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Couples... Have Conversations... And Make Plans... And Have Sex... ð ðĨ
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Couples... Have Conversations... And Make Plans... And Have Sex... ð ðĨ I was part of a couple ... once. We'd have sex from time to time. I also remember (when we weren't 'doing it' ), the reassuring warmth I'd feel, as we'd playfully snuggle up next to each other and discuss new plans and adventures. As I think back now, many 'great ideas' - went south. I recall one day...  "That's a great idea," I replied. "It will be..." "... fucking STUPID ...! " she shouted angrily at me (drenched in sweat), hours later. We'd lost seven straight sets.  "... I HATE... fucking mosquitoes," she yelled at me (that afternoon), while smacking another one off her thigh." Did you even bring, the fucking spray? Why do I have to do everything for you?" Or the moment I pulled out our tent, from under some clutter in the garage. "Are you thinking what I'm thinking ?" I looked at her. She giggled back at me and excitedly replied; "Camping is sooo much..." "... fucking BULLSHIT !" I bellowed at her, as we drove out of that monsoon flooded camp site.  "I know," she laughed back at me, while hurriedly packing up the car. "I've got a feeling, that this is gonna be..." "... shittier than I thought... it EVER could be," she whined to me after many fishless hours, in the blazing summer sun. And of course, I'll always think back fondly, to the year we decided to host - Christmas dinner - at our home. I looked at her, as I helped set the beautiful table. Carols played in the background, as I spoke ; "You know? I'm happy we're having everyone, over here. " She lovingly leaned over and kissed me and replied ; "Me too. I am genuinely excited about getting everyone ..." "... to fucking leave , as SOON as possible," she hissed to me, later that evening. The turkey, hadn't been served yet. That's the way, a lot of our adventures worked out. Couples have dialogues and make plans. Single people have monologues and just - do it. I don't mind the monologues. At least I'm not hearing the words - ' Go fuck yourself' - as often. ......................................... You must have your own favorite conversations, adventures and some good ideas - that went bad... right? ðĪ ........................................  ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O |
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Well... Those were just some of the ones, I had. There were tons of others. But ya know what? Eventually we'd sit back and laugh about it. What else could we do? ðĪ ð ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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Although... there was this one time. Ugh... Never mind. THAT'S, a story for another time. ðķðŪ ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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Oh so funny. My fave from married days was when he said invite friends over, and âheâ would do the cooking. I can relax. But...his cooking was sitting by the grill while the meat cooked, drinking beer, talking sports with the guys, while âIâ set the table, made and put together the appetizers and side dishes, made sure everyone is served and then, cleaning it all up while he slept it off on the couch. Yep, marital bliss.
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10/24/2019 12:47 pm |
Couple conversation with other courses or with other single girl or boy both can be enjoyale
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People always , and I mean always, over romanticize being a committed couple. So much life time is wasted pursuing that, and doing that "Together" crap.
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um...yah...and this is why we don't do anything together anymore...and that's why we are still together, maybe??? lol...
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Jackob University er naam ba chinta to mathatei aanar kono karon nai
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10/24/2019 4:22 pm |
very nice very nice.
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Well at least you could laugh about it together. That is the important part.  "Sometimes the most productive thing you can do is relax." â Mark Black
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The best of plans... Paul, you have a great way of telling a story. This is just another of your great stories.
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Oh so funny. My fave from married days was when he said invite friends over, and âheâ would do the cooking. I can relax. But...his cooking was sitting by the grill while the meat cooked, drinking beer, talking sports with the guys, while âIâ set the table, made and put together the appetizers and side dishes, made sure everyone is served and then, cleaning it all up while he slept it off on the couch. Yep, marital bliss. I've done THAT, but I took care of everything. I think. lol ð Yep... I know what you mean. Dja ever have your girlfriends over and he served the chips? ðĪ Yes... us guys are bad. ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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Couple conversation with other courses or with other single girl or boy both can be enjoyale Thanks for popping in. ð ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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I guess I didn't want to turn this into THAT type of post. Sorry about that. I thought people might have funny stories to share. ðð ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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... and so are you... lol ð ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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Oh yeah, Thanksgiving. I remember hosting a group of my friends with my newish boyfriend. I cooked my first turkey which was quite the stressful experience. As we were sitting around relaxing after the meal, he ended up giving a massage to one of my female friends (to show off the massage skills he had learned in the massage class we were taking together).    
