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Rejection  

Jadzia11 55F
132 posts
3/29/2021 2:26 pm
Rejection

Do all men think a woman cannot handle rejection without going 'psycho'?

I have recently met in real life 2 men that I have talked to on this site and there was no connection in person. I had a nice talk with them but there was no real interest on one or both sides, so we part after a nice conversation and call it a day. I say thank you and have a nice time and that is all for me.

I do not stalk them and get that not everyone that meets is going to want to continue contact. I respect space and accept this is real life.

What I find amusing is that I see them online (their profiles are on the whose online section at that top of the landing page) and I make no contact. There is no need. They are doing their thing and I am doing mine.

One recently sent me a message saying that to avoid me he was deleting his profile. LOL ok dude, I had not reached out to you and you have not contacted me either until that message. I saw no need for you to do that, I had not so much as viewed your profile since the night we met.

I think it is sad that there are so many crazy women out there that it seems men think we are all going to<b> behave </font></b>like that.

Maybe its an age thing, I am too damn old to put that kind of effort into someone who is clearly not into me. And especially not into someone that I am not into.

I promise you, if we meet in person and I know there is no connection between us, we can part ways with a friendly goodbye and go our separate ways. I will see you online and you will probably see me, but there is no reason for either of us to take drastic measures to avoid each other.

I can handle rejection and I would rather a polite no thank you than someone who fears talking to me, to give me that courtesy or someone who feels they need to delete a profile to avoid me.

But hey, I get if that is all you have experienced, that is what you are expecting. What can I say, I am different. I have not stalked anyone and do not plan on starting now. I have no time to waste on fruitless efforts.

1seeking1 58F
3767 posts
5/31/2021 8:49 am

 Sadly lots on here do not handle rejection well, some refuse to accept " I am not interested, thank you"


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