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Honesty is a must.
Honesty is a must. I've seen this before in messages and profiles.... Anonymous screen names with limited profile information that preach the necessity of honesty and discretion. Hmmm.... Honesty, you say. So, let's be honest. I honestly think, when I see this in a profile, the owner of this profile will never have the balls actually meet anyone from the site. The owner of this profile is in fact married, but my guess is, he hasn't been honest with his wife and she has no idea he's out there, secretly hoping find enough courage meet a woman online for the sole purpose of fucking her. I could be wrong.... but, I honestly don't think so I was a little surprised when I checked my messages today and found one from a female screen name that was unfamiliar to me. Women don't normally message me..... Unless it's about my blog. Thinking it was probably a comment about one of my blog posts, I opened it up and read through it. It was supposedly from a guy who was using his friend's "account" to find a friend. He had gone into detail about how he was looking for someone honest and it was a must for any future relationship. Really.... The guy using someone else's profile to send messages has an honesty ultimatum. Uh, yah. Good luck with that! Happy Sunday. |
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"So this honest but discrete person used a second female account to reach out to you. I just eye-rolled, hand-to-face emoji. What a tool." I agree 100%!
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If they aren't putting any details out there, they'd better be a chatty cathy if they're expecting to meet someone. I have had lengthy conversations with guys who had limited info in their profiles and found they shared a lot more one on one. This is rarely the case, though....
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Statements like that make me think that they're trying to put you on the defensive by making you think "but I AM an honest person." Then they probably won't have to worry about you accusing them of being dishonest. It's preemptive.
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Yep! All it takes is one....
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When someone uses the words discreet or discretion, it's an automatic red flag to me as well. Ya know, I've also gotten an email from someone using a female friend's profile. It's odd, I've never thought to lend out my profile to one of my friends.
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I honestly think you're right. *insert face-palm meme here * (I'd do it myself but standards can't put pictures in comments)
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If I just see just one or two lines written on a profile I tend to pass by. They need to be more open and honest.
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If I just see just one or two lines written on a profile I tend to pass by. They need to be more open and honest.
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I honestly think you're right. *insert face-palm meme here * (I'd do it myself but standards can't put pictures in comments) Opportunity may knock only once, but temptation bangs on the door forever!
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When someone uses the words discreet or discretion, it's an automatic red flag to me as well. Ya know, I've also gotten an email from someone using a female friend's profile. It's odd, I've never thought to lend out my profile to one of my friends. This week's HNW: Pink/Hearts (Or Chocolate) is available on the other side.
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Statements like that make me think that they're trying to put you on the defensive by making you think "but I AM an honest person." Then they probably won't have to worry about you accusing them of being dishonest. It's preemptive.
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Dishonesty and confusion are in abundance on this site... The quality of people has declined over the past several years, one must weed thru acres of weeds to get to anything substantial. A sad state of affairs ~~
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My dander goes up when they don’t put anything in the marital status section. 😒😒
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I love the profiles that insist on honesty and discretion! OK...not really. I get the honesty part. But when it's coupled with discretion it immediately makes me wonder what he's hiding. I understand keeping your private life private. But when someone insists on discretion, my first thought is he's married or attached and hiding his activity from his wife or gf. If that's not the case, he better have a good explanation for why discretion is so important.
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True lies?
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yup! seen many of them honesty signs... mostly from 36 year old,white porn stars from ghana that say "age is just a number"
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using someone else's profileyea, i don't really see the logic in doing that. be an adult and make your own. it's like, the couple that splits but then the guy, typically, is the one that keeps on using the profile as a couple. NOT KOSHER. or the person lists their location but the moment you decline because logistically they are just too far away, they tell you that they're actually closer in the next county (or something). really? well, now i don't know what to believe so the answer is still gonna be no. congratulations, you played yourself!
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Post 4339620 Well I’m real. I’m get verified shortly and then go through the process. ID and all that... it’s a bit of a pain but I’ve been on here before so hope it’s the same. The honesty these days for me comes to if both parties want to play and have fun after then they should be able to move forward without being jealous. Maybe my ex is on here but oh well. Also personal opinion here: with all the apps out there to explore in the open or not I think being honest and not hiding is the way of a lot of relationships.
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Dishonesty and confusion are in abundance on this site... The quality of people has declined over the past several years, one must weed thru acres of weeds to get to anything substantial. A sad state of affairs ~~
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I put honesty is great on my profile after meeting a young lady that was falling down drunk when I met her. I left it on my profile because I still believe there are a few honest ladies out there . But, I can see your point of view also. All the best !
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Yep, I agree. That don't sound right.
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8/17/2020 1:23 am |
My dander goes up when they don’t put anything in the marital status section. 😒😒
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True lies?
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8/17/2020 12:22 am |
yup! seen many of them honesty signs... mostly from 36 year old,white porn stars from ghana that say "age is just a number" there is a world of difference between insanity and stupidity
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using someone else's profileyea, i don't really see the logic in doing that. be an adult and make your own. it's like, the couple that splits but then the guy, typically, is the one that keeps on using the profile as a couple. NOT KOSHER. or the person lists their location but the moment you decline because logistically they are just too far away, they tell you that they're actually closer in the next county (or something). really? well, now i don't know what to believe so the answer is still gonna be no. congratulations, you played yourself!
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