where they start.
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it is one of my dream ! i hope 
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Hey Darlin, ........I enjoy more of a Take Charge kind of woman myself,........... Sinfully Yours, backpocket13  
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I believe strongly, God made us submissive  Some women just want a “fix” have an orgasm or a few and this is the reason why they take control. Men get off easily anyway, no need to focus on him, she just focuses on herself and in the process her man will be satisfied. It is SEX, nothing else, just poor sex without LOVE  When you love a man, you want to be submissive; you want to be adored, admired and loved. Making love is heavenly when you love your man and he loves you and he takes control in the bedroom  Give up SEX and travel the road of love and you will never be disappointed  ___________________________________________-_____________ __________ _________ All I wish for are men I can fall in love with and who like Making Babies and not just want Sex! After all, when it comes to Virgin, Experienced or Very Tight I have 2 out of 3 to offer
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Not for me, I really can't get my head around the attraction.
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I understand. It is not for everyone. Each to their own. Thank you for stopping by.
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I guess it depends on the mood.....I mostly like being in charge but there are a few times when I feel a little role reversal is a turn-on and I can be her slave!
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I'm just kinky. I can be dom or sub with a lady, enjoy switching it up, sometimes even within the same encounter as we "battle" for control of each other.  Now Thats a Big One What Is She Talking About Bubbles, on HNW [post 3312759] My Private Post - Tell Me ALL Your Secrets – Anything you write here is just between us
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I have involved in the D/s lifestyle for going on twenty years. 15 of it as slave/submissive of my husband. A picture perfect D/s relationship. But that doesn'tnecessarily make me a perfect submissive to anyone. No more than just any Dominant would be a perfect fit for me. I'm strong willed and stubborn, my husband could handle me and happily (for the most part) did so. And I gladly (for the most part) submitted and allowed him to do so. I think what I miss the most is the openness in the communications, which took a lot of trust on my part. Nowdays I recognize being submissive in bed is one of my sexual buttons, but being required to submit in other parts of my life pushes another kind of button, the panic button. I just can't do it. But who's to say, I might find someone I trust enough to do so gladly. I also know I'm not the same person I was when I met my husband. Right now I'm happy with being submissive in the bedroom, or even switching things up, but when play is over, we're back to being ......equals perhaps? I hesitate to use that word, because I also never felt less than. Perhaps just partners or lovers would better fit.
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at times. then i like aggressive at times too
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Very, very interesting and totally true, at least from my perspective. I appreciate your explanation and find it very fascinating. Love how you think. Thank you agian.
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I have involved in the D/s lifestyle for going on twenty years. 15 of it as slave/submissive of my husband. A picture perfect D/s relationship. But that doesn'tnecessarily make me a perfect submissive to anyone. No more than just any Dominant would be a perfect fit for me. I'm strong willed and stubborn, my husband could handle me and happily (for the most part) did so. And I gladly (for the most part) submitted and allowed him to do so. I think what I miss the most is the openness in the communications, which took a lot of trust on my part. Nowdays I recognize being submissive in bed is one of my sexual buttons, but being required to submit in other parts of my life pushes another kind of button, the panic button. I just can't do it. But who's to say, I might find someone I trust enough to do so gladly. I also know I'm not the same person I was when I met my husband. Right now I'm happy with being submissive in the bedroom, or even switching things up, but when play is over, we're back to being ......equals perhaps? I hesitate to use that word, because I also never felt less than. Perhaps just partners or lovers would better fit.
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The most intense and satisfying sex for me, has been with submissive women. As a bit of a trust junkie, I derive pleasure from a woman taking my hand and allowing me to take her wherever I think she should go. Holistically, my most satisfying relationships have been with women who've been submissive in the bedroom, because almost universally, these are women are successful, intelligent, and self-assured. They submit not because of coercion on my part, but because they want to.
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As crazy as it sounds, I spent the vast majority of my life not even aware of S/D... Very interesting responses all around... *. *. *
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