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Deep In The Heart  

Oceana1969 58F  
206 posts
9/14/2014 4:12 pm
Deep In The Heart


Have you ever met someone that just took that WOWOW Factor to the next level? By this I mean feelings...your heart. Someone that captured your heart like no one else ever did (or that rare occasion where it did). No, I don't mean lust or sex either. But they walk in the door and actually capture your heart???

Well, this has recently happened to me. I think about this person day and night and wonder how he is, what's he's doing etc. No, I'm not stalking either. LOL. He's sexy, intelligent, warm, loving, caring, gracious and everything I was looking to meet in a person.

How does one fight those feelings? How does one just sit back and wait? One knows that if you say something tooo soon, that it could scare someone away as they might not feel the same way.

I do hope at some point someone will miss me as much as I miss them. I pray someone thinks about me in this fashion.

Just my mind thinking I guess.....

flowerkings2012 60M
4312 posts
9/14/2014 4:32 pm

When you think of all the people in the world, the sheer amount of people who could potentially fit or match that criteria...it should happen fairly often; but doesn't- I think

It's not just the person, but it's finding them at the right time in your life, and theirs, as well as in the right place and the right mindset for both

We can but dream that such a scenario, as you outlined above, is possible, even probable, for us. Deep down, we all need it


Oceana1969 replies on 9/15/2014 10:23 am:
Yes, flowerkings, we all do need it. But it's making sure we find it when we are both in the same place. If he's not, and I say something, it could be the very end to something beautiful.

justpervin29 50M
2598 posts
9/14/2014 6:32 pm

Thats so great you have that feeling (its such a wonderful rare feeling). You know you are amazing, he would be lucky to spend any time with you. Those feelings can be scary - trust your instincts and be true to yourself. The time is right when the words need a voice. So tough to put yourself out there. You know I am always in your corner regardless

Smile - you never know who may need one
justpervin29 - comments are most welcomed.


Oceana1969 replies on 9/15/2014 10:20 am:
Thank you JustP. You will always be in my front corner and I will be in yours. Your friendship means the world to me. Thank you for being in that corner for me and next time make it with me...wink wink.

NJGUY08090 57M
4306 posts
9/15/2014 9:21 pm

Had that when I was too young to know what to do with her. She made me feel like no other. I let her go and I regret it even to this day. She has been married three times and I do not think she has ever felt the felt we felt when we were together. We see each other on rare ocasions but have not been able to tell how we realy still feel about each other.


scoupe42 60M

9/18/2014 9:12 pm

There someone for everyone, but you and him haven't cross paths yet.


fiveeighthsmil3 60F
36 posts
9/30/2014 6:03 pm

Nice Blog
I think I have. I wish you and your heart all the best I hope he sees and feels the same about you with time (I do not know the details with him)
Never easy to fight the feelings it is what it is.....why not go with them....let it be....let it help you smile every second.... let it warm your moments and days Enjoy.(I am loving me and my life 95% of my days with the warm feeling in my heart)
The saying patience is a virtue comes to mind...lol I think of patience my ass---blunt, open and honest. I want to know now where do I stand. If pain lets get it over with and let me move on.
I really think if meant to be it will be...creator has our destiny set.
I understand and agree with if too soon may scare away........Those are real and true fears for you and I(I am battling/questioning still) ....... justpervin is so smart n sweet............." Those feelings can be scary - trust your instincts and be true to yourself. ---The time is right when the words need a voice. So tough to put yourself out there.".......justpervin hello....... Oceana1969 please take care of you and your loved ones. "Smile Awhile"


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