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Blogs > Heretofindyou257 > Thoughts & Visuals of my Mind

IM and Messaging as a Regular Member ( non- Gold or VIP)  

Heretofindyou257 66M
526 posts
1/17/2021 9:41 pm
IM and Messaging as a Regular Member ( non- Gold or VIP)

So as a member , it looks like I can receive IM’s and emails. In order to respond to those I may have to upgrade. I have earned some points, so I will have to see what I can use those for. I appreciate all that have sent me IM’s and emails. Looking forward to maybe sending them back, when and if the system allows.

What has been your experience?

Brownie202 67F  
2680 posts
1/18/2021 1:42 am

 Not meeting at this time. If I was there would be no way I would be interested in most that send me a im or message. If I want to meet most likely it would be from a BDSM site that is not alt. To many wanna be doms at this site who can't admit they a are a top not a dom. I am only a bottom but don't pretend I am a submissive.
Humans are the most dangerous animals on earth.

If only animals had the ability to know when to keep away from us humans they would be better off.


Naughtypursuit 56F  
2766 posts
1/18/2021 5:33 am

 Someone needs to be gold and your fan to email and you require points to IM. You can try setting up a private blog to converse back and forth for free.


ruintowood52 66M
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1/18/2021 5:43 am

 I too am a Standard Member and can't do anything. NoStrings caters to women and gold members


Heretofindyou257 66M
352 posts
1/18/2021 6:30 am
    Quoting  :
Thank you for adding your perspective and experience on this matter. It’s helpful.


Heretofindyou257 66M
352 posts
1/18/2021 6:35 am
    Quoting Naughtypursuit:
    Someone needs to be gold and your fan to email and you require points to IM. You can try setting up a private blog to converse back and forth for free.
Thank you for adding to the information in regards to communication on this site. Helpful.


Heretofindyou257 66M
352 posts
1/18/2021 8:34 am
    Quoting ruintowood52:
    I too am a Standard Member and can't do anything. NoStrings caters to women and gold members
Thank you for adding your experience with the site here.


japaneseass 56F  
50231 posts
1/18/2021 9:09 am

 IM on this site has been very unstable...for years...sometime when you reply, you don't get anything back, due to the instability in IM system. So basically you just wasted your points. If you must spend your points, i would say, reply back in messages.

Another thing is that, don't put your hopes high...i see you are a married, and some of the women on this site are very judgemental about the married men lurking around...

me? I prefer the married..i am also married...we all have some situation we must cope at home, and as long as we are gonna own up for our actions, when the things all come out, I don't need anyone's judgement...

good luck on your search...


Heretofindyou257 66M
352 posts
1/18/2021 10:46 am
    Quoting japaneseass:
    IM on this site has been very unstable...for years...sometime when you reply, you don't get anything back, due to the instability in IM system. So basically you just wasted your points. If you must spend your points, i would say, reply back in messages.

    Another thing is that, don't put your hopes high...i see you are a married, and some of the women on this site are very judgemental about the married men lurking around...

    me? I prefer the married..i am also married...we all have some situation we must cope at home, and as long as we are gonna own up for our actions, when the things all come out, I don't need anyone's judgement...

    good luck on your search...
Thank you for sharing in regards to the IM system. As far as finding someone, I’m not in a hurry. If I connect that would be great, if not this is a good distraction from my everyday routine. Enjoy.


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