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Advice for Ladies (FSM) Pt 2
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Advice for Ladies (FSM) Pt 2 Some more tips (from an admitted 'o*d [stop editing out 'o*d', NoStrings!] man' not necessarily up [seriously; you're going to remove U-P?] on the times). I also freely admit most of the following could equally apply to men's profiles. 1) DO NOT HAVE "LIVE, LOVE, LAUGH" anywhere in your profile! Seriously, ladies, it's trite, and half of you are using it (well, maybe not that many, but still...). 2) DO NOT ALLOW RESPONSES OF "ASK M* ANYTHING"! I can only imagine what you might be asked, but perhaps more importantly, you ne*d to put a little thought into this, as most of you would expect of men; and see next point. 3) DO NOT USE "TELL YOU/FILL THIS IN LATER"! This -- and the next couple of points -- were mentioned in #2 above, but behoove some detail. Again, it says to me, 'lazy', 'scatterbrained', and/or 'doesn't know herself well enough'. Wait to post until you have something to say to me. 4) AVOID "PREFER NOT TO SAY" or similar answers, or at least minimise their use; as others -- including women -- have pointed out: What are you hiding? 5) AVOID GENERALISATIONS such as "I like everything", or "Too much to list"! WTF? You can't think of ANYTHING you like? See #3 & 4. 6) FOR FUCK SAKE, LEARN ENGLISH (or whatever your native language)! 'Nuff said. 7) AVOID LIKING "KISSES" AND "CUDDLES"! Of course you do, and we do too -- but we're not going to admit it.   P*Y! All right, this is not an absolute, but it tells you're serious, instead of awaiting first contact by limited means; and see next point.9) REACH AND TOUCH (so to speak) SOMEONE! Again, seriously, ladies, it's nearly 2020; you are allowed to make first contact (but I'd rather you didn't make it if you're going to say to me something like, "Please don't contact me. Ever! Not even in my next life.") Thanx for reading!  J EDIT: To be fair, see Emails and Profiles of Men Seeking - I'm not sure that you understand what you thought I said, but I think you'll agree that what I understood you to say is not what I think. |
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Helpful Tips for sure.
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Helpful Tips for sure. I'm not sure that you understand what you thought I said, but I think you'll agree that what I understood you to say is not what I think.
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Too true, 2saltie2! Note that I did mention that most could well apply to men as well. Thanx for reading & commenting! J I'm not sure that you understand what you thought I said, but I think you'll agree that what I understood you to say is not what I think.
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Well, well, finally a man who admits to reading profiles just when I had given up. Great points you listed (Virtual Symposium Group) use Virtual Symposium Group
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Well, well, finally a man who admits to reading profiles just when I had given up. Great points you listed P.S. I have made bouillabaisse. I'm not sure that you understand what you thought I said, but I think you'll agree that what I understood you to say is not what I think.
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Apologies to all for my REPEATED editing of my posts. I cannot stand the fucking bots on this site stripping every word out that may be remotely 'forbidden'. Like, 'pay' and 'out'? 'at'? 'me'? WTF, NoStrings? Seriously? A little too sensitive there.  I'm not sure that you understand what you thought I said, but I think you'll agree that what I understood you to say is not what I think.
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 Love this post!I have to admit that one of the things I see on profiles (the limited amount I CAN see on profiles given my status as a standard member) is the "Ask me" for the entirety of the profile. Pagan  Hmmmm....I know I left that wand around here somewhere!
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