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Downfalls to this site...
9/7/2020 7:02 am |
I didn't see your post.... You don't have to hold back your creativity because it may be similar to something I ranted or rambled on about. 
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Yes, he clearly was. It sounded like Chica #1 was probably avoiding him, at lease that's what I got from his message to her.... I'm certain there was probably a reason for that as well.
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9/7/2020 7:01 am |
Ooh. I had one recently tell me mine was wordy but didn’t have much info on what I was looking for. Sir! It says it right there. So, I hit him with “looking for exclusive commitment and a marriage within a year. I guess that wasn’t as wordy and poof, he went. I especially like the ones who get that I’m looking for casual sex from mine. And miss the part where I also mention being friends as well and someone to do things with.
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9/7/2020 6:57 am |
Usually when I get certain messages, I’m either replying with : 1. Are you sure you have the right person? 2. I’ve never even talked to you. If I’d gotten this message, that’d be my reply/reaction. As for bending the truth, whoo chile! If you had met him, it would’ve slipped out sooner or later unless he’s a sociopath and is good at lying. Like someone else said, if you do want to meet him, then meet him keeping in mind you’re not the only person he’s seeing/talking to. Unless meeting also implies you would’ve had sex with him. If it’ll help, I’ll chat with people on here. If they haven’t pissed me off or my attention hasn’t wandered after a week or so, we’ll swap numbers and then chat some more. My limit is : if we’re not meeting face to face within at most a 2 week period, I’m writing you off. If the person refuses to meet in a neutral place BEFORE 9pm on a week day or during daylight hours on a weekend, I’m writing them off. If we then meet and they either stand me up or they want to change up plans(say we agree to a park and they somehow remember their house is close by and invite me to their house), I’m shutting it all down and leaving. My limits have saved me a lot of anger and frustration. And maybe this might be bias speaking, but I tend to go for people with at least 10 years on me. That also helps because I usually end up with established men who didn’t get to where they are professionally by being flakes or idiots or indecisive.
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thank you
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'Reputable', this site? Hmmm... Sure, those people exist. But even I, reside behind a keyboard. (*that was a joke *) We're all protecting ourselves with a buffer - of some sort - aren't we? How could you tell he was reputable? I imagine he's playing a numbers game and working the odds with you. Perhaps I'm jaded, but I think people here (and on the web), will only be 100% honest about things, after a pound of trust is earned. It's a rough game, isn't it? 🤔 Respect is earned. Honesty is appreciated. Trust is gained. Loyalty is returned
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I wasn't really upset at him mistaking me for someone else.... But I was disappointed in what I was seeing him say to someone else. Looked like he had some anger issues, and he had expectations out of someone that he, himself, weren't living up to himself. He did end up responding to me after that, calling the intended recipient a whack job and "look what I have to deal with." When I told him it looked like he had unresolved feelings and time commitment, he got angry with me as well. Dodged a bullet.
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9/7/2020 6:44 am |
This is currently doing me in! Realising that maybe I’m not the only one they’re seeing or talking to, it brings out the selfish and the deeply buried narcissist 🥴 Then, like you said, once I realised that I’m also not talking to just them, I dial back the crazy and hypocrisy and just roll with it. I do draw the line though at the sex: one person until it either goes further or they tell me to gtfo. And that makes it so hard because if I’m talking with 2-3 other people and sleeping with just one, I have a serious FOMO thing going on.
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Serendipity, probably. It is a mystery to me why some folk on this site (I'm thinking of a chat room) goout of their way to make others unhappy, to belittle them or just be plain rude - I don't see the joy in abusing anybody, let alone strangers. Then, if you actually hope to meet somebody and get them into bed, how can people imagine that telling a pack of lies about their age and situation will do it? Better by far to be open and honest - if my eleven inch dick isn't enough for you,, I don't care, it's all I've got Don't despair, there are plenty of genuine people on the sit and you just need to find one or two close to you.
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Bingo.....and for me ...THAT is the key. I talk to them forever before even thinking about meeting. People cannot pretend to be sane forever. At some point the crazy presents itself ~~
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honestly...even if you decided to meet him? he probably stood you up anyway... it happened to me...it will happened to you...and this guy sounds like such a guy from the get-go...sorry...
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I met a woman that I met from this site and invited her to spend the night since it was a bit of a drive for her to get to my place. She wound up stealing cash out of my jeans while I was in the shower the next morning. That money was destined for groceries later in the day. I was pissed but remained relatively calm as I demanded the cash back and then showed her to the door. There are a lot of genuine people on here, but there are also those with ulterior motives. Sometimes ya just get burned 
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Oh shit! I just did a post on messages, though mine was different than yours, I would have waited had I seen this. Sorry.
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Oh shit! I just did a post on messages, though mine was different than yours, I would have waited had I seen this. Sorry.
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Sounds like a lucky escape McLade..... I guess that's one of the biggest dangers with online interactions - people have the ability to be far more economical with the truth and are under the misapprehension that they'll get away with it indefinitely.......the truth almost always comes out though.
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Sounds like a lucky escape McLade..... I guess that's one of the biggest dangers with online interactions - people have the ability to be far more economical with the truth and are under the misapprehension that they'll get away with it indefinitely.......the truth almost always comes out though.
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9/7/2020 5:26 am |
Oh shit! I just did a post on messages, though mine was different than yours, I would have waited had I seen this. Sorry.
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I met a woman that I met from this site and invited her to spend the night since it was a bit of a drive for her to get to my place. She wound up stealing cash out of my jeans while I was in the shower the next morning. That money was destined for groceries later in the day. I was pissed but remained relatively calm as I demanded the cash back and then showed her to the door. There are a lot of genuine people on here, but there are also those with ulterior motives. Sometimes ya just get burned
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honestly...even if you decided to meet him? he probably stood you up anyway... it happened to me...it will happened to you...and this guy sounds like such a guy from the get-go...sorry...
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I rarely meet anyone from this site in person because frankly they aren't worth my time or energy. I've discovered the more you chat with someone the faster they reveal their crazy or true intentions
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Serendipity, probably. It is a mystery to me why some folk on this site (I'm thinking of a chat room) goout of their way to make others unhappy, to belittle them or just be plain rude - I don't see the joy in abusing anybody, let alone strangers. Then, if you actually hope to meet somebody and get them into bed, how can people imagine that telling a pack of lies about their age and situation will do it? Better by far to be open and honest - if my eleven inch dick isn't enough for you,, I don't care, it's all I've got Don't despair, there are plenty of genuine people on the sit and you just need to find one or two close to you.
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'Reputable', this site? Hmmm... Sure, those people exist. But even I, reside behind a keyboard. (*that was a joke *) We're all protecting ourselves with a buffer - of some sort - aren't we? How could you tell he was reputable? I imagine he's playing a numbers game and working the odds with you. Perhaps I'm jaded, but I think people here (and on the web), will only be 100% honest about things, after a pound of trust is earned. It's a rough game, isn't it? 🤔 Respect is earned. Honesty is appreciated. Trust is gained. Loyalty is returned ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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I rarely meet anyone from this site in person because frankly they aren't worth my time or energy. I've discovered the more you chat with someone the faster they reveal their crazy or true intentions Do you have any Primal Urges ... I do, please CUMHANDLEME and explore some of my naughty and nice Primal ... Urges with me !!!
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I've got a few horror stories... This one just happens to be the most recent.
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