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No sex in 85 years  

MegansSoftKitten 46F
0 posts
10/20/2019 3:29 pm
No sex in 85 years


Or at least it feels that way. I've come realize a few reasons why I haven't met anyone in real life or online. First issue is I'm a single mom a of . That makes my personal time very limited. Second reason is weight. I have gained so much weight since giving birth and going through divorce that I'm ashamed be seen unclothed. I dont feel sexy anymore. I try, but I fail. I have recently joined a gym hoping improve myself, or more importantly, getbmy self esteem back.

Yours_4A_knight 59M

10/20/2019 10:40 pm

Weight is a struggling and staying healthy and setting a good example for your child is important, hopefully you make some gym friends to keep you motivated. from an appearance point of view though . . odds are you are harder on yourself than anyone else is.

I also totally get the it has been so long since you have had sex that you are not even sure if you remember how, and you feel anything but sexy. everyone keeps telling me that sex starts in the brain and how you see yourself, it hasn't helped me but I have the extra downgrading from being older and a guy so it is very hard for me to find women that are interested with some many younger better models available.

One last thing about the blogs in order for them to find their way to the main list and get read they need a comment, even from you. . . I know not a lot sense but it is what it is

Not the Whole Truth but the truth that I can see.


jajo696 113F
4287 posts
10/21/2019 1:59 am

lol....thats a looonngggg time. Just be you.....there is something for everyone here....all kindsa everything...BUT yes....u have to have a positive attitude and exude that energy. Good Luck...heres hoping that the drought has ended ~~


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