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Quality over Quantity
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Quality over Quantity Good evening good people. I mean that statement from the depths of my heart. There are some really, really good people here. But yall know I can't leave it at just that. Come on....who would I be if I didn't keep it absolutely real with you. So let me start by saying, there are two men, both of whom I met right here on this site, that I deal with on a regular basis. Now, when I say I deal with them (not at the same time), I mean we talk, we interact, we have sex, we go , we chill, we cuddle, we even sleep together. It is something that is completely organic for us. It works for us. When we are together, it is absolutely explosive. When we are apart, we have our own lives and are free to move the way that we like to move. That means we are free to see and interact with other people should we choose to, and we do. They know full well about one another and they respect the parameters of our situationships. We are good. There are no disagreements about where one another has been or what we are doing or for that matter with whom. But just because we can see other people at our leisure doesn't mean that we interact with EVERY person that wants a go. If you have read any of my blogs, you know that I am completely comfortable with who I am. I fuck whom I want, when I want, for however long I want and I don't have anyone to report to, unless they want to hear about the experience. Neither do they. We have respect enough for the situationship and for one another that we are careful and quite discerning about who we share our energies with. I'll tell you a secret, everyone's energy does not mesh well. I have made the mistake of sharing my energy with someone whom I was completely incompatible with and the sex was horrible. It provided the release that I needed at that time, but it was nowhere near the mind-blowing experiences that I've had with those people who truly deserved my time, energy and exchange. My sister once said to me, ", you are a whole ho here in these streets". I said to her, "No ma'am. But I do enjoy being free to be with whom I want". She then shared with how envious of that freedom she is. She said she would be fucking everything that was attractive to her. But to , that is so subjective. I have met some really beautiful men and women who lost all attraction when they spoke or responded to something. Uggh. But when you can share your energy with someone that will make you vibrate just a little higher, it's so worth it. Careful whose energy you let mix with yours and whom you let enter your sphere. #ItsAllLove |
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Amen to that! I look forward to sharing energy with you when the opportunity presents itself. Oh, by the way, I leave for London in a week. I'll send pics, etc. Kisses, Paul
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preach, sis. glad you found those you can vibe with. i seek the same. however, some are just not deserving and rather than hurt feelings we find ourselves wasting precious time and energy on other people's b/s. so not worth it! but thank you for affirming the possibilities.
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11/5/2019 8:08 pm |
totally agree.
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Thanks to you all. I promise, if you've never experienced that energy exchange, when you do, it'll be so worth it.
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Excellent and articulate expressive reflections. Bravo
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i like both because you have both when you need it the most
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11/5/2019 9:59 pm |
ok if you say so .
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11/5/2019 10:22 pm |
Thank you, i enjoyed reading your blog... It is so true and fulfilling to hear some one say the same as i feel... I just wish I could find what you have i would be so happy.... the search is terrible I so hope the find will be worth it in the end.... I need a few men to make me vibe and me them the same.... I am looking forward to reading more of your blogs... kisses and hugs, Sally
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11/5/2019 11:25 pm |
True
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People like to say , "Quality over quantity", but that is impossible. A person would not know ,"Quality" , without first experiencing, "Quantity". But just because we can see other people at our leisure doesn't mean that we interact with EVERY person that wants a go..... You might not, but he certainly may , if he feels like it, since you're playing this Fwb situation.
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While quality & quantity are a bit subjective you definitely seem to know what you like and on your terms no less so good on your fine self.
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While quality & quantity are a bit subjective you definitely seem to know what you like and on your terms no less so good on your fine self. If she did not, then she would not recognize "Quality". Only recognize what she likes, which may or may not be "Quality", because there wouldn't be anything to compare.
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With this outlook I'm surprised there's only two. Using more than all the road!
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DaintyLady13 replies on 11/6/2019 5:05 pm: Even in FWB situationships, you aren't attracted to everyone who is attracted to you. And even when you are attracted, if the chemistry is off, the sex is trash anyway so why waste the time and energy? ============ Even in FWB situationships, you aren't attracted to everyone who is attracted to you. ... True, since even if you were not in any kind of relationship situation, you won't be attracted to everyone attracted to you. And even when you are attracted, if the chemistry is off, the sex is trash anyway ... Maybe from some female perspectives, but from a males? Usually he'll have the sex, ejaculate , wipe off and go home with no care whatsoever about the sex being trash, if it was trash. so why waste the time and energy? ...Women are mostly for sex, more than women are for relationships. So the time spent is a gamble to see if he can get her to say , "Yes" , to sex with him.
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Hey Darlin, ...........Quality definitely beats Quantity!............ Sinfully Yours, backpocket13
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