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Blogs > Jener1 > The Ramblings of Jener

Confusing  

Jener1 44M
14 posts
4/7/2017 10:09 am
Confusing

So, I read a lengthy profile this morning. Yes, I am one that reads your profile, every time. Anyways, this particular couple made it a point to multiple times that only real people should be contacting them. I mean, really hammered in that they were only interested in real people. So, I looked at photos and they seem legit. However, after they made this such a priority, I wonder, why have they not posted any photos for verification or submitted for a confirmed status? Just seems hypocritical to require this of someone when they of taken zero steps to prove the same. Rant complete!

bifun50 74M
298 posts
4/7/2017 11:01 am

 Well thought out and true, thank you for sharing


VenusRedux2 49F
Ask me for a photo
557 posts
4/7/2017 11:37 am

 Profiles with an overemphasis on "Do not contact me if..." is a red flag and is a woman you'd do well to stay away from.

They're waiting on the unsuitable candidate to come along so they can verbally berate them. Being abusive gets them off far more than sex ever will.

The louder they shout, the more it is a case of "the lady doth protest too much." The more they scream REAL MEN ONLY, the more likely they themselves aren't real. They're over-playing the part, they're overcompensating.

So I agree with you, though for slightly different reasons.


InfoTechSD 53M
44 posts
4/7/2017 12:23 pm

 Good points Venus. Agreed 100%
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MissCinders 58F
1533 posts
4/7/2017 12:59 pm

 I can see your point. Same with the men that contact me with no pictures yet want to see mine or more than just the 3 I have. What's fair is fair in this organized sex stuff. I am about had it with the profiles and messages over-using the word "real". I have been told that I am not real because I reject someone. That seems to be the definition lately. Oh well, I am as real as it gets but it doesnt mean I am desperate.

Thanks for sharing!


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