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Things she taught me
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Things she taught me Decided to try out the site for 45 days. Here is what I have learned. Everyone's experience may be a little different so these are just the things that I have found to be true. If it has been different for you, feel free to say so. There are plenty of fake accounts. Some are trying to draw people to a different site. Many are people pretending to be someone they are not. The site is excellent for someone who is looking for an endless supply of visual stimulation made available by everyday people. If watching without human interaction is all you seek, you likely won't be disappointed. It is a little trickier for someone who wants person to person contact. It is tricky for those seeking men AND those seeking women. But usually for different reasons. If you are interested in connecting with a guy, the quantity is boundless, but the quality can leave something to be desired. Many women on the site encourage the men to respond or initiate contact with more than a "wanna hook up" or "nice tits;" yet every picture on the site has plenty of thoughtless or shallow responses. Women struggle to sift through the "creeps, weirdos, and losers," as one woman put it. The pool is much less wide for those seeking real connection with a woman. It is really difficult for a guy to prove that he doesn't fall into the category of men she is trying to avoid. When conversations do begin, she is often talking to several more people at the same time and can seem distracted from the conversation. Taking the conversation to a different online venue can help. Several women have shown appreciation for conversation that isn't immediately focused on sex. It is wonderful, but also rare to find a woman who initiates conversation, responds to questions in a thoughtful way, and asks good questions herself. This may sound offensive, but it may also be true. The amount a options available to some women may limit the amount of effort they feel they need to put in. If she isn't being stimulated emotionally or mentally right away, she may move on from the conversation pretty quickly. This makes it difficult because every woman is different and it is a feeling out process to understand where she would like the conversation to go. There is a fair amount of judgement on the site. One member's scathing judgment of another member's interests were especially humorous considering her profile advertised that her ideal person was someone who was "open minded and not judgmental." Finally, I have learned that the blogs are a really good place to get honest interaction. It may be the most underrated portion of the site.   |
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Feel free to agree or disagree with my observations and opinions. What surprised you about this site when you first started using it?
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Interesting post
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 Oh yea I think you nailed it alright.. Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on.. 
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9/10/2018 3:12 pm |
Amen my man.
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9/10/2018 4:19 pm |
You seem to have gathered, done your discovery work and comprehended much in short order. Very Good for you as many, at a wide variety of ages, do not seem to acknowledge and fully understand what you have at your age. Kottos to you! It is indeed rare for females (most noted here) to actually chat on IM , or communicate and provide any quantitative comments. Again, I concur, in making note that it is extremely difficult to defend yourself, (remove yourself from a less than desirable category) from the experiences that some women and men as well, which may have had mental and physical dealings with, which was caused by others, as it can directly effect the recipient of such acts. Such mental issues are indeed frustrating and almost always unchangeable. If you have received even a few whom did engage in mature adult communication, that is indeed some form of positive progress and offers hope for those whom actually seek mature adult companions, to share with. As you most likely already know, age does not guarantee maturity nor being adult. Some people simply just get old. Great Post!
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Totally agree with what you have written. Nice to see someone who has a good grasp on the inner workings of the site.
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