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Blogs > JaniceJanes > Jan's Thoughts

Non-passable? Are you sure?  

JaniceJanes 49T  
707 posts
8/5/2018 1:12 pm
Non-passable? Are you sure?

I see “Non-Passable” a lot in the Profiles of many on this and other sites. It always causes me to question this.

I believe “Non-Passable” means that you feel you would be outed in public as a guy, not a woman. It also means, I believe, you will meet in private, away from people that may be suspicious of your real gender.

OK, if it’s a bread or mustache that makes you “Non-Passable”that a separate issue. Your hairy face is not going to get you many dates but if you have to keep it, well you have to keep it but to me that doesn’t make you “Non-Passable” it make you “Undesirable”.

First, are you being too critical of your Feminine look? Maybe you just need to refine your make-up some. Or have different hair.There are several places on the internet that can help you get a better look, even make-up tips for CDs.

Maybe it’s something physical in your appearance. Large Adam’s Apple, a manly nose or just general masculine features. Whatever it is, there are ways to mask or minimize these also. Woman use them all the time. Look them up.

Lastly, take a look around you on any given day or anyplace. How many real females do you see that are actually “Non-Passable”. Too tall, too large, poorly dressed, hair not done or just plain not generally attractive. Notice something else, they’re with a man usually. Someone accepted them as Passable.

So, don’t be so sure you are “Non-Passable” just because you think you are not a Glamour Queen. Few are. We in the CD/TS/TG community tend to be too conscience of our looks and therefore we become our own worse critic.

Jan

Leegs2012 51M
96137 posts
8/6/2018 5:07 pm

 I will say this that you are very sexy!!! You have a great body!! Sexy Legs!!!!


0scuro 36M
35 posts
8/6/2018 8:31 am

 Awesome post, Janice. I think that if someone is worried about dressing up and being out in public for fear of being easily outed, but they have someone who really likes them and is fine with being together even if it's only behind closed doors, then things are still great in the end. Being with someone who doesn't care about whatever would even be deemed "Non-passable", at least there's still happiness.


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