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Blogs > secret_lade > Ramblings of the depraved.....

Just leaving a comment to get points.....
 

secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
1/31/2020 1:27 am
    Quoting needsumluvn54:
    If I deleted my account and started a new one,can I get a new start on points???
The way this site is set up.... You probably could.


needsumluvn54 65M
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1/29/2020 2:38 am

 If I deleted my account and started a new one,can I get a new start on points???
needsumluvn


h4rry66 57M

1/28/2020 9:49 pm

 While cant people just do what this site is meant for, that being meet and fuck. My cock is always hungry. Have a great day beautiful x


Titnazzman11000 52M
21 posts
1/27/2020 3:38 am

 They have changed a lot


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
1/25/2020 11:52 pm
    Quoting  :
I agree with that 100%. I don't do much chatting on here, so I'm not that worried about points, but I think the points should only be redeemed with a response.


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
1/25/2020 1:20 pm
    Quoting MrBlue5050:
    I did not know you got points for commenting on a blog. I agree that this site has taken away many things that you have to pay for now so it seems like it will survive.
As long as people believe they can get sex from very little effort, this site will survive.


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
1/25/2020 1:18 pm
    Quoting fwblook4unow:
    I guess to bypass the points...is to become a full NoStrings member.
I've been a gold member off and on over the years... It all depends on how much time you plan to spend on here whether it's worth it or not.


MrBlue5050 62M
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1/20/2020 8:07 am

 I did not know you got points for commenting on a blog. I agree that this site has taken away many things that you have to pay for now so it seems like it will survive.


fwblook4unow 48M
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1/20/2020 7:45 am

 I guess to bypass the points...is to become a full NoStrings member.


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
1/19/2020 3:05 pm
    Quoting easy_going2014:
    Thanks for sharing this PSA

    Blogging is what has kept me here since 2014

    I like to read and comment on posts, oftentimes, I will share song lyrics

    I don't have or want a huge following

    I understand the dilemma the women are faced with on the site

    a blessing and a curse with the overwhelming ratios of men to women

    from my perspective, I take a "quid-pro-quo" approach, if you read and comment on my posts, I do the same, if not, well, such is life

    that tends to reduce the noise

    and, if there are comments that don't add value, you can always delete and/or block

    I'll leave this one

    Neil Diamond - "Song Sung Blue"

    Song sung blue
    Everybody knows one
    Song sung blue
    Every garden grows one
    Me and you are subject to the blues now and then
    But when you take the blues and make a song
    You sing them out again
    Sing them out again
    Song sung blue
    Weeping like a willow
    Song sung blue
    Sleeping on my pillow
    Funny thing, but you can sing it with a cry in your voice
    And before you know, it get to feeling good
    You simply got no choice
I love Neil Diamond. This song in particular reminds me of this older married couple I happened to see performing in the amphitheater at Mackinaw Crossings 2 summers ago. Toast and Jam, they were called.... while they played other classic rock, you could tell they were Neil Diamond fans all the way....


easy_going2014 57M
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14366 posts
1/19/2020 2:37 pm

 Thanks for sharing this PSA

Blogging is what has kept me here since 2014

I like to read and comment on posts, oftentimes, I will share song lyrics

I don't have or want a huge following

I understand the dilemma the women are faced with on the site

a blessing and a curse with the overwhelming ratios of men to women

from my perspective, I take a "quid-pro-quo" approach, if you read and comment on my posts, I do the same, if not, well, such is life

that tends to reduce the noise

and, if there are comments that don't add value, you can always delete and/or block

I'll leave this one

Neil Diamond - "Song Sung Blue"

Song sung blue
Everybody knows one
Song sung blue
Every garden grows one
Me and you are subject to the blues now and then
But when you take the blues and make a song
You sing them out again
Sing them out again
Song sung blue
Weeping like a willow
Song sung blue
Sleeping on my pillow
Funny thing, but you can sing it with a cry in your voice
And before you know, it get to feeling good
You simply got no choice
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Good luck!!!


