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Swingers: Mentally Healthier Than Monogamous Peers
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Swingers: Mentally Healthier Than Monogamous Peers After 7 years SWINGING togther as a couple I think it may be true to say that both men and women who swing may have some important mental health strengths! One of the traits that determines happiness and mental health is flexibility: the capacity for creativity, abstract thinking, and adapting to changing circumstances. When it comes to the sex lives of swingers that we have experinced, there’s no question that they are more flexible in their approach to sex than their monogamous counterparts. But the real question is more complex: Is flexibility toward sex a good thing or a bad thing? Distinguishing characteristic we have found is that couples who swing have less fear than monogamous couples. What’s more, they cheat less! In terms of the fear, monogamous couples often fall into the toxic jealousy trap, afraid that a particular behavior or gesture might lead to a full-fledged affair and the end of the relationship. Monogamous couples also often fear that their best days are behind them, that they lost the opportunity for sexual excitement in favor of settling down and getting married. On the other hand, swinging couples are often deeply in love and emotionally connected, but they don’t value sex in the same way their monogamous peers do. When it comes down to the nitty-gritty, the dividing line is all about the values any couple holds toward sex. In our experience we have found that monogamous couples are often judgmental about a sex life that is anything other than monogamous, while swinging couples often espouse more of a live-and-let-live attitude. In other words, they’re often less judgmental of couples who choose to live a monogamous lifestyle. For us, not only has swinging greatly enriched our sex life, it has also helped us learn so much more about ourselves and human nature!!! VIVA SWINGING FOLKS! Mel xxx  |
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Love Mel and Andy's posts...intelligent and witty... and the video is a wow...More please !!!! Dee x
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