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Best Practices  

rm_PrisicaK 49F
712 posts
4/5/2016 12:12 pm
Best Practices


I have been actively seeking a relationship, not a patchwork of men whose needs I service on a whim. I have heard arguments pro and against online dating. My stance is that I most likely qualify as a niche market making marketing in those outlets futile. I have tried "speed dating" but I the turnout is quite unpredictable mostly more women than probably why some have retitled as speed friending. I have been advised that geography is my downfall and if I relocate to a more suitable climate I will have better results. I have even been advised to make a career change to work in arenas heavily frequented by eligible men. Lastly there is matchmaking for those able to or serious enough to invest.
I'm open to suggestions on ways to find a relationship. Do any of the ones I've listed work better than others?

pocogato12 71F  
37235 posts
4/5/2016 12:34 pm

Well having discovered that your small city is one of the fastest growing in the USA and is it considered part of the Greater Austin area. It is also posted as being an affordable place and safe. I do not think relocation is the move. I cant read your profile so I will have to reserve my suggestions. Don't give up

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s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
4/5/2016 1:38 pm

Try a meetup group that meets for whatever it is you like!Within reason.

Using more than all the road!


rm_PrisicaK 49F
479 posts
4/5/2016 2:18 pm

I have tried that as it relates to singles activities, but what would you suggest, a sewing circle


Owatalife 67M
1711 posts
4/5/2016 5:14 pm

Being an avid follower of your writings here I would say yes geography is probably your biggest obstacle to finding someone more to your liking. After all you are smart & a very attractive sensuous woman so obviously being somewhere with a larger population would no doubt help....not quite so sure about a sewing circle though.


rm_PrisicaK 49F
479 posts
4/5/2016 7:21 pm

Letting things flow naturally means not at all. I don't want to waste another two years of effort expense and hoop jumping to wind up back at this spot. I think if I'm honest about what I want I have a better shot at getting it


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