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Update: Sexual Assault ... I'm still freaked by being sexually assaulted last week by a gas station attendant in broad daylite. Having been down this road several times, and the endings so much worse, my guardian angel was close, watching over me. I know he's done it before, and I know he's going do it again. Passing by there at least twice a day and seeing him makes my skin crawl ... I went the police station report what happened. With the COVID going on, they set up a little room rite inside the entrance with a table with papers for different things. And, they are using the intercom as much as possible so they don't have open the main doors. So, I buzzed and told the guy that I wanted to report a sexual assault. From his response, "can you please repeat that??", it seemed as tho they don't get many complaints of this nature. So, I repeated "I'd like to report a sexual assault, please" ... "I'm sending someone down rite away". So, while I was waiting, it all started flooding thru my head. The way his hands were a fraction of a millimeter away from my body. The way he came at me and put his face in my boobs. By the time they came to take my statement, seemed like hours passed, tho, it was only like minutes or so ... Both a male and female officer came speak with me in the little room. After explaining verbally, I filled out the official report form. Just as I knew would happen, as I worked for the police for years, "unfortunately, this doesn't meet the 'standards' for an arrest" ... that good threshold, even if there was CCTV. Regardless, I wanted it on record, so, if and when someone else comes forward, it will show a pattern. They did ask me for a description, stating that they would at least try identify him. I'll never forget this face - EVER ... They also told me that had I punched him, that DOES meet the criteria for arrest - I'd be the one in prison orange, which I also knew. And, I'm in the process of writing a letter to the corporate office, anonymously, as I do not want them to have my information, nor am I going to mention that I filed a police report ... By coming forward, there's more than a chance that I just saved another woman's life. There is no way I would be able to live with myself if I was the cause of another being harmed. My soul feels at ease now - letting it go ...   In Luv, Lite, Laffter ... |
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How in the hell does that not qualify as sexual assault? That is total bullshit!  I'm so sorry you had to go through that Trixie. Try to stay strong! 
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I cannot imagine the sense of violation that you experienced. I commend you for having the strength and conviction to report what happened. Keep your head held high! Sending you a comforting and reassuring *hug*.
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Wow... What a mess. You're so aware of the law and how it applies. I'd be (I am), lost when it comes to stuff like that. Hopefully this helps in the long run with that person. 👍❗ ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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Good on you for going to the police!!!Maybe take a photo of him on the sly for the police?? (Virtual Symposium Group) use Virtual Symposium Group
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I had no idea it was this serious McT, sorry! You definitely did the right thing. I hope the guy gets removed from your regular commute route soon. Take care! Hope you're well otherwise!
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Proud of you Trix. Nice going girl....i can only imagine the strength and courage it took to do all of that. The emotional stamina. Kudos !!! Yes...Im glad they will keep it on file...because we both know....these patterns of behavior do not change. Maybe corporate needs to know that an official complaint has been filed....just so they know this anonymous letter has some weight behind it. I dunno ( sigh ). ~~
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Well my friend I am so glad you went to make a police report, and I hope they do something about that man. I have to say I was shocked when you said you would be the one in orange for punching him to protect yourself. To me that is just crazy. But it just goes to show what is really happening these days in the world of policing. I hope you contact corporate soon and let them know about this man as you are so right you just saved another lady from going through this. I hope your Monday treats you well my friend.. *Huggles*Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on.. 
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How in the hell does that not qualify as sexual assault? That is total bullshit! I'm so sorry you had to go through that Trixie. Try to stay strong! In Luv, Lite, Laffter ...
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I cannot imagine the sense of violation that you experienced. I commend you for having the strength and conviction to report what happened. Keep your head held high! Sending you a comforting and reassuring *hug*. In Luv, Lite, Laffter ...
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Wow... What a mess. You're so aware of the law and how it applies. I'd be (I am), lost when it comes to stuff like that. Hopefully this helps in the long run with that person. 👍❗ In Luv, Lite, Laffter ...
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Good on you for going to the police!!!Maybe take a photo of him on the sly for the police?? In Luv, Lite, Laffter ...
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I had no idea it was this serious McT, sorry! You definitely did the right thing. I hope the guy gets removed from your regular commute route soon. Take care! Hope you're well otherwise! In Luv, Lite, Laffter ...
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Proud of you Trix. Nice going girl....i can only imagine the strength and courage it took to do all of that. The emotional stamina. Kudos !!! Yes...Im glad they will keep it on file...because we both know....these patterns of behavior do not change. Maybe corporate needs to know that an official complaint has been filed....just so they know this anonymous letter has some weight behind it. I dunno ( sigh ). ~~ In Luv, Lite, Laffter ...
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Felt so much relief after making a report! And, moved my bed to the opposite wall, so that I could have a view of my hallway over the weekend. These things make one take pause in a lot of ways, including their environment. I truly appreciate your thoughts - thank you ever so kindly ... In Luv, Lite, Laffter ...
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Well my friend I am so glad you went to make a police report, and I hope they do something about that man. I have to say I was shocked when you said you would be the one in orange for punching him to protect yourself. To me that is just crazy. But it just goes to show what is really happening these days in the world of policing. I hope you contact corporate soon and let them know about this man as you are so right you just saved another lady from going through this. I hope your Monday treats you well my friend.. *Huggles*In Luv, Lite, Laffter ...
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I have to people people like this so have a mental disconnection. Thank you! In Luv, Lite, Laffter ...
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Even the fact that you came forward and reported it - CCTV and all - should be enough for the next time this creep plays that game again : I assure you, it has been recorded As for the rest, sorry to hear that, but it's starnard working procedure nowadays, for the accused to have the benefit of the doubt  Cheers my lady - you did well  P
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Even the fact that you came forward and reported it - CCTV and all - should be enough for the next time this creep plays that game again : I assure you, it has been recorded As for the rest, sorry to hear that, but it's starnard working procedure nowadays, for the accused to have the benefit of the doubt Cheers my lady - you did well P In Luv, Lite, Laffter ...
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