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BBC and what it means  

Kris20219 72M
3 posts
4/26/2020 2:05 am
BBC and what it means

Ahh the eternal fascination with BBC! Just my observations on same.
First up it is apparent it is very much a one way street. i.e. Black men on white women. Don't see an awful lot of the other way around? Also we almost never see mixed couples on these pages despite there being an appreciable number in society as a whole?
Seems to me there are an awful lot of married white women who crave it but do not consider black guys good enough to marry. I have to wonder why not if it is that good?
Thus I believe it is inherently and despicably a racist position. Maybe white women are reluctant to put their money where their mouth wants to be?
The 'help' are good enough to fuck but then go back to their rightful place? Kind of like a 'bit of rough trade' which is equally sad and condescending.
Over recent decades and rightfully so, women have been battling being seen and treated as 'sex objects' and stridently oppose such. I have to ask then, what is the difference between that and the treatment of black men as exactly the same thing?
Just by the way, this is not simply 'white guy jealousy'. Hey 'bigger is better' is commonplace with women. Can't fight reality and good luck with that girls.
Then there is the 'accessory value'. In some swinging circles the black stud is the equivalent of the Gucci handbag when the gals are comparing notes.
Sorry if any of this offends ladies. I just like to call a spade a spade if you'll pardon the pun.
I am pretty sure that there are legions of intelligent and successful black guys around whose sense of self respect would call out a woman they intuitively saw as 'using' them for sexual gratification. Fun is fun but I really wonder just how comfortable being 'that guy' would be in the long run if they really called out the woman to be in an open relationship?
The 'Gangsta' crowd, the bad boy wannabes I suspect would not care and one has to wonder at the psyche of the woman who is gratified by being their bitch? One thing in fantasy play before going back to their comfortable 'white lives'. Would you take them to Sunday lunch with Mum and Dad?

pocogato12 71F  
37235 posts
5/5/2020 1:30 pm

 Same with this one.
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Bettibenobo 68F
423 posts
5/5/2020 6:24 pm

 I was married to a black man for 28 yrs.


Kris20219 replies on 5/6/2020 1:42 am:
Then kudos to you for being part of the small percentage of the truly open minded. For the rest.. I stand by my observations.

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