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Dear Abby... I have this drop dead gorgeous woman who continues to send me friend requests...  

easy_going2014 57M
6738 posts
9/21/2015 9:40 pm
Dear Abby... I have this drop dead gorgeous woman who continues to send me friend requests...


Dear Abby... I have this drop dead gorgeous woman who continues to send me friend requests... Her pictures depict a goddess with melonlicious breasts... the kind I want to pay close attention to... for these are the kinds of breasts that I most enjoy...

However, I friended her and then she didn't respond to any of my messages... and, she doesn't post any blogs... so, I don't know why she is toying with me...

I have such a fragile heart, being a simple man, with simple needs, rather easy going... So, I unfriended her a few days ago... and, boom, she sent me another friend request...

I really don't know what to do... I mean, sure if I met her up close and personal, I know that she could please and be pleased... because two people with one heart... and, all of that gooey stuff... yes... it could happen... I don't think Sofia Karlberg would mind... and, I'm going to go on a limb and say that Azhar and Krrrristi could learn to luv her... well, maybe that is a stretch, but, I'm trying to cover all bases...

So, my question is what to do? She is a kazillion miles away... her pics reveal someone who is unattainable to this naïve soul... and, yet there could be fireworks and 'Go time' with this woman...

but, I'm perplexed as to what to do...

your advice would be greatly appreciated...

yours truly... easy_going 2014...

thanks, in advance!!!

just sayin'...

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sweet_VM 65F
81699 posts
9/21/2015 9:48 pm

I agree with canucook.. nice handle by the way.. I think she might be a fake profile as well.. The ball is in her court let her respond now hugssssssssssss V

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sweet_VM 65F
81699 posts
9/21/2015 9:48 pm

If the pics is too good to be true try checking the pic through those useful apps like tinyeye dot come and google imaging.. hugsssssssss V

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nightsoul1962 61F
17828 posts
9/21/2015 9:51 pm

Checked my mail box.....no mail from you; checked friendship status, still friends......ok, it's not me!!!

WITHOUT PASSION LIFE IS NOTHING


easy_going2014 57M
14366 posts
9/21/2015 9:53 pm

    Quoting  :

Hi CanUCook4Me...

thanks for the advice...

I was thinking that myself... but, then I looked at her friend count... and, maybe she is just a fake profile...

but, what if she is not... what if she is suffering from some sort of temporary amnesia and everytime she sees my grey silhouette, she gets all excited and wants to be long-life friends, and all she needs to do is meet with me...

and, then again... maybe not!!!

thanks again...

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Good luck!!!


easy_going2014 57M
14366 posts
9/21/2015 9:55 pm

    Quoting sweet_VM:
    I agree with canucook.. nice handle by the way.. I think she might be a fake profile as well.. The ball is in her court let her respond now hugssssssssssss V
Hi sweet_VM...

thanks for your comments...

I see what you are saying... ok... I'll wait to see if she responds... she hasn't yet... and, I haven't friended her... so, maybe she will get bold and show me who she really is...

thanks again!!!

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Good luck!!!


easy_going2014 57M
14366 posts
9/21/2015 9:57 pm

    Quoting sweet_VM:
    If the pics is too good to be true try checking the pic through those useful apps like tinyeye dot come and google imaging.. hugsssssssss V
thanks sweet_vm...

I may give those a try... investigative reporting... interesting... I may come out with a new blog with all of the responses I'm getting... and, this is the first time I've reached out to a 'Dear Abby' type of a question...

thanks again...

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Good luck!!!


easy_going2014 57M
14366 posts
9/21/2015 10:02 pm

    Quoting nightsoul1962:
    Checked my mail box.....no mail from you; checked friendship status, still friends......ok, it's not me!!!
Hi Nightsoul...

yes, we are still friends... you always brighten my day with your comments on my posts... even the crazy ones that I put out there...

the interesting thing about this 'whatever she is' is that her handle translates into 'she wants to luv u'... so, of course she has piqued my interest because she is from a Spanish speaking country and posts only in Spanish... so, I'm intrigued and luv to respond in English... I have a blogger friend from Argentina that I've posted on her blogs and she has posted on mine... and, she seems to be interesting... now, it is so safe, because she is 4K miles away... no harm, no foul... so, maybe I was thinking that this other woman was reading my posts on her blogs... it could happen... but, she doesn't write blogs, so that's what is throwing me...

