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Scared Virgin Who Is Curious  

loolwhynot 23F
17 posts
9/26/2019 2:06 pm
Scared Virgin Who Is Curious


Was exposed porn a really young age because I typed a website URL wrong which led a porn site. I probably have been watching porn for the longest time I could remember, but I never went actually get fucked myself. I love looking cocks getting/being stroked and everything, but it's just I'm too scared myself to meet up with someone I don't know... plus it's also a no-no since I'm insecure of my body (I'm very curvy) and probably not the most visually appealing person there is, hence why I don't like sending pictures of myself. I've always wanted cock, not sure if cock wanted me... LOL.

forgotforgetting 57M
8134 posts
9/26/2019 3:07 pm

I understand being shy about your body. Sexy comes in all shapes and sizes. I can tell that you are being too hard on yourself but you have to believe first. Otherwise my words won't ring true to you. All I can do is quote Sophia Loren (classic Hollywood sex symbol) : "Sex appeal is 50% what you got and 50% what people think you got."
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Welcome to the blogs.

“Be yourself; everyone else is already taken.”
― Oscar Wilde


purpleman2986 50M  
133 posts
9/26/2019 3:17 pm

Good advice forgotforgetting! Yes loolehynot you are being too hard on yourself. Guys LOVE curvy girls. I know I do... kick me back. I’m the same name as here


austin4fuck 43M
9 posts
9/26/2019 3:26 pm

If you put yourself out there there will always be be people dying to tear you down. That just the ugliness of the world. It's why reality tv and Twitter are so popular. People love sitting behind a screen and making other people feel like shit. On the other hand, if you don't put yourself out there you will never experience the world. You need to learn to tune out the noise and focus on the positive. There are lots of people who are looking for someone exactly like you.


luv2suk1966 63M/57F
1927 posts
9/26/2019 4:07 pm

As a woman in her 50's, I believe CONFIDENCE is the key!! I'm curvy, and if they don't like it, fuck 'em!! Please be careful looking for your first encounter. Be safe, be aware of your surroundings, use protection, and don't fall in love with the first good fuck. People can be selfish. Establish rules. Sorry, the Mom in me is in full force today. Above all, have fun!!!

Have a great day, and be nice to one another.


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
9/26/2019 4:30 pm

There are all kinds of guys , all ages, who would have sex with a fat 19 yo woman.
Its when you start approaching 25 and up, and you're still fat. The kind of men who would want to have sex with you could very well be questionable in their motives.... and a good chance he dropped out of High School and works for minimum wage. ... So if you are planning on being a mom some day? Be careful about the men who would pursue you, if you're going to remain fat.

I'd suggest you cancel your profile on this kind of site, and any dating site, and put your energy into reshaping your body at your favorite gym, and changing the kinds of food you consume.

That is just common sense. Men , if he wants to attract the kind of women he wants , has to better himself , too.

Of course there's the other option..... staying fat all your life, and attracting some guy who never bettered himself, ... now you are both dependent on each other to not improve for fear of one or both of you leaving for a better mate. Not a very good place to be.

The nonsense about watching porn is an obvious ploy to draw guys to you, but you won't be happy with yourself if you continue to do this.


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
9/26/2019 4:34 pm

    Quoting austin4fuck:
    If you put yourself out there there will always be be people dying to tear you down. That just the ugliness of the world. It's why reality tv and Twitter are so popular. People love sitting behind a screen and making other people feel like shit. On the other hand, if you don't put yourself out there you will never experience the world. You need to learn to tune out the noise and focus on the positive. There are lots of people who are looking for someone exactly like you.
There are lots of people who are looking for someone exactly like you.

... That's what I was warning you about.... "Lots of people [males]" looking for an insecure fat virgin 19 yo woman who watches porn all the time.

ha... what do you think that mess of males looks like?


positively4you 74F  
4605 posts
9/26/2019 7:02 pm

I’m with Heathen to a degree. You are too young and inexperienced for this site. It is full of less than ideal and I feel you cannot discern well enough.
The web is full of predators. Try to meet a nice guy in real life. Most women are insecure with their body. You don’t have to be a size 2. And not all men feel they are settling. But, a lot of men will take advantage of your self body image and use that just to get off. Take care of yourself, you are worth it.


JustWannaPlay76 48M

9/26/2019 8:09 pm

you're missing out!


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
9/27/2019 12:45 am

    Quoting  :

This is an example of the crap out there. He , and millions like him, virgins or not, who are a complete hormonal mess, who will say anything to get you naked , in person, or skype , where he may record your image for jack-off purposes , later, possibly to share with his friends.
He's even trying to make you think, if you let him see you naked he will love you. And that is bullshit. When you do find a guy you want to get naked with and have sex with, it won't have anything to do with love, only hormonal lust. An infatuation.


nsatoronto91 33M
11 posts
9/28/2019 9:33 pm

dont know if i believe any of this but good stuff


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