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Blogs > EroticMusings2 > Sensual Dreamscape

The Safety Net  

EroticMusings2 59F  
1539 posts
1/23/2021 3:32 am
The Safety Net
There is alot to be said about wanting to not use condoms while having sex. Lets be honest here, none of us like them. But is it really worth taking that chance.

My Late Uncle died of AIDS, and it was due to having unprotected sex with his girlfriend. They had been together for years, but he did not realize that she was trading sex for drugs. If you ever watch someone die of this horrible disease, you will welcome the use of condoms. It ravaged his body, made him a literal skeleton, with sores. He was no longer my Uncle, my childhood friend because there was only 2 years difference between he and I. We used to fight too, I remember that I would get so mad that he insisted that i call him Uncle.

Condoms might not feel the greatest but neither do ports, ivs, feeding tubes. Doesn't feel good to go through chemo, so many drugs, being turned to prevent bedsores. Doesn't feel good to have to wear adult diapers , and lose all ability to even sit up.

Experiment with different condoms. Make sure whoever you are going to be with is tested and clean. If you cant trust them to tell you the truth about their sexual activities and safety, why would you want to engage with them sexually anyway. For every person they have been with and if they are married whoever their spouse, partner etc has been with means you are going the orgy. Play safely folks and keep your numbers very low. When in doubt, glove up. Listen I am far from judgmental, I am just being outspoken and smart about this. I expect the same from who I am with. My rule is if there is a "US", we play without the need of condoms, but anyone else, must be gloved.

Live long and prosper my friends,
Yes I went there lol

Ann

*Creative Outlets of All Forms thru Me*
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1/23/2021 2:16 pm

 Well said!!!


hippiechick1967 60F  
13154 posts
1/23/2021 2:54 pm

 That was a sobering reminder of how important it is to be safe, thanks!
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positively4you 74F  
4605 posts
1/23/2021 4:24 pm

 So sad to see that. So many get comfortable with a committed long term yet like him, it backfired. You cant be at ease it seems. I got hsv from a long term. Not a fly by nighter. It is devaststing. I am so thankful it was nothing worse or fatal. Total trust is difficult.


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