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Strange Feelings  

WeCanShare27 34M/31F
7 posts
7/23/2015 6:13 pm
Strange Feelings

Female here.

The boyfriend and I decided that since our search to find a couple was not going in the direction we wanted, we'd play separately. I've played with one gentleman twice, and he's played with one woman once. He did have some worries when I spent three hours at this gentleman's apartment, but we talked them through. Now, it's been more than three hours that he's been with his play date...and I'm a mess.

Am I being a hypocrite? Is this feeling of dread normal? Am I just not cut out for a lifestyle like this?

When I had my two play dates, my boyfriend waited patiently and horny. But now, I'm second guessing this. Can someone please tell me that this is normal for a newbie????

2FUNPLAY1 68M/63F

7/23/2015 9:06 pm

 obviously lemon is very right on the button. I know I won't go for that arrangement. We've been with another couple. And I am not for my man to be with another woman 1 on 1. No way. and same with me. I don't want to be with another man 1 on 1.
So now that you have tried it and you didn't like it for him, then end it now and look for couples only


OttawaMan43sum 53M
2220 posts
7/24/2015 3:40 am

 You wrote that you're a mess. What exactly is it that is bothering you? Is it a fear that he will find someone else and leave you? Is it that you're used to having him around and now there are times when he's unavailable?

Jealousy is always the #1 killer in a swingers' lifestyle so it's important to be self-aware and talk things through with him before making a final decision.


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