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Blogs > JaniceJanes > Jan's Thoughts

The Hard Truth is  

JaniceJanes 49T  
707 posts
8/10/2018 10:30 am
The Hard Truth is

Not everyone appeals to everyone!

Had an incident last night on line that really upset me. I was chatting with a guy that I have talked to before, causal conversation like before mostly about sexual preferences and the like. Just late night rambling.

All of a sudden he goes off about me not wanting to meet him for kinky sex. Started calling me a BS’er and fake.

I tried to remind him that we never talked about a personal meeting to my recollection. He kept on with his rant about me lying to me until I closed the dialogue screen.

Here’s why I know I never mislead him. The one picture that is in his Profile I did not find appealing. It only shows his genitalia in what appears to be woman’s panties. No face at all. This was not physically or sexually arousing to me. Not enough for anyone to consider an encounter.

I can’t recall for sure but he probably contacted me first in the beginning. I will usually answer a IM even if just a simple “Hello”. I don’t reach out to many people to start conversations.

Here simply put is the Hard Truth;

Everyone has their own taste and preferences. What appeals to an individual is manifested in every aspect of our life, after about the age of 12. This is what makes everyone different.

So if a man or woman doesn’t react to your proposal for sex, it’s probably because we don’t align in our preferences or taste.

Here’s a easy test of what saying. Go to the “My Stuff” tab on your Profile. Go over to the far right column and click on “Viewed Me”. See how many people looked at your Profile and I guarantee you the majority never contacted you.

Either something in your Introduction or Information or maybe in your Photos didn’t match their preferences. Nothing wrong with that, just a matter of choice.

So don’t get angry just because someone doesn’t get excited over you. Accept it and move on peacefully.

Jan
Leegs2012 51M
96137 posts
8/11/2018 8:43 am

 That's right..plenty of fish in the sea!!


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