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Married and cheating
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Married and cheating Married and cheating. In the past month I have read “I am in a sexless marriage” over and over again in answer to the question are you married? While I am quite sympathetic to the plight of those who don’t have enough sex (I don’t believe that one can ever get enough) I have also had to realize that I am not responsible for anyone but me. I gave 20 years of my life to one man exclusively and while the sex was always very good the other parts of the marriage were not… I never cheated on my marriage. When we divorced I found that that had not been the case for him however and not only had he cheated, he started the first year that we were married. Despite this and finding out that in many of my subsequent committed relationships that I had been cheated on I remain faithful to some core beliefs. I would truly like to be married again (just once more to the day I die) and I would like karma to know that I don’t need a cheater in my life. In my lifestyle choice honesty is the key to a happy healthy long sex filled relationship and IT IS A CHOICE. I choose to have fwb’s in my life that are honesty based and the sex is great. I think that the sex is can be great with anyone you choose to be with, for me there are few things that are harder to deal with then a lie. I don’t care if you leak lust and have the cock of a god. Your dishonesty taints everything about you! If I lived my life dishonorably then I would expect that to be what comes into my life. The saying goes that you should surround yourself with people that you want to be like. So while I will give you that it is your CHOICE to cheat, it is my CHOICE not to help you. I do realize that once you have made the choice to cheat, every time you go there it becomes a little easier. Understand that I am not judging you or your choices I am just not willing to entertain your ideas in my lifestyle. My advice would be talk to your wife or significant other rebuild some trust with them and then work on meeting each others needs… who knows you may just find the sex you always desired is right under you the whole time. Honesty is a very freeing and addictive concept, the more I am open with people the more I find that they accept me the way I am, the more open and honest I can be with them. In the end the best sex I have is not from what happened between my legs but from what was stimulated between my ears. there are some things that bear repeating as i dont have time to say everything every time... Lets Create together. http://NoStrings.com/blog/jadesmith69 we can fantasize forever. J |
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Fantastic blog entry and ideals there, I couldn't agree more with you.
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very well said, I also will not entertain married men. Honesty is and always will be my choice.
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We agree with you. If you can't play fair, sray home. In our relationship, we are both allowed to do whatever we desire as long as we are honest with eachother. Your spouse should always come first and your extra activities second.
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so i just met a couple who are married and cheating. (they are both married but not to each other) I knew that there was someone out there for everyone... now that i have lived my life so "openly" i could never go back to the dishonesty of any kind of covert activity. i am even totally honest with my FWBs thats just who i am. Lets Create together. http://NoStrings.com/blog/jadesmith69 we can fantasize forever. J
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Human nature is always to want what we can't have. We all have to live with our choices and also need to respect others. I have found that most people will take a line that makes them feel ok with their choices...such as..." I rob banks but I don't shoot anybody. There is somebody always out there to fill a need if you look hard enough.
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