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Blogs > sam197pulsar > Hugs

Is it wise for a couple to live together before getting married?  

sam197pulsar 37M
0 posts
11/29/2017 10:12 pm
Is it wise for a couple to live together before getting married?
In your opinion, is it wise for a couple to live together before getting married?
Yes
No

Have a wonderful day


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
11/30/2017 4:06 pm

 And Sam? You 30 year old men will have a much lower success rate at marriage , if any of your generation decide to marry.

For one thing, marriage is a social interpersonal union with another person. Your generation, having grown up with electronic communications, have poorer interpersonal relationship skills. So if your gen decides to get married, don't expect it to last much longer than 4 to 8 years, maybe less.

It was no happy decision that Gays/Lesbians were given the right to get married. It had to be done. The heterosexual community is fading away from marriage, rapidly. ...LOL... Divorce lawyers need to make their money somehow.


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
11/30/2017 3:52 pm
    Quoting sam197pulsar:
    Of course, no relationship is perfect, but a healthy, functioning marriage can provide stress and anxiety relief in many different forms: encouraging each other to strive for healthier goals (think: quitting binge drinking, eating healthier, going after that dream job), complimenting each other's positive qualities and celebrating each other's successes.
No...

Marriage is a legal contract between a boyfriend and a girlfriend, essentially, or.... an arranged situation.

If you have a good relationship with a woman in your life, you can accomplish your list without signing a legal contract of union. Although you should have done all that BEFORE getting into a relationship, because if you don't , you just become another burden.

And of course, as you said, "No relationship is perfect". That is the same as saying, "Not every parachute is going to deploy",....... so really bad idea to get married nowadays.


wickedeasy 74F
32404 posts
11/30/2017 12:11 pm
    Quoting Heathen_G:
    I said, "Yes", but is it wise for a man to get married? ....No. Not anymore.
i don't think marriage is wise for anyone
You cannot conceive the many without the one.


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
11/30/2017 1:55 am

 I said, "Yes", but is it wise for a man to get married? ....No. Not anymore.


Yours_4A_knight 59M

11/30/2017 1:19 am

 I don't believe it to be wise for a couple to marry
Not the Whole Truth but the truth that I can see.


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