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Pseudo Coffee Date …  

trixietrixster 56F  
3304 posts
8/23/2018 5:16 am
Pseudo Coffee Date …

What was supposed to be a coffee date turned into a 15 minute “hi, I don't have much time today, I work second shift and need to do some stuff first before work”, thru car windows. “I just wanted to meet you real quick so can see that a nice guy - that you will feel more comfy with me the next time we meet.” Ya, I wasn't too happy. Having been down this road before, several times, this is one of the reasons why the max willing to drive is 10 minutes …

After 4 days, nothing. Okies, I got it, he wasn't physically attracted to me in person. And, all good with this. Why can't people just be HONEST

On day 7, I get a “hey”. Not much to say to that – I was cordial. Done with putting TIME and EFFORT into someone who only an OPTION to = I give what I get. He then asked if I thought bout him. “Uuummm – NO” …

After a few minutes, his next text comes in. As if we had spent hours together and been in contact numerous times a day since our pretend coffee date, “tell me”. Seriously dude? I just fucking told you douche-bag. Cause, ya, apparently, getting a response other than the one you WANT means I didn't answer …

A few hours later, “HELLO????” A few phone calls for good measure. You know, just to be sure that I didn't have a lapse of judgment, that I really do want to be his flavor of the day. Cause, ya, he's the best thing since sliced bread ...

The chances of me being some losers fuck fest are rite up there with me becoming strictly a lesbian = I luv COCK. A lot. And, I give an EPIC FUCKING BLOW JOB



In Luv, Lite, Laffter ...


lindoboy100 61M  
23969 posts
8/23/2018 1:27 pm

Sounds like a lucky escape for you in the end McTrixster........the eejit doesnae ken what he's missed!!


LakeRidgeBBWSeek 63M
3847 posts
8/23/2018 1:53 pm

I have had a few like that, but then most men have. I once drove over an hour, stopped before I got there, to make sure I was fresh to meet her, only to be told she now didnt have time, (this had been planned for 2 weeks), and she would call me later, and of course never did. She is on here, also on many other sites, flirts & says she goes out and has lotsa funn with others, so ..., I gues I just wasnt her type, sigh. Just gotta move on, and I did.


Tmptrzz 61F  
107039 posts
8/23/2018 2:00 pm

Oh wow my friend I am so sorry this happened to you, some men huh? Well you did the right thing and don't give up hope there is some good men out there somewhere.. love ya girl..hugs..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


positively4you 74F  
4605 posts
8/23/2018 2:33 pm

First impressions go a long way. His action is an indicator of his future actions. Write that loser off.


Bigred90999 46M
9 posts
8/23/2018 3:59 pm

Happens to the best of us, sometimes. There's all types around and its a M'Fr to weed through them all! Especially when ya get to feeling you're a magnet


MissCinders 58F
1533 posts
8/23/2018 4:13 pm

Exactly why I dont drive long distances. Thank you for sharing


Yours_4A_knight 59M

8/23/2018 11:15 pm

It would be great to one day maybe get to the actually meeting a woman stage, you can dream right, but it men like this that make it so hard to get a real person to even agree to meet face to face.

Not the Whole Truth but the truth that I can see.


trixietrixster 56F  
3125 posts
8/25/2018 8:16 pm

    Quoting lindoboy100:
    Sounds like a lucky escape for you in the end McTrixster........the eejit doesnae ken what he's missed!!
@lindo - you always make me laff with your "McTrixster" - thank you for this!! Escape isn't always that easy = straightjackets - HA!!!

In Luv, Lite, Laffter ...


trixietrixster 56F  
3125 posts
8/26/2018 6:23 pm

    Quoting LakeRidgeBBWSeek:
    I have had a few like that, but then most men have. I once drove over an hour, stopped before I got there, to make sure I was fresh to meet her, only to be told she now didnt have time, (this had been planned for 2 weeks), and she would call me later, and of course never did. She is on here, also on many other sites, flirts & says she goes out and has lotsa funn with others, so ..., I gues I just wasnt her type, sigh. Just gotta move on, and I did.
@Lake - most people have had some bad experiences - rude and ignorance isn't a gender related trait. I've got so many date horror stories, I could write a book ... LOL ... onto bigger and better things ...

In Luv, Lite, Laffter ...


trixietrixster 56F  
3125 posts
8/28/2018 7:01 am

    Quoting Tmptrzz:
    Oh wow my friend I am so sorry this happened to you, some men huh? Well you did the right thing and don't give up hope there is some good men out there somewhere.. love ya girl..hugs..
@Tmp - aaawww, thank you, my beautiful friend. Peeps can be so inconsiderate in so many ways towards others. A lot of frogs out there. Good men do exist, just gotta hop over the lilypads and my balance sucks!!... *hugs*

In Luv, Lite, Laffter ...


trixietrixster 56F  
3125 posts
8/29/2018 8:43 am

    Quoting positively4you:
    First impressions go a long way. His action is an indicator of his future actions. Write that loser off.
@positively - so agreed at first impressions! It would seem most don't even think how important that is to some. Thanks for stopping by and your thoughts ...

In Luv, Lite, Laffter ...


trixietrixster 56F  
3125 posts
8/30/2018 5:49 am

    Quoting Bigred90999:
    Happens to the best of us, sometimes. There's all types around and its a M'Fr to weed through them all! Especially when ya get to feeling you're a magnet
@Big - takes all types to make this world an interesting place. Sometimes, I feel like a gardener, as you say, trying to weed thru. Uuummm - I've been known to kill plants that aren't even alive - HA!!

In Luv, Lite, Laffter ...


trixietrixster 56F  
3125 posts
8/31/2018 10:04 am

    Quoting MissCinders:
    Exactly why I dont drive long distances. Thank you for sharing
@Miss - done that once - never again - lesson learned. If someone wants to meet me, they either drive to me or no go. Appreciate you stopping by ...

In Luv, Lite, Laffter ...


trixietrixster 56F  
3125 posts
9/4/2018 7:41 pm

    Quoting Yours_4A_knight:
    It would be great to one day maybe get to the actually meeting a woman stage, you can dream right, but it men like this that make it so hard to get a real person to even agree to meet face to face.
@Yours - being an assclown isn't gender related. We just have to keep the faith ...

In Luv, Lite, Laffter ...


trixietrixster 56F  
3125 posts
9/4/2018 8:13 pm

    Quoting  :

@iwant - who the fuck knows why people do this crap. Maybe he thought I was going to realize he was gawd's gift to women and give him a quickie - only marathons in my world ...

In Luv, Lite, Laffter ...


trixietrixster 56F  
3125 posts
9/5/2018 4:31 am

    Quoting  :

@iwant - I had already told him several times that I wasn't going to fuck him. That I had no interest in something purely sexual. That's the thing: men think that as soon as a woman sees them she will suddenly decide she wants his cock in her mouth. Could happen - definitely not with me ...

In Luv, Lite, Laffter ...


trixietrixster 56F  
3125 posts
9/6/2018 4:41 am

    Quoting  :

@iwant - exactly why I don't hook up, it's meaningless. I don't need a man to get off - got bout 30 + vibes ...

In Luv, Lite, Laffter ...


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