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seems6666 53F  
4838 posts
10/13/2019 11:04 am

 1st times are rarely good, so I would give him a 2nd chance.


Looking4fun10180 64M

10/13/2019 11:05 am

 Everything's worth a second try. Especially with people.


pocogato12 71F  
37235 posts
10/13/2019 11:24 am

 If the rest of the connection seemed viable a second chance is always a good thing- different circumstances different perspective, better communication
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zeke53028 65M  
Ask me for a photo
1135 posts
10/13/2019 1:00 pm

 It really depends on her personality. If she was fun, I'd give it some time. The sex can be figured out, but if she was a pain, then I'd move on.


Wok2016 42M  
599 posts
10/13/2019 1:54 pm

 Like your title says, Second Chance for me. I'll give you a pass for the first go-around, you're usually all up in your head when you get naked with a new partner for the first time. Three strikes and you're out for sure though!!


s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
10/13/2019 6:00 pm

 From a guys perspective it takes an untold amount of effort and attention to
get to that point.I would certainly stick with it and who's to say
the next one would be more satisfying any way.
Using more than all the road!


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
10/14/2019 3:46 am

 You use the word, "Finally". Why?

If getting her naked and in bed is a "Finally" episode. There is no second chance , even if the sex is hot. I'm spewing my load and moving on. I've lost interest.

Under more mutually sexually attractive episodes , where she and I get together at the soonest possible time , and have sex, and it's "Okay", that works . I'm good with "Okay", as long as there is laughter and we both enjoy it... yes.. okay is good.

As long as the sex remains "Okay" or better, this is great. It's when the sex goes from "Okay" to "This stinks", "Not tonight" , "I'm tired". That's when moving on happens.

But to expect "Mind blowing", is adolescent nonsense. You either enjoy the sex, or you don't.


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