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He Wants All the bf/gf benefits but not commitment
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He Wants All the bf/gf benefits but not commitment So ive been seeing this guy ive known over a year but we always had a rather platonic relationship due to the fact that he had a gf.. We did however talk to each other alot n occassionaly flirt a little mostly because they were an on n off couple. He would try get to with me but i was never comfortable with pursue anything until they were 100% over with. Now they have been broken up a while n he reached out and contacted me we started talking again. But now it seems like he wants to talk to me every single day on the phone from morning till night, openly talks about sex making plans go out but says oh im not ready for a relationship. And even said he still occassionaly talks to his ex to check up on her. I dont understand this foolery. I shouldnt have to "play" gf he get emotional n physical benefits of having a gf without the actual commitments. Its like ive tried distancing myself he constantly calling ne texting me. If i dont respond he blowing up my im or bombarding me with are you ok" msgs but were not in a realtionship. This to me is confusing as hell. Im not trying to waste my time...sigh i deserve a man that ready. But i do understand he just got out relationship so he needs tune to heal which is wat i told him. But if u knew that what you needed why reach out to me? Why not wait...he also said hes not looking to pursue anything ethier. But says he dosent just want sex so wtf do he want then. Ughhh ive even changed my number. He still contacting me thru social sites. Like if your not gonna do right by a woman just leave her the hell alone! xxwhipzxx *Y* |
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Hi You are sexy and attractive An excellent girl I like you
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The bad thing is that he seemed all right till he saw a chance. Then he messed it up by wanting all for giving nothing and now he does not understand that he lost his chance... If he does not get the message that you do no longer want contact with him, you might have somebody else tell him.
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One should just do the Golden Rule..."Treat others as you want to be treated"....simple, yet so many don't get on board....You are a Stunner of course, but will you come to visit me in Galveston? You will not want to go home!! We'll eat and drink well, party and camp on the beach, sail in the bay and give you Screaming, Creamy Multiple Orgasms for hours!! Hope to see you sometime soon, love....Layne
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I'm sorry he sounds like a clown and not a man when you break up it's over and you regroup and move on. It sounds like he has some issues and a fool not to be with you. It sounds like you have your head on straight and you need a real man not a fool. And he keeps contacting his ex stay away from that I've always been honest with the women that I've dated and nevered played games. 
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You are right it is not your problem. It is his. It would be different if he was madly in love with you and then you broke with him in such a way that he was unable to put up much of a fight for you. This does not seem the case though. You are sexy and smart enough to have any single guy worth having. Why spend your time investing as someone else's back up plan? A lot woman keep a "dick in a glass." That guy that is just in case things don't work out with the person they are with. As with most things it likely goes both ways. He saw in you someone that he thought might be a better situation for himself. Someone different than the person that he was with. He seems like he was doing a lot of window shopping. You were not the only one he was looking at. He is fishing to see which one bites.
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He is lonely. He is looking for an emotional tether so he can feel good about himself. It is normal. It is also okay to not want to be a part of that either. You changed your number and that is a good first step. You are a sexy woman so I don't imagine it would be hard to find someone. I think that once he sees that you have moved on (despite nothing being there to begin with) he will leave you alone. Don't worry about it unless you really do have feelings for him. In that case make him heal. Don't give in and make him earn it.
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You wait until you find the right guy at right time with the right level of commitment for you...this one isn't over his ex-
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