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I am not comfortable trying anal sex? How do I get comfortable doing it?
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I am not comfortable trying anal sex? How do I get comfortable doing it? If anyone has any suggestios on how to get comfortable trying and getting use to anal sex.        |
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nice pictures dear.....hmmm well first get rid of any preconceived notions about anal sex and any taboo....open your mind here a little bit more than your anus  ..... relax yourself a lot and you have you explore your body and your parts before you let anyone or anything enter your parts. You can start with your middle finger (use lube generously) and start exploring your anus and see what triggers your orgasm, it takes time so patience is key here.....don't expect things to happen as soon as you enter your finger, though it might happen soon. Once you feel comfortable with one finger you can try with two fingers or an anal toy Anal Beads: These are the easiest and most comfortable to use for beginners, especially the “graduated-size” beads that start small and get gradually bigger. Graduated beads often come in “sticks” of soft flexible material like silicone or jelly connecting the beads. A good example of these beads are jelly anal beads with 10 beads that start at only a quarter-inch diameter. Of course there are beads on actual strings, and even vibrating anal beads that light up and flash in different colors -- you have to see these work to believe them!). And if you’re worried that these toys might get lost “up there,” relax: anal beads come with handles. How to use them: Remember to lube up generously! Insert the beads slowly, giving yourself a chance to get used to the feel. When the beads feel good, stop inserting and leave the beads in during sex. When you start to climax, pull the beads out one at a time, straight down, during orgasm. Be prepared for screams of pleasure. Anal Plugs: Anal or butt plugs are designed to stay in place during sex. They’re tapered cones to glide in easily, but quickly widen for more sensations. Butt plugs can vibrate or not, and many of them come with a suction-cup base for solo play. Then there are plugs that are more like a combination of anal beads and butt plugs For a mind-bending sensation, you can also get anal plugs that vibrate. How to use them: You can leave the plug in place all during sex, or during masturbation. Start slowly, breathe deeply and relax your sphincter muscles as the plug goes in. Eventually, your muscles will relax just below the widest part of the plug, holding it in place. Don’t panic if it comes out: using an anal plug takes practice as your muscles get used to the sex toy. Try these with something in your vagina for extreme pleasure. Then maybe once comfortable you can try real cock...... I have tried to insert my finger in my anus and try to find out how it feels like to have a cock inside anus but was never that exciting but recently read up on lot of articles and watched loads of educational videos on prostate massage. Recently did a proper prostate massage and came with a huge load and orgasm for a long time it was really exciting and something new. Would love to try a real cock sometime once I get used to it. I would suggest you trying this on your partner as well if he is open minded as its nothing gay about. Also some articles suggest its good for prostates health. Also in that process you will know how to guide your partner into your ass.... Hope this was helpful..... Rogerred1's Fantasy blog Sex with BiSexual Couple MaleFemale She fucks my ass with a strapless straponFeeldoe My First Anal Sex Receiving
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AGREE with what rodgerred said BUT, its all gonna come down to your partner. once you work up to a partner. IF he is someone you can trust, and will not PILE DRIVE your asshole first chance he gets. I tried anal once, and the temptation to make her scream was too great for me..lol ~Linc was here.~
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Why would you want to do something you are not comfortable with? Are you being pressured into trying it? AB No Bozos
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I think you've gotten some good advice. All I can say is relax with a man you are comfortable with. If he's gentle and takes his time, you'll end up loving it.
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