It's probably a fake profile...

thanks again Nightsoul!!!

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Good luck!!!


easy_going2014 57M
14366 posts
9/21/2015 10:04 pm

    Quoting  :

Hi aflower...

thanks for your comments...

I think that is very good advice... thanks...

I've never blocked anyone on NoStrings... I've unfriended some women... and on FB I've blocked some women... but, not here... I will give that some thought...

thanks again...

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Good luck!!!


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
9/21/2015 10:05 pm

Have to agree with the others, that it sounds like a fake profile.
As you know, the site wants to encourage paying customers (the majority of whom are men), to keep paying, so messages / friend requests will get generated.
Sit back and do nothing and see what happens.
By the way...I have been a silent viewer of your blogs for awhile now. Keep up the great work!


easy_going2014 57M
14366 posts
9/21/2015 10:12 pm

    Quoting sexyldy1000:
    Have to agree with the others, that it sounds like a fake profile.
    As you know, the site wants to encourage paying customers (the majority of whom are men), to keep paying, so messages / friend requests will get generated.
    Sit back and do nothing and see what happens.
    By the way...I have been a silent viewer of your blogs for awhile now. Keep up the great work!

Hi sexyldy...

Thanks for finally commenting on my blog...

I've noticed that you had been here, but, you had never posted before...

I try to always post when I go to someone's blog... the rare time that I don't is when the subject matter is not for me... and, I'm not going to criticize... I like being here and have met some interesting women... well, only one, face-to-face... but, in cyber world terms, I've corresponded with some interesting people...

Your point is well taken... however, I am a 'free' member and, have enjoyed my time here... don't see the point that someone would have for my interest... I'm just a simple man... easy going...

I'll sit back and see what happens...

I'm glad that you like my blogs... I'll read and comment on some of yours!!!

thanks again....

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Good luck!!!


easy_going2014 57M
14366 posts
9/21/2015 10:30 pm

    Quoting  :

Hi NoMoreMrStr8Guy.

Thanks for your comments on my blog.

Yes, that is probably a good answer.

She probably would sell the plane ticket if I sent her one...

But, then again, she might just come right on down to DFW...

I'll probably see a response from her later today... maybe, she too is reading my blogs, but, I've not seen her on my blogs... I just think that she must have been reading the posts that I put on another woman's blogs...

thanks, again...

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Good luck!!!


2trythis 60F
5109 posts
9/22/2015 5:51 am

I guess it depends what expectations you have from your friends. Some just collect friends for whatever reason, maybe because they think it makes them popular or strokes their ego. Others actually maintain a realistic group of friends who they truly interact with. Someone once told me that you can earn points by having friends, maybe they are trying to get or maintain a gold membership. I personally don't use the friends feature unless it is to temporarily view a friends only album. If we exchange blog comments or emails then we are friends, not who has clicked on a "friend" button. Bottom line, trust your instincts. Thanks and enjoy your day.


easy_going2014 57M
14366 posts
9/22/2015 7:31 am

    Quoting  :

Hi Joy.

Thanks for your comments.

The general consensus is that it is a fake or a scammer.

Thanks...

I think I'll just ignore her until she send me RT tix to Argentina!!!!

I've always wanted to visit. I've been to Chile and Brazil.

Thanks again!

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Good luck!!!


easy_going2014 57M
14366 posts
9/22/2015 11:01 am

    Quoting  :

Hello Countess!!

Thanks for the comments...

I will go with my gut instincts!!!

Thanks

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Good luck!!!


easy_going2014 57M
14366 posts
9/22/2015 11:09 am

    Quoting 2trythis:
    I guess it depends what expectations you have from your friends. Some just collect friends for whatever reason, maybe because they think it makes them popular or strokes their ego. Others actually maintain a realistic group of friends who they truly interact with. Someone once told me that you can earn points by having friends, maybe they are trying to get or maintain a gold membership. I personally don't use the friends feature unless it is to temporarily view a friends only album. If we exchange blog comments or emails then we are friends, not who has clicked on a "friend" button. Bottom line, trust your instincts. Thanks and enjoy your day.
Hi 2tt...

Thanks for reading and commenting...

I agree with you...

Thanks again!!!

Have a great day!

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Good luck!!!


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