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Only those that know........  

68eobf 58F  
41 posts
6/29/2016 9:56 pm
Only those that know........

I've been in this Pity-Pot for a few days now and I've been trying to figure out what's wrong with me, or with men? I've come to the concussion, I think, I'm ready to have someone in my life on regular basis (I've been single for 8yrs). A few friends and family mbrs have been suggesting it for a few years but I swore I'd never "settle" again. I need a man that is an equal to my sexual desires and wants.

I'm on this site and one other Adult Site and I get a stead flow of emails but a problem is, there's no one that has emailed me looking for more than just a "playmate". And I understand why - this and the other site are "sex" sites but where else do you find/meet others that have the same sexual mind-set and/or lifestyle?

So anyway - what do I do? I do want any other lonely woman in today society does - I join a couple "dating" sites. I have the same face pics (minus the skinned body shots) on these "dating" site and do I get any emails? 1, I get 1 email and it's from the opposite of the "ideal person" I described. So I decide to take a leap and I "swipe" right and email a few men. And guess what happens?!?! You guessed it, they look at my profile but never answers my email or 2 actually emailed me back and say "thanks but you're not my type". BUT if they knew how sexual I was and how I like to fuck - you bet your ass they'd be interested!

So why do I feel that men are only attracted to sexual women as playmates and not partners in life? Why do I feel that women (me) can't get a man interested unless he knows her sexual preference? And are there any men out there that doesn't get intimidated by my shorthair; accepts a strong, independent woman yet submissive with her man; and wants a lady on the streets, but a freak in the sheets?

Why is it so hard?

Pity-Pot, remember

s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
6/29/2016 11:41 pm

 This is quite a bit more than a dating site. In fact it's probably the worst for what you are looking for.
Start messaging guys you like. Stop taking the advice of the jaded who've been put through the wringer and speak harshly about men all being the same.It'll wreck your personality over time.
Using more than all the road!


FullOn4U 58M
20399 posts
6/30/2016 3:44 am

 "if they knew how sexual I was and how I like to fuck"

Sorry, we're not that superficial! Men have feelings too, we want to be loved, admired, adored, worshiped!


sirklavis 41M
10 posts
8/8/2016 5:12 pm

 Basically, dating his hard, and it sucks. I tend to agree.


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