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How Far Do You Go  

rm_PrisicaK 49F
712 posts
5/9/2016 6:58 am
How Far Do You Go
I've had a couple of first dates (not hookups) and have been surprised that both guys were down for sex. Assuming your date is a complete stranger and a blank page, how far do you go on the first date
A peck on the cheek and a hug
Hot make out session
Second base
Third Base
Swinging for the fences
New kink


rm_PrisicaK 49F
479 posts
5/9/2016 7:07 am

 First base is enough for me. I allowed both men to touch my bare thigh which I guess is second base but it's a great deal to me. I like a fire to build but men seem to want to dump a bunch of lighter fluid for a big blaze that dies quickly.


rdy2try4 59F  
3330 posts
5/9/2016 7:19 am

 I sadly watched a conversation on this in the chatroom I talk in. The guy said he was going on a date for the first time with a woman and he truly hoped she didn't want to have sex. When I asked him why he said, seriously, that if she had sex on the first date he would have to get rid of her. I asked why and he replied, hold your seats folks, if she put out on the first date with him how many others did she do that for and he couldn't go out seriously with a woman that had sex on the first dates with men. I may not have sex on my first date, but I defended those that did with a resounding YOU are there and YOU are having sex on the first date. What does that make YOU?? How come is it that it is okay for men to have sex on a first date, but you judge the women as tramps if they do exactly what YOU are doing? He got angry with me for that and I totally didn't let up. If two people are there and two people have sex on the first date how does one become a stud and the other become a whore????? I told him that he was able to say no if he truly didn't want that to which he replied, omfg I couldn't believe it, that he DID want to have sex with her and wouldn't say no. I came back with even though you now will judge her for giving you what YOU want and it is something you BOTH want??? Yes, he would think she was a skank and never see her again even if it was something he wanted and/or they both wanted due to the fact that it was the first date and no woman worth her weight would do that.

I am totally taken aback by the double standards and the fact that men worry so much about 'how many men has she done this with' and not care how many women they do that with. What does it really matter? I mean seriously, if someone likes you so much they are willing to share their body with you why would anyone suddenly go to 'who else did they do this with?' and 'what a tramp'?????


rm_gary4ddfun69 69M
Ask me for a photo
169 posts
5/9/2016 7:35 am

 I am open minded. If the lady is giving me signs that she wants to get physical on the first time out...You betcha, I will comply.


rm_PrisicaK 49F
479 posts
5/9/2016 11:23 am

 Real chemistry is when I step away from the moment and still have good feelings about you. If I fuck a guy before I've had a chance to fully process our interaction (I.e. a good night's sleep) the "chemistry" is based off the sex. If the sex was crap so is the chemistry. No harm no foul for the guy, but I don't feel good about myself afterwards.


sika41 62M
643 posts
5/9/2016 5:47 pm
    Quoting rdy2try4:
    I sadly watched a conversation on this in the chatroom I talk in. The guy said he was going on a date for the first time with a woman and he truly hoped she didn't want to have sex. When I asked him why he said, seriously, that if she had sex on the first date he would have to get rid of her. I asked why and he replied, hold your seats folks, if she put out on the first date with him how many others did she do that for and he couldn't go out seriously with a woman that had sex on the first dates with men. I may not have sex on my first date, but I defended those that did with a resounding YOU are there and YOU are having sex on the first date. What does that make YOU?? How come is it that it is okay for men to have sex on a first date, but you judge the women as tramps if they do exactly what YOU are doing? He got angry with me for that and I totally didn't let up. If two people are there and two people have sex on the first date how does one become a stud and the other become a whore????? I told him that he was able to say no if he truly didn't want that to which he replied, omfg I couldn't believe it, that he DID want to have sex with her and wouldn't say no. I came back with even though you now will judge her for giving you what YOU want and it is something you BOTH want??? Yes, he would think she was a skank and never see her again even if it was something he wanted and/or they both wanted due to the fact that it was the first date and no woman worth her weight would do that.

    I am totally taken aback by the double standards and the fact that men worry so much about 'how many men has she done this with' and not care how many women they do that with. What does it really matter? I mean seriously, if someone likes you so much they are willing to share their body with you why would anyone suddenly go to 'who else did they do this with?' and 'what a tramp'?????
Personally I could care less about how many adventures she'd had before me as long as she was disease free !

I mean what the heck I've had more then my fair share of adventures so whats good for the goose is good for the gander so to speak !


rdy2try4 59F  
3330 posts
5/9/2016 8:26 pm
    Quoting sika41:
    Personally I could care less about how many adventures she'd had before me as long as she was disease free !

    I mean what the heck I've had more then my fair share of adventures so whats good for the goose is good for the gander so to speak !
The only comment I can make is I wish more men thought that way. Unfortunately, it doesn't work out that way. The idea of there are women to play with and women you marry as BiggLala said is still quite rampant.


zeke53028 65M  
Ask me for a photo
1135 posts
5/10/2016 4:13 am

 It all depends on the chemistry.


rm_PrisicaK replies on 5/10/2016 8:20 am:
Chemistry? What is that code for? I study chemistry and people abuse this word. It implies analysis, critical thinking, dissection. It's not a conclusion drawn on five minutes of interactive largely biochemically based.

nemaa345772284 30M
1 post
5/10/2016 12:02 pm

 hi


notsure1949 75M
10657 posts
5/10/2016 1:07 pm

 maybe a casual breast caress


aki0804 38M
75 posts
5/11/2016 10:59 pm

 when we know we on same page and arrange a date or meeting then we not there to discuss politics so we all there for sex but for sure before it the partner should be comfortable


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