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It's the middle of the night....  

secret_lade 49F
14389 posts
10/6/2020 11:51 pm
It's the middle of the night....


Of COURSE I'm wide awake, watching 'The Hand that Rocks the Cradle' and replaying the crappy events of my day over and over in my mind.

Why wouldn't I be??

My Creepy Gym Stalker was at the gym tonight when I got there.

Oh yay.... Not!

I don't bring the Spawn with me anymore because of COVID, so I'm kind of on my own now. I miss having her there even though she was such a little shit....

She could do things like keep an eye on Creepy Gym Stalker.

I was on the treadmill, listening to my music, reading the news on the TV above the elliptical machines when I could see him through the corner of my eye. He was to my right, standing by the weight benches, staring over at me.

My anxiety was kicking in...

He hasn't tried talking to me or approaching me at the gym, but he did reach out to me here on this site a few times. I politely turned him down, considering our brief past history... But it's an odd feeling when real life intersects my online life.

In my mind, they are both separate entities....

For those brief moments, though, they are suddenly one in the same.

secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
10/7/2020 2:44 pm

    Quoting lindoboy100:
    He sounds like a creep right enough, and stupid, if he can't read the signals........like the obvious knock-back!

    I recommend farting profusely while you're sharing the gym with him........that's bound to scare him off!

    And also
I think I'll pass on the farting.... There is already a Gym Farter, don't want to steal his thunder. LOL


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
10/7/2020 2:39 pm

    Quoting DiscreetQuirky:
    Maybe I'd feel differently if it actually happened, but I kinda like the idea of running into someone in real life that's also on here. Not outing each other is assumed. But either way - creeps are no fun.
It's not as exciting as you may think.... I see this guy and I think, what was I thinking??


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
10/7/2020 2:36 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    Not as daunting as it sounds. A couple of jars to my daughters and...
    Well... I'm getting used to having a quick bowl of soup instead of cramming my face with less healthier stuff - for a quick snack.
    I suppose I could freeze it. Or I could just keep plowing through the stuff. lol
    Ever get started on 'batch cooking' and get carried away? I've made some restaurant quantity blunders that were epic. But that's what the freezer is for.

You're never going to eat squash soup again after day 2 of eating it. LOL


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
10/7/2020 2:34 pm

    Quoting citizen4722:
    Jim Stalker was the name of one of the teachers at school (I kid you not). He was a bit of a creep too, to be honest.
Holy crap, no way!! Talk about a weird synchronicity!!


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
10/7/2020 2:33 pm

    Quoting lunchandconvo:
    oh goodness. i don't know what i would do if a real life stalker figured out my on line account. i used to have an old account and people were more familiar with the user name. i had one guy i decided not to meet in person. but we had exchanged calls. he would send me crazy texts every six months and then things would go silent. it went on for so long that i changed my number.

    i hope you are ok with your creeper. i had someone show up from out of state because i used to go to a club regularly. the club called me that he showed up. i had mentioned it to them... i slept on a friend's floor that night.
I have only ever seen him there, I really don't think he realizes it's kind of creepy. Honestly, I think he may just be trying to get my attention, but, I never look in his direction. He will get bored with it and become normal at some point, I think.


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
10/7/2020 2:30 pm

    Quoting MrWrong4RghtNow:
    In a perfect world the two should be separate for those of us who need a clear dividing line between online and everyday life. Naturally there are those who see no difference and that’s fine for them. Your creep has then read your blog I assume and still contacted you? No good.
He has not read my blog, I don't think he really looks into anything other than breathing and pulse. When I first met him, he was married. He is now divorced and living with a girlfriend.... But still on the site. I think some people just cheat for the sake of cheating. I'm not judging, but, it's not for me.


MrWrong4RghtNow 57M
2439 posts
10/7/2020 11:01 am

In a perfect world the two should be separate for those of us who need a clear dividing line between online and everyday life. Naturally there are those who see no difference and that’s fine for them. Your creep has then read your blog I assume and still contacted you? No good.

My name is MrWrong and I approved this comment


lunchandconvo 53F  
4034 posts
10/7/2020 10:47 am

oh goodness. i don't know what i would do if a real life stalker figured out my on line account. i used to have an old account and people were more familiar with the user name. i had one guy i decided not to meet in person. but we had exchanged calls. he would send me crazy texts every six months and then things would go silent. it went on for so long that i changed my number.

i hope you are ok with your creeper. i had someone show up from out of state because i used to go to a club regularly. the club called me that he showed up. i had mentioned it to them... i slept on a friend's floor that night.


citizen4722 66M  
74582 posts
10/7/2020 9:08 am

Jim Stalker was the name of one of the teachers at school (I kid you not). He was a bit of a creep too, to be honest.


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
10/7/2020 8:32 am

Not as daunting as it sounds. A couple of jars to my daughters and...
Well... I'm getting used to having a quick bowl of soup instead of cramming my face with less healthier stuff - for a quick snack.
I suppose I could freeze it. Or I could just keep plowing through the stuff. lol
Ever get started on 'batch cooking' and get carried away? I've made some restaurant quantity blunders that were epic. But that's what the freezer is for.


DiscreetQuirky 55M
280 posts
10/7/2020 4:50 am

Maybe I'd feel differently if it actually happened, but I kinda like the idea of running into someone in real life that's also on here. Not outing each other is assumed. But either way - creeps are no fun.


lindoboy100 61M
23969 posts
10/7/2020 3:38 am

He sounds like a creep right enough, and stupid, if he can't read the signals........like the obvious knock-back!

I recommend farting profusely while you're sharing the gym with him........that's bound to scare him off!

And also


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
10/7/2020 3:24 am

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    True, they ARE separate.😶❗

    Having a bowl of soup was my midnight mission. I made a couple of gallons of cream of roasted butternut squash.
    Yeah... a few too many squashes were used, but the soup is great! 👍
That's a lot of soup! Are you able to freeze it? You're going to have to have some friends over for dinner. LOL


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
10/7/2020 3:21 am

    Quoting mc_justmc:
    I woke up at midnight because my a/c just went out. I was sweating like a creepy gym stalker.
Oh my.... You're still using AC. I already miss summer and the nice weather.... We're already losing leaves and wearing jackets. Everyone was marveling yesterday because it was 60 degrees and so nice out.


mc_justmc 63M

10/7/2020 2:45 am

I woke up at midnight because my a/c just went out. I was sweating like a creepy gym stalker.


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
10/7/2020 2:10 am

True, they ARE separate.😶❗

Having a bowl of soup was my midnight mission. I made a couple of gallons of cream of roasted butternut squash.
Yeah... a few too many squashes were used, but the soup is great! 👍


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