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I dont understand  

Imthatgirl1122 42F
1382 posts
7/11/2020 4:14 am

Last Read:
9/2/2020 3:52 am

I dont understand


I always thought that I'm the cool easy going kinda girl, I know pretty much the unwritten rules of how this FWB, ONS, fuck buddy works. usually when I met someone and we had good sex and wanted make it regular, I always told them upfront that if in the future the situation changed in anyway and meeting is no longer possible then just let me know and I'll be gone. vice versa. no headache, no drama, no hard feeling. just pure fun.

and it always works for me. until now. so at the moment I have 3 fuck buddies. and I found out that the one which is the youngest lied to me. how I found out was pretty easy actually but lets keep that a secret haha. it started when COVID started and he said that he needs to go back to his county and then one month later he said he quit his job here but will come back for couple of days just to sort his stuff. while the fact that he is here all along and still working at the place.

now all of you will think, nah Indi, he just doesn't want to meet anymore. yeah, thats exactly whats on my mind. not a big deal. but when he lied of where he was, he kept texting me almost every day (and I never ever text him first) and made plan to meet. I still play along with it.

I'm definitely too old for this kind of shit. don't tell that I'm naive but I seriously don't understand whats going on? what's the point of this drama? is there any purpose at it? it just don't make sense. why the lies? even I didn't make this kinda drama with my last ex.

well.. sorry for the rant, it just bothered my mind at the moment. yeah I won't along much longer, just waiting for the right time. he likes drama so ill give him some.

updated (13july): yeah, he's gone. I did let him know that I know. and as usual, he didn't reply. so much for being a gentleman. felt so relieve now. thanks everyone that commented on this blog. helped me a lot.

Imthatgirl1122 42F
1835 posts
7/11/2020 4:16 am

hows everyone doing?


profcoquin27bis 59M
4323 posts
7/11/2020 5:07 am

i understand your point of view


Imthatgirl1122 replies on 7/11/2020 7:50 am:
well thank you...

1seeking1 58F
3767 posts
7/11/2020 6:34 am

Only he can answer why. Life is too precious for BS and drama, stay safe.


Imthatgirl1122 replies on 7/11/2020 7:52 am:
im so agree with you. thanks a lot. stay safe too friend.

ltrskr 75M

7/11/2020 6:52 am

Block him and Roll-On........
Life is toooo short for petty drama!


Imthatgirl1122 replies on 7/11/2020 12:24 pm:
I agree with you life indeed too short. thanks a lot

alex_2225 40M
1 post
7/11/2020 7:06 am

You are too HOT to let go.


Imthatgirl1122 replies on 7/11/2020 7:53 am:
thanks a lot. if you nearer, ill come to pick you up and buy you a drink or two

jajo696 113F
4287 posts
7/11/2020 7:26 am

oh brother...people are such liars. Glad you found out and he needs to know that you know he is a liar. What a disappointment !

No worries about the rant. Its YOUR blog to do with as you wish. And pay no mind to the naysayers......you gotta do you !!

Good luck with the liar.....lol ~~


Imthatgirl1122 replies on 7/11/2020 12:25 pm:
thank you...you made me feel so much better...I totally gonna let him know before I blocked him. thanks again

funiithesun58 66M
1277 posts
7/11/2020 7:28 am

Block his ass and move on


Imthatgirl1122 replies on 7/11/2020 12:25 pm:
thanks a lot. will do.

Leegs2012 51M
96137 posts
7/11/2020 10:23 am

Move forward. You do not need this kind of stuff...especially now a days. Stay Safe!!


Imthatgirl1122 replies on 7/11/2020 12:26 pm:
I know right...we are in pandemic and he still have time for this. thank you

Mr_Mercedes 61M
617 posts
7/11/2020 11:06 pm

You probably shouldn’t keep messing with what you don’t understand. You’re too sweet.


Looking for Mischief


DoctorBooty 43M  
6426 posts
7/12/2020 8:00 am

Yeah, he's lying out of habit, thinking if he told you the truth that you'd drop him and he'd never get you back in his bed. Its hard to accept sometimes that a single lady actually wants to keep it as more no-strings sex. I don't know his reason why, maybe he's keeping more fish on the line and cant decide what to do.

But situations like this, I drop the liar. I don't put up with lying.


Imthatgirl1122 42F
1835 posts
7/12/2020 1:55 pm

    Quoting Mr_Mercedes:
    You probably shouldn’t keep messing with what you don’t understand. You’re too sweet.
Yeah i shouldnt but if im presented with it then my mind will question it. Thanks a lot


Imthatgirl1122 42F
1835 posts
7/12/2020 2:02 pm

    Quoting DoctorBooty:
    Yeah, he's lying out of habit, thinking if he told you the truth that you'd drop him and he'd never get you back in his bed. Its hard to accept sometimes that a single lady actually wants to keep it as more no-strings sex. I don't know his reason why, maybe he's keeping more fish on the line and cant decide what to do.

    But situations like this, I drop the liar. I don't put up with lying.
Lying out of habit.. that sounds bad. I really want to try to understand but i dont think it will be useful. No matter the reason, i agree with you i cant tolerate lying. Oh well... thank you!!


CUMHANDLEME 61F  
794 posts
7/16/2020 5:32 pm

Boys will be boys. Only problem is some boys never grow up.

Do you have any Primal Urges ... I do, please CUMHANDLEME and explore some of my naughty and nice Primal ... Urges with me !!!


Imthatgirl1122 replies on 7/18/2020 3:14 pm:
I know that now. pretty disappointed. thank you

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