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People always , and I mean always, over romanticize being a committed couple. So much life time is wasted pursuing that, and doing that "Together" crap. But yeah... Even YOU must have a story to share? Don't give me your curmudgeon stuff. ð ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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um...yah...and this is why we don't do anything together anymore...and that's why we are still together, maybe??? lol... I can only imagine some of your attempts. We're they like mine? ðĪ ð ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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Jackob University er naam ba chinta to mathatei aanar kono karon nai ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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very nice very nice. Hey.. pop in sometime! ð ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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Well at least you could laugh about it together. That is the important part. But the fights during? Lol ð It wasn't ALL failure.. but you know what I mean? You've got a story or two to share, I'm sure. Or is it just... that people want to forget about stuff from yesterday? I laughed.. eventually... You? ðĪ ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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The best of plans... Paul, you have a great way of telling a story. This is just another of your great stories. I'm glad some here, got it. I'm just amusing myself. Happy to oblige. Thanks again. ð ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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Oh yeah, Thanksgiving. I remember hosting a group of my friends with my newish boyfriend. I cooked my first turkey which was quite the stressful experience. As we were sitting around relaxing after the meal, he ended up giving a massage to one of my female friends (to show off the massage skills he had learned in the massage class we were taking together). Hey... And I'm sure there are a dozen other anecdotes. Right? Blog worthy? ðĪ So... then what happened... ? ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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Romance is good. It's what movies are made of and it's what's powered several generations of dreamers and movie buffs. But yeah... Even YOU must have a story to share? Don't give me your curmudgeon stuff. ð So you want to choose one woman and spend some of your life time with her? That's fine. Go do your thing. Romance is good. .... Not when you use it to put on a show, or beg, for sex. The woman/women you choose, should want to have you without the Hollywood concept of romance tied to the deal to get some pussy. When you're established with a woman, fine....then romance is good. But to use the concept to coax a woman into bending over, makes you look weak. It's what movies are made of .... Yes, fiction. and it's what's powered several generations of dreamers and movie buffs..... No... more like "Brainwashed", not "Powered".
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Glad you laughed. In the end, that's all you can do. Your fishing story sounds like it CAME out all right. lol ð Yep... the mishaps people have are all worthy. I'm sure you've got a ton of other adventures you had! ð ð ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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They sure are! I didn't even touch on the number of times we got lost... even though we had a map. Omg... the fights! lol ð I'm sure most people have THOSE horror stories! Yep... couples. Who knew? ðĪ ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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Oooops.... Was that funny? After a while? Hey... And I'm sure there are a dozen other anecdotes. Right? Blog worthy? ðĪ So... then what happened... ? These days - if it were with the right group of friends - I don't think it would bother me so much or at all. I posted a series of blogs about this relationship when I was new blogger back in 2006. I think hardly anyone found it interesting, but at the time, it was cathartic for me I probably wouldn't have remembered this Thanksgiving incident except for the fact that I've recently been saving off old blog posts.
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10/26/2019 5:47 am |
Bravo, bravo, good blog! Thx for sharing
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Bravo, bravo, good blog! Thx for sharing ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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True... everyone, has plans that went sideways. I have a few of my own, that still make me smile. ð ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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Sounds like some very memorable times you both had together. Some of them reminded me of the way hubby and I talk to each other sometimes. I hope you have a great evening.. Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on.. 
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Sounds like some very memorable times you both had together. Some of them reminded me of the way hubby and I talk to each other sometimes. I hope you have a great evening.. ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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Isn't this possible with any couple? ðĪ I'm sure you have had your own plans that went, sideways, no? lol ð ðŪ I can only imagine how some of your adventures evolved! ðððð―ðŧ Blog idea? ðĪ ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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I think my most memorable "discussion" was the time we got trapped in a cove in a no'r easter in a 17 foot lapstrak yes I spelled it correctly) ALL night. Seaside sex is not all it's cracked up to be (Virtual Symposium Group) use Virtual Symposium Group
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I think my most memorable "discussion" was the time we got trapped in a cove in a no'r easter in a 17 foot lapstrak yes I spelled it correctly) ALL night. Seaside sex is not all it's cracked up to be And ya had sex in the middle of a storm? Alrighty then! You go girl! ðŪðĨðĶ So dja ever make it home? lol ð Boats are not stable, are they. Neither are buses or motorcycles. ðð―ðððŧ ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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Perhaps Paul, not planning anything, just "doing" on impulse?! One thing for sure, doing different, and keeping your relationship exciting - hopefully that could be possible?! Even after say, twenty plus years?! Would be great! ..... And always 'hold onto all those sexy thoughts'! (Remember if you feel like taking part in some sexy fun then click here!) Come on Some Sketch Fun And Now How About 39Me39 Watching 39You39 If you39d like that Please Comment - So if you would like - click here as well!
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Perhaps Paul, not planning anything, just "doing" on impulse?! One thing for sure, doing different, and keeping your relationship exciting - hopefully that could be possible?! Even after say, twenty plus years?! Would be great! Yep... I agree. When I do something on impulse, chances of a great time are good. Sounds like you know the secret. ðð ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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Too funny ty hugs V. Your a great writer by the way. Become a blog watcher sweet_vm
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Too funny ty hugs V. Your a great writer by the way. Hope your day is a peaceful one. ð ð ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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When I was planning my wedding, it was common to invite immediate family, eg. a brother or sister to be in the wedding party. Since I didn't have a sister, I asked my sister-in-law to be, to be a bridesmaid. A few months later, she announced she was pregnant with a due date of 2 months after the wedding. I had visions of all kinds of problems, i.e. getting a dresses, her discomfort, etc. I 'uninvited' her to be in the wedding party. Amongst other issues, the wedding day was less than a joyous occasion with a very perceptible divide amongst the guests!
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When I was planning my wedding, it was common to invite immediate family, eg. a brother or sister to be in the wedding party. Since I didn't have a sister, I asked my sister-in-law to be, to be a bridesmaid. A few months later, she announced she was pregnant with a due date of 2 months after the wedding. I had visions of all kinds of problems, i.e. getting a dresses, her discomfort, etc. I 'uninvited' her to be in the wedding party. Amongst other issues, the wedding day was less than a joyous occasion with a very perceptible divide amongst the guests! I'm sure there are a plethora of things, that went into THAT decision. It would be interesting to find out more. So... How's things in TO? ðĪ ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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