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
1/19/2020 11:06 am
    Quoting I_willoralu:
    I haven’t got points for blogs in awhile. Guess I I posted to much already
There is a 100 point max for comments on blogs.... Easy to reach that max.


I_willoralu 49M
1684 posts
1/19/2020 10:16 am

 I haven’t got points for blogs in awhile. Guess I I posted to much already
reach me in my blog titled private mail


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
1/19/2020 10:01 am
    Quoting  :
There have been times that I've been a paying member, and there are times that I'm not... It all kind of depends on what I'm looking for at that moment. I can't speak for every blogger out there, but I do like reading through my comments, seeing different points of view on subjects, and getting differing opinions on things. There have been times when my eyes were opened to a new point of view.


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
1/19/2020 9:44 am
    Quoting KX450F2016:
    I tried doing a blog for years. I received extremely little interaction, so I deleted it. I just have one or 2 posts on my current one ( I think). As a paying member I could care less about points, but those who comment just to get points are simply Assholes! At least have something to contribute. Yours is actually the only blog I read! LOL I've been a little busy lately so not on much other than to check that I don't have any messages. Try not to let the wankers get ya down Just be you & delete the haters and spam.
Well, thank you. That was very uplifting. I feel honored that you take the time to read my blog. I don't normally let this stuff get to me, but when I post about a cherished friend passing away, and I get a comment that 'I'm only here for points', it ticks me off.


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
1/19/2020 9:41 am
    Quoting sgd11334488:
    oh boy is this what this site has been reduced too
Yep


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
1/19/2020 9:40 am
    Quoting  :
I like the way you think.... This is my real estate, I may start doing the DELETE and BAN. Thank you for sharing your philosophy.


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
1/19/2020 9:36 am
    Quoting jemrdy:
    Like the post and the information. I personally have found some blogs that I like to follow for the content not just to get points. Some have some great information and it would be enjoyable to strike up conversation but of course those are the ones that are most followed so their time is limited
There are quite a few really interesting blogs on here.... I follow a few regularly as they always have something that captures my thought or tickles my funny bone.


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
1/19/2020 9:34 am
    Quoting benard69:
    Never realized you got points for commenting...And then again WHY???
I've been on here far to long to earn points for anything, anymore. I never used them, anyway, so it's kind of a moot point.


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
1/19/2020 9:32 am
    Quoting jeepsR4fun:
    Points stay for those chessy comments and, NoStrings is in lets get what we can get mode, Yet We are still here. lol Just being a little nostalgic, Remember when we could talk and post freely???
I do remember those days.... And you are right, we are all still here. Part of me is wondering just how long it will be before we won't be able to blog without points anymore.


KX450F2016 55M
193 posts
1/19/2020 9:29 am

 I tried doing a blog for years. I received extremely little interaction, so I deleted it. I just have one or 2 posts on my current one ( I think). As a paying member I could care less about points, but those who comment just to get points are simply Assholes! At least have something to contribute. Yours is actually the only blog I read! LOL I've been a little busy lately so not on much other than to check that I don't have any messages. Try not to let the wankers get ya down Just be you & delete the haters and spam.


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
1/19/2020 9:19 am
    Quoting jolielaide:
    desperate people do desperate things at the expense of others. however, there are ways to keep it classy; a little thoughtful. unfortunately, this site doesn't necessarily cater to classy.
You are 100% correct... It doesn't necessarily cater to the classy.


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
1/19/2020 9:18 am
    Quoting redrockrascal:
    If a person's comments are not on point I just delete them.
I may just start doing that.... I have, on occasion, deleted a few. Messages of hate and negativity really don't need to be seen.


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
1/19/2020 9:16 am
    Quoting Tallandsmiling53:
    Funny, I read plenty of blogs but only comment on the ones that are relevant or that I feel I have something to offer.....
    Yes, there are plenty of fucktards on NoStrings
I am very much the same....


Tallandsmiling53 62M
304 posts
1/19/2020 9:02 am

 Funny, I read plenty of blogs but only comment on the ones that are relevant or that I feel I have something to offer.....
Yes, there are plenty of fucktards on NoStrings


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