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Does "No" really mean "Never"....all the time?
Does "No" really mean "Never"....all the time? It does not.... not always. Take a chance. [See first comment at the bottom]. |
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And she's still arguing over it with another guy.... Says : Josh 2/4/2020 "So a guy treats you bad"...he says to the woman who thinks she is sapio sexual .."so you blast men in general. Why not blast the individual that treated you bad? I’m sure he has a name you can post. The fact I have the same appendage as this guy doesn’t mean I act like him." She replies: "Sexpot replies on 2/11/2020 IF YOU ARE TRIGGERED SO MUCH BY MY POST....maybe you need to think about why........" My comment to her reply to him: ..... Rolls eyes, face-palm
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Sexpot734 38F 2/3/2020 9:38 pm if your comment was deleted, I don't like your attitude. no DOES, in fact mean no....... "No" is not absolute. Women prove that to be true all the time... Even you know that. And, evidently , "Yes" is not always absolute either. She says, "Yes" today, and some time in the near, or far , future, she tries to pin an assault charge on the guy.
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and the game is played in many ways!
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2/4/2020 2:57 am |
read that blog wrote on the wall flushed and went on with my day there is a world of difference between insanity and stupidity
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2/4/2020 2:25 am |
I dunno...women are confusing...meh, I guess men are too..but I’m not here doing studies on either. Why beat a dead horse, a no ...usually means NO..move on.
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I'm tired of the constant rejection and now waiting for my gold membership which I paid for to kick in. it's frustrating that I can't communicate with a membership I paid for.
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The trouble I see is that 99 percent of these women are very stingy with the pussy! Christ they're on a sex site and don't ant sex? This isn't a nunnery my god if they don't want sex at all they should leave and let real men find a woman who isn;t a prude.
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Then she wrote,..." I don't like your attitude." That's funny... I certainly don't like her attitude about men just giving up after one attempt. He should try again later. At most one or two times later. This attitude she is promoting men have is a weakening of the male character...and we can't have that.
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A woman, on these blogs, said she is sapiosexual, which really doesn't exist. She goes on to say in her blog, ..if you wore a bag over your head, I still wouldn't fuck you ....That doesn't make sense if she insists she is sapiosexual. She is suppose to get aroused by intellect. What if , under that bag , he starts talking about String Theory and Nano-Bot surgery? Women who tell you they want intellectual conversation, to get to know you, are not going to have sex with you ever. She's almost 40 now, so she needs men to still notice her, but she doesn't want to have sex with them. So , voila, pretend there is something called "Sapiosexualism". This means she can say she is turned on by intellect, you'll converse with her, she gets attention, gets her questions answered and she walks away. No sex. But she thanks you for the attention and being a fan of hers. Then she accuses men of having no standards because the men she's met want to have sex.....ha...What does that say about her? She's attracting men with no standards? ....Men have standards.. .. Standard One: If she's hot I want to fuck. ...Standard Two: If she's gross I don't want to fuck. ...Standard Three: Oh what the hell. ...Standard Four: I'm hungry. ...Standard Five: Try again, at least one more time. Then she goes on to say, " ..men need to learn to be original, ..... I'm thinking she means come up with better pickup lines. Which really isn't necessary. When a woman is aroused by you, maybe in the most minimal way, you'll still get laid. You don't need a line. Then she noted,"... and understand NO MEANS NO , no doesn't mean, talk me into it.......... Oh really?! How many of you wouldn't be here if someone, way back, or just your dad, said, "Okay, bye", when your mom or some female ancestor said , "No". A woman tells you, "No", if you're not a r-pist you'll back off, but you should try at least one more time, later, another time... with maybe 3 times being your rejection limit. Women say, "No" , and women definitely mean "No"... but that doesn't always mean , "Go away and never try again". Ever run across those women, who tell you , "No", and you go away and date someone else, like you 're suppose to, and later they run into you somewhere, while you're dating another woman, and she asks you , "Where did you go, you never called again"? ...And you give her that bewildered look, like she's crazy. Two reasons she does this; - she sees you with another woman and you become more interesting to her.... - she didn't mean never try again later. Sometimes women do like to be pursued. [Play her game]. But set your limits. If she says , "No" , at most at 3 different times.... then walk away forever. She's wasting your time to get sex. The writer of her blog goes on to say, "I definitely evaluate on a case [man] by case [man] basis....it is just sad that men can't respect my wishes. .... Which is nonsense. She means; If she's attracted to you, she wants you. If she's not attracted to you , she doesn't want you. She says, "I have a very detailed profile, if a suitor chooses to read it, .... That's a red flag, when you're looking for women on a sex site. She throws everything at you , knowing full well no man is going to tick all of those requirements. Basically, she's here to see if her aging body can still get attention....not have sex. Plus she uses the word, "Suitor". The woman is batty. She's on a sex site, about 40, and looking for a husband. .....HERE?!! This site? Yep, Red Flag... back away. She continues typing," I *still* want to get to know them, so I can *feel attracted* .... Attraction, to be attracted to someone, doesn't work that way. "Attraction", is instant. "Getting to know them", does not create attraction where no attraction was present [when you meet for the first time]. In fact, "Getting to know..", where attraction is present, can often get ruin any attraction you may have had. and determine we are even compatible. .....When she shows no interest in you sexually, you're not compatible. And sexual interest is instant. You just know. Of course if she's interviewing for platonic relationships, then, "Getting to know", is the way to go. Sometimes she'll tell you , "Let's be just friends", or she won't tell you at all, and just allow you to think you have a chance at tapping that. But still a good chance it's all about her getting attention from you, and if you're stupid, paying for her meal or drink/s. Then she explains why she blogged about this; " this post was spurred because the *nth*man on here was trying to talk me into meeting and fucking him, .... I suppose she was confused how men would do that after she shows a picture of her bottom. She continues...."because he met *one* of my requirements, and not many others............ Oh shock! If anyone just gives up because they don't meet requirements written who knows when ..how long ago, then where would we be? Some requirements are a , "Duh", like close by. "Male", "Female", "Straight", "Gay"....but say she wants a man who is six foot or taller but you're 5'10..... ...give her a holler. Take a chance. It's jut a , "No". LOL.. carry on men. Use your best judgment. Keep trying to get a woman's attention for sex, if you must, at least two times. Three at the very most. If she keeps saying, "No" after two or three different times... then find another